To not want to share a room on holiday with MIL

[seeitthroughmyeyes]

My LT fiancé's parents kindly paid for all of us to go to new forest this year with his three nephews, sister, her husband and his parents. The three nephews are an absolute pain, they are badly behaved, rude and irritating.

I've now been told I'm no longer going to be sharing a room with my fiancé as the three boys want to share a room with their uncle. Obviously, I'm not happy sharing a room with my MIL for 4 days, although I love her to bits. I'm a grown adult.
Both my fiancé and me have agreed we no longer want to do family holidays with them because it's exhausting and we aren't exactly a big fan of children, albeit they are family.

AIBU for not wanting to share a room with my MIL and no longer wanting to participate in family holidays with them?
If so, how do we go about telling them in the future we no longer want to join without upsetting them.

Thanks for the update! Look forward to hearing how it went, but hope it strengthens the united front of you and your fiancé whatever happens.

Good update OP. And of course you now know to nip further family holiday plans firmly in the bud from now on. If they book without getting agreement with you in future it's their money and their loss. Stand firm for this holiday - I can see you being asked to make compromises neither you or your fiancé had considered. 🌹

@seeitthroughmyeyes How did the trip go?

Ffs, why do people get stuck in these situations??

Just tell mil there's no way that's happening. U should have said that at the time. I can't believe so many people just don't speak up and need to resort to here for advice. Sorry I don't mean to be harsh but grow a backbone.

That made me laugh 😆