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To want every women in England to vote Tory at the GR

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Hurrydash · 28/03/2024 02:01

So I don't agree with Angela Rayner's description of the Tories as scum, but I get her drift and if she'd been more tempered in her language I probably would have bought in.

HOWEVER

For me - and actually should be got everyone - the only real issue at the next GE is freedom of speech/women's rights.

I see Labour as the destroyer of these and so must vote against them. The only meaningful way to do this is to vote Tory which I am reluctant but prepared to do.

Is this unreasonable?

Happy to be convinced - for real not just words - if there is evidence Labour (Starmer 1 in 1000 women have a dick) may see the light before the GE.

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MrsMurphyIWish · 28/03/2024 05:55

Who has been in government for the last 14 years? I think in that time women’s rights have taken a massive step back.

I teach - we have unisex toilets, I call children by their chosen pronouns without parents being aware, porn culture is rife - but yes, that’s Labour’s fault.

RainStreakedWindows · 28/03/2024 05:56

Hurrydash · 28/03/2024 03:13

Wow!

Loads of stuff from Labour supporters highlighting how rubbish the Tories have been.

Yes agreed.

BUT

What are Labour's policies on women's rights??

Take a look and come back with something positive - if you can.

Well I hope that the issues over childcare get resolved. The tories have screwed up the free childcare making it difficult for lots of families to find childcare and that predominantly affects women.

Much more difficult to access the care system for our older generation so, again, the care mainly falls to women.

Most teachers are women and under the Tories schools have become increasingly difficult places to work, hence a teacher shortage.

You are nuts if you think the tories care about women more than Labour.

I cannot wait to see the back of them and have Starmer in office.

TheBreezyOne · 28/03/2024 05:58

Nice try, when they have disabled people's backs I will vote for them

ChinChinDarlings · 28/03/2024 05:59

StarlightLady · 28/03/2024 05:52

I can see why you did not enable voting with a question like this.

😂

BrainNotAvailableTryAnotherOne · 28/03/2024 06:00

Sorry, no. Tories don’t support women.

As a proof, they have destroyed the NHS to a point where it’s impossible for them to get properly listened/believed/supported/referred for many womanly health concerns.

That’s more than enough.

RheaRend · 28/03/2024 06:01

I don't want Tories as they fucked things up.

I don't want Labour as they started fucking things up especially with the NHS - THEY were the ones starting to close services and fuck up funding.

Neither will do good. I understand the woman thing though. I can't vote for a party who do not know what a woman is. If they don't know what a woman is they do not want this woman's vote.

GKD · 28/03/2024 06:02

Hurrydash · 28/03/2024 02:48

Or just concerned about women's rights?

No evidence from you about why I am naive.

Typical of anti women's rights activists.

What about black women’s rights?

The Tories feel it’s acceptable to take and campaign using money from someone who feels it’s acceptable to hate us all.
Trivia I think it’s been referred as.

BrainNotAvailableTryAnotherOne · 28/03/2024 06:04

@RheaRend Tories would have had 14 years to reverse the trend if they wished, instead they chose to double up.

meltingmyhead · 28/03/2024 06:04

The only real issue!! That's the dumbest thing I've heard in a while. Being able to afford decent housing, access to healthcare, education... these all affect women. I'm more worried about being able to pay my increasing rent than anything right now, and that doesn't mean woman's rights aren't important to me.

LittleGlowingOblong · 28/03/2024 06:04

What’s happening to women’s rights is a global phenomenon and not a party political issue.

The Tories have inflicted such unspeakable, irremediable damage to this country that anyone voting for them is frankly unpatriotic.

ChinChinDarlings · 28/03/2024 06:07

MrsMurphyIWish · 28/03/2024 05:55

Who has been in government for the last 14 years? I think in that time women’s rights have taken a massive step back.

I teach - we have unisex toilets, I call children by their chosen pronouns without parents being aware, porn culture is rife - but yes, that’s Labour’s fault.

But you can wind all of that back to Gillick Competence, which I am not agin! But, as a teacher, an educator, this is not new schizzle, this is all Gillick Competent.

I actually met Victoria Gillick way back, she was a very interesting woman. Really driven by what we as young women then considered to be very retrogressive ideals. However, as a middle-aged woman now, she was actually on to something.

Alway1insomethingstat · 28/03/2024 06:09

Margritte · 28/03/2024 02:14

The Tory party is NO friend of women. Any vote for the Tories is a vote against women.

I spent decades being respectful of other people's political opinions. Now? I judge the living FUCK out of anyone voting Tory these days.

They are an absolute disgrace, in every sense.

This.

op- I think you need to go research the Tory party.
There’s a lot I could say but I won’t because I will get mad.

don’t vote Tory - it’s time they were out. they’ve caused enough damage. What in the world would make you think they care about women?! Anyway.
Just don’t.
The fact you’re subject is misspelling woman as women made me roll my eyes and think typical Tory.. well that says it all 😂

don’t sway people to your thinking when you haven’t done enough thinking.

doppelganger2 · 28/03/2024 06:09

Hurrydash · 28/03/2024 02:01

So I don't agree with Angela Rayner's description of the Tories as scum, but I get her drift and if she'd been more tempered in her language I probably would have bought in.

HOWEVER

For me - and actually should be got everyone - the only real issue at the next GE is freedom of speech/women's rights.

I see Labour as the destroyer of these and so must vote against them. The only meaningful way to do this is to vote Tory which I am reluctant but prepared to do.

Is this unreasonable?

Happy to be convinced - for real not just words - if there is evidence Labour (Starmer 1 in 1000 women have a dick) may see the light before the GE.

what did the Tories actuallydo to improve the life of women? help me put here!

Garlicnaan · 28/03/2024 06:09

PrinceLouisWeirdFinger · 28/03/2024 02:37

All this nonsense is LITERALLY happening under the Tories watch. They’ve been in power for the last 14 years - they created the conditions for this mess. The only reason they ‘know what a woman is’ is to fuck them over even more. They are not fighting against the claptrap - they are creating the claptrap. They’re not some innocent bystander clutching their pearls - It’s their laws under their watch. They are culpable.

Well yeah... I don't agree with their stance myself but looking at it objectively - what have they actually done towards solving immigration issues, solving economic downturn, stopping women becoming more marginalized, supporting free speech, because all of those things have got WORSE in the last 10 years. They put laws in against protest which will impact anyone wanting to protest against the very issue you feel strongly about.

"But, but, Rishi Sunak said a man is a man and a woman is a woman..." Really, you'd vote for them despite the above, based on THAT?!

VestibuleVirgin · 28/03/2024 06:11

Hurrydash · 28/03/2024 02:01

So I don't agree with Angela Rayner's description of the Tories as scum, but I get her drift and if she'd been more tempered in her language I probably would have bought in.

HOWEVER

For me - and actually should be got everyone - the only real issue at the next GE is freedom of speech/women's rights.

I see Labour as the destroyer of these and so must vote against them. The only meaningful way to do this is to vote Tory which I am reluctant but prepared to do.

Is this unreasonable?

Happy to be convinced - for real not just words - if there is evidence Labour (Starmer 1 in 1000 women have a dick) may see the light before the GE.

Is that you, Rishi?
Or the woman who posted yesterday telling us we MUST keep our cats in for the next 5 nights on pain of death?
Put 'grip' on your shopping list today, you need to get one

Waitingforgeorge · 28/03/2024 06:11

I will not be voting Tory and their mean, dishonest morally corrupt Government. I don’t believe the Tory party are pro women, I think they are populist and lead on hate and division. I don’t support the Labour position on the definition of a woman and I will continue to object to this but they are the lesser of two evils.

StarlightLady · 28/03/2024 06:12

Is that you Rishi? 😀

Elebag · 28/03/2024 06:13

The Tories aren't supportive of women either to be fair.

HeadNorth · 28/03/2024 06:14

For me - and actually should be got everyone - the only real issue at the next GE is freedom of speech/women's rights.

Scuttle back to the FWR board where they are prepared to entertain your war on woke nonsense.

DoorPath · 28/03/2024 06:16

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Orang1na · 28/03/2024 06:16

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

You have got to be kidding. Over my dead body would I vote Tory after what they’ve done to this country, women, children, young people and the vulnerable.

Never, ever. Now could the Tory politicians bore off with their desperate attempts to grab a few votes. Nobody is that stupid.

PearlClutcher101 · 28/03/2024 06:16

I would rather die than vote Tory. I’m active in politics (Labour) in a former red wall constituency that now has an utterly useless MP who spends most of his time visiting local businesses (ok admirable yes) and showing off how he didn’t claim expenses for his £3 sandwich 🙄 we’re also getting a big new fancy station (not needed right now) and a museum, yet they can’t even fill in our potholes! Fur coat and no knickers!

I also work in mental health and commented on one of his social media posts about funding, which he then accused of being ‘allegations’!

Saucery · 28/03/2024 06:17

They’ve had 14 years to make a difference wrt the GRA etc. They haven’t bothered and are only paying lip service to the concerns of safeguarding and the rights of women and girls.
To vote for the fact they “know what a woman is” would be to fall for cynical manipulation.
Do I like Labour’s stance on women’s rights? Nope. But I dislike being lied to by the Tories that they give a shit about women. I’ve voted Conservative in the past but this new breed of Tory are mendacious, self-interested, asset-stripping swine.

ArrestHer · 28/03/2024 06:18

I’m going to read the actual manifestos before I decide where my vote goes. But yes, you are BU.

My view is neither of our two main parties are covering themselves in glory. Both have serious issues that make me not want to vote for them. On balance, I think we need change. One party in power for too long becomes complacent.

What we need, and lack, is a leader who has the strength and will to effect major change in the management of public services.

Others will feel differently. But tribalism and the “two sides” narrative is killing politics and the ability of parties to really do things. I’d love to see bipartisan groups set up to manage NHS and education for example. Remove them from the whims of the current cabinet to allow long term, consistent planning and development.

So, I’ll see the manifesto. I’ll see what my local candidates say.

CheckeredAliceBand · 28/03/2024 06:18

Waitingforgeorge · 28/03/2024 06:11

I will not be voting Tory and their mean, dishonest morally corrupt Government. I don’t believe the Tory party are pro women, I think they are populist and lead on hate and division. I don’t support the Labour position on the definition of a woman and I will continue to object to this but they are the lesser of two evils.

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