To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment?

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Just that really... mine is that I feel frumpy and ugly. Having always been tiny, I've gotten to 30 and I suddenly just feel disgusted with what I see any time someone takes a photo of me.

If you could click your fingers and remove a problem you have, what would it be?

DH has Multiple Myeloma, the chemo doesn’t seem to be helping and he is still bed bound. Spiked a temp and inability to urinate today so blue lighted to hospital. Can’t go with him as 3 and 4 year olds on Easter Holidays and no alternative childcare.

2 hours later 3 year olds temp shot up, so looks like we have a shitty virus hitting us.

Ferrous Fumarate is usually prescribed at 210mg to treat anemia so yes it's safe. You can buy it at the pharmacy!

I know this is just the comment of someone from the Internet but please take whatever bit of courage you have and leave. 💮

This is really kind of you.

You're in the prime of your life! Please leave. The world becomes a damn good place when you find someone who makes you happy. I say that as a formally suicidal person whose been in multiple physically and emotionally abusive relationships as that's all I thought I deserved.

Lost mum last month so definitely grief. My daughter has a pacemaker it constantly worries me

Overweight. Realised that if I continue on the trajectory I'm on, I'll be 15st by 2026. Need to do something but wow its hard. Finding the motivation is hard.

DS13 in teenager mode. All he wants to do is sleep and game. He isn't doing well at school and doesn't care. Feel like he has so much he keeps to himself.

My health isn't great. Health anxiety even worse. It rules my life.

I miss my stepdaughter. She estranged herself nearly 5 years ago without any explanation and I'll never understand.

I miss my Nan and my Dad. Nan died in 2020, Dad in 2021. I miss them both, every single day.

Life is hard for a lot of people. My heart goes out to everyone.

You’re sad and grieving, don’t beat yourself up for lacking the motivation to lose weight. Please be kind to yourself and perhaps read some helpful books on bereavement.

I’ve been there with the DS who only cares about gaming and sleep. I promise it can get better 🙏.

I worry constantly about my eldest child. She’s just ‘different’ and I don’t know how she will find her place in the world without us.

Can’t imagine how hard things must be for you. Feeling sad on your behalf that the universe choose to dump this on your family.

I binge eat as a coping mechanism, so I am overweight.
I live an ocean away from most of my family and closest friends.
My Dad has cancer.

My house. It’s got so many things that need fixing it’s hard to know where to start. Then the process of finding a tradesperson, working out if the price is vaguely fair and if they’re competent and trustworthy.

One company I have booked work with can’t start yet because apparently they’re still waiting for materials to arrive. I’ve already paid a 50% deposit so they better not be fucking cowboys.

I’m a single parent (have been since birth of my child) and I’m disabled and deal with severe, debilitating chronic pain each day. My son is also on the spectrum and is very hyperactive and the combination of being in pain and not getting a break from having to do everything - I’m just very overwhelmed and depressed if I’m being honest.

Ty sweety xxx. DH is home now, virus moved off so a good day xx

I hear you and I feel you x

Money. Mortgage deal about to run out and am anxious about the probable increase in monthly payments.

Wondering whether today will be the day that my DS has a successful suicide attempt.

@speakout I am so sorry. I've been there and won't post my one now. I really hope you get to the point where you no longer worry as your ds is well.

BirthdayRainbow thankyou.* *

Right now - mental health / grief

I'm really sorry you are going through such a horrible time. I hope things get better for you x