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To be pissed at my name being laughed at constantly

364 replies

NotAmazonAlexa · 27/03/2024 19:43

So I'll let you guess my name.....

Today I had a hospital procedure and every member of staff laughed at my name. I was asked if it really was my name and what the weather forecast is for tomorrow.

On the form I had to fill out first it asked what you would like to be called so I put my nickname to hopefully avoid this but that didn't work. I didn't say anything as I didn't want to make it awkward and wanted the procedure over with as soon as possible.

Not the first time this has happened, at a different hospital last month one nurse couldn't stop laughing and asking me questions..

I'm in my late 40's, used to love my name but it's becoming a nightmare.

Fuck you Amazon

OP posts:
JonnyTheDogFacedBoy · 27/03/2024 21:52

I really love the name Alexa, it's so pretty. I don't have an actual amazon alexa though - if I did, maybe I'd stop hearing it as a pretty name and just associate it with the robot lady who times my boiled eggs and plays Hall and Oates on demand.

If I were you and it bothered me, I'd go by Alex. Although Alexa really is a pretty name, so it seems a shame.

I've got a slightly funny surname that people question/laugh at, I'm used to it and take it in good humour. I find also acknowledging it's comical tends to minimise the banter. I think the more you act perturbed, the more they'll jest.

ZoyaTheDestroyer · 27/03/2024 21:53

I have never seen such a precipitous drop in the usage statistics for a name as that for Alexa between 2017 and 2021 (https://names.darkgreener.com/#alexa).

There is a bully in my DC’s year named Alexa. I have wondered more than once if it is a pre-emptive measure against the teasing her name attracts.

alahanscornershop · 27/03/2024 21:54

Is your name Alexa Prime

Cuckoochanel80 · 27/03/2024 21:55

toomanyy · 27/03/2024 19:47

was asked if it really was my name and what the weather forecast is for tomorrow.

Michael Fish?

Haha I thought of him too, God love him

NewFriendlyLadybird · 27/03/2024 21:56

It’s extraordinarily rude and unprofessional to mock someone’s name.

I would call them out on it every time.

If it’s what I think it is, it’s a very pretty name.

pontipinemum · 27/03/2024 22:00

@PaperwhiteTheGhost I had to google why that'd be a bad name so might not be as bad as you think anymore. I was young when she died.

ilovesushi · 27/03/2024 22:01

It is a beautiful name. I had a school friend called Flora who used to be teased because it was a margarine brand. Annoying but it didn't make it any less of a beautiful name.

Pixit · 27/03/2024 22:02

The Sunday Post had (has?) a long running column titled Seven Days Hard by Francis Gay chronicling the ups and downs of a curtain twitching market town dweller which I suspect was some kind of slow burn embedded front for Stonewall.

iwafs · 27/03/2024 22:09

Perfectly nice name.

really unprofessional of staff to keep making idiotic jokes

MMAMPWGHAP · 27/03/2024 22:16

Tell everyone that laughs that you get free Amazon services - Prime, Kindle, Audible etc as compensation.

watermelonsugar56 · 27/03/2024 22:17

That is very rude and inappropriate. Alexa is a lovely name btw. Weird people

SuperstarDeejay · 27/03/2024 22:18

Flyinghighhighinthesky · 27/03/2024 20:25

I smile when I hear the name...love Alexa in Schitts Creek. Such a hit show I can't believe people think the name is "funny" or unusual.

Such a hit show I can't believe people didn't realise the character's name is Alexis Grin

serin · 27/03/2024 22:21

Good grief, they need to get over themselves.
I know two Alexa's, both in their 30s and both working in the NHS. I wasn't aware it's an uncommon name.

whynotwhatknot · 27/03/2024 22:34

its not even funny

emmetgirl · 27/03/2024 22:42

Is your name Windy Miller?

NamelessGhoul · 27/03/2024 22:47

Embrace it OP. There’s a lady on TikTok. Called Brittany Box. Brit Box. She was all good until the streaming platform launched but she laughs at herself over it.

if it helps, mines called Ziggy.

penjil · 27/03/2024 22:48

toomanyy · 27/03/2024 19:47

was asked if it really was my name and what the weather forecast is for tomorrow.

Michael Fish?

I thought exactly that too!! Haha! 😂

lululimepants · 27/03/2024 22:57

Is it Balonz?

ActualCannibalShiaLeBeouf · 27/03/2024 22:57

Not hard to guess since you've literally put it in your username. I've never come across professionals that would openly laugh their heads off at somebody's name. What a weird reaction.

PrincessTeaSet · 27/03/2024 22:58

Ugh hate the whole Alexa concept. Shouting orders at a woman. I'd never get one it's misogynistic.

Hermittrismegistus · 27/03/2024 23:03

PrincessTeaSet · 27/03/2024 22:58

Ugh hate the whole Alexa concept. Shouting orders at a woman. I'd never get one it's misogynistic.

You can change it to a male voice and name it anything you wish.

AdobeWanKenobi · 27/03/2024 23:04

PrincessTeaSet · 27/03/2024 22:58

Ugh hate the whole Alexa concept. Shouting orders at a woman. I'd never get one it's misogynistic.

You realise you can change its voice and name, right?

Katrinawaves · 27/03/2024 23:04

I met a lovely German family a few weeks ago who had teenage daughters called Siri and Alexa 😂. They fortunately see the funny side of how their choices turned out!

AdobeWanKenobi · 27/03/2024 23:05

Hermittrismegistus · 27/03/2024 23:03

You can change it to a male voice and name it anything you wish.

Not quite anything you wish. names are fixed at Alex, Ziggy and Computer.

Trinity65 · 27/03/2024 23:05

Gail ? Storm ?