One night stands/casual sex

[champagnedrunk]

Both my husband and myself have only ever been with each other sexually. I have dated in the past and so has he but very short "relationships" I mean a date or two here and there, none of which lead to sex or anything close.

We met in our early 20's and have been together 15 years we have two young children.

Is it common for two people in their 30's to have never have had a sexual relationship with anyone else, we do not come from religious backgrounds or anything like that.

I see people out having casual sex and one night stands and just wonder why? What is the point? Surely you'd get as much sexual pleasure at home with a sex toy as you would from another person? We have an amazing sex life and relationship and and don't feel like we missed out on anything by not having other sexual relationships.

My friend married the first person who ever dipped his genitals in her and he's an absolute arsehole, she could do better and I've never felt sadder at a wedding in my life.
My other friend is like me, dated, dabbled, had different relationships, a few ONS just for fun, worked out who she was and what she wanted/needed and then married an absolute gem of a man.

You sound like you're still at the emotional stage of a teenager who finds the whole business a bit embarrassing to be honest, but "yay" for you I suppose 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ooof - going to have to start charging commission!!

If there is one thing l have got from this judgemental thread, it’s the expression “genital dipping”. That will stay with me for life 😂.

l hope someone will dip their genitals in me before dinner this evening. In my world nighttime bed is for sleep. But before dinner is the real purr making dip.

True - I had one of those. His tenure was quite short ☺️.

ONS's have absolutely no appeal to me either OP, I'd prefer a vibrator to a random man - but I don't think I would want to have only ever slept with one person either. So I'm very happy somewhere in the middle I guess. But if you're happy that's all that matters.

Do you wear rubber gloves in bed, and undress in the dark - and keep your bra on when you haves this 'amazing sex' @champagnedrunk ??? 😆!

Whilst I think anyone having multiple 100s of sexual partners is a bit much (JMO,) I also think that just having ONE partner your whole life and only shagging them, doesn't make you a better person, (nor is it anything to be proud of.) I mean whatever floats your boats, but there is a strong air of smugness to your posts.

Also, you are only in your mid THIRTIES. You are rather deluded if you think you will never have any other sexual partner, ever, and hilariously deluded if you think your HUSBAND will never shag anyone else!

Ooh busted OP! The link to your other post makes this one make more sense now.
Sounds to me like you want to try someone else's genitalia but you don't want to admit it. You do sound very curious.

Plus how can anyone say their partner is good in bed without having anything else to compare it to?

That was an odd post wasn't it? 😆 DH's exes are exes for a reason, because he didn't want to be with them anymore. I don't think he has ever mentioned any exes, and I have never mentioned any of mine. He was single for about 2 years when we met (and I had been single for about a year, but even my last one had only lasted 4 months.) Imagine spending even a single second of your time worrying and stressing about your DH's exes?! WTF? 😬

Anything to say about this @champagnedrunk ???

Given the link shared by a PP I suspect the OP, if they're not simply pulling our chains, is in the business of romanticising a relationship that isn't to her satisfaction either.

Take op isn’t coming back.

Ops sex life and relationship not so special then.

Weird to come brag about about a lie. I guess op is trying to convince herself she doesn’t want to shag anyone else.

Well you were fortunate to have met your partner, not everyone is that lucky. Also why are you so bothered by who anyone else chooses to sleep with?

Note how the OP hasn't come back after her last smug and judgemental comment
Seems like she started the thread to be a judgemental dickhead.
Personally the idea of ever having sex with only person my entire life is absolutely fucking boring!

You sound judgy, smug, tedious and very boring !
Good for you - bravo ! 🏆
One sexual partner ..... Im so jealous, in awe, envious ..... said not many people ever
You may have missed out on a huge piece of your potential life enjoyment, or maybe not
Who actually really cares 🤣😂🤣