Just woke up to get water at 2am - go downstairs and automatically check front door is locked as I pass it as husband has many times before forgotten to lock it - it's unlocked and it's very slightly ajar. Go and check back door, that is also unlocked.
I check car keys are still there and nothing looks disturbed and go up to bed. My husband asks me what is going on as he's heard me opening and locking doors. I say in a hushed but annoyed voice you left both doors unlocked when you came up to bed (hours after I went to bed) - he just sighs and rolls over - I say someone could be in the house and he just lets out a mocking sigh like it's no big deal.
He genuinely thinks going to bed and forgetting to lock the house is no big deal, and I feel like it's a potentially dangerous fuck up - I am so annoyed, not about the mistake but about the blase attitude to it - he will clearly just do it again as to him it's "no big deal" so I'll add wake up and check doors are locked after he comes to bed to the mental load.
AIBU?
To be annoyed house was unlocked?
Hettycan · 26/03/2024 03:13
OrderOfTheKookaburra · 26/03/2024 03:48
Is letting out a big scream as though you're being attacked an option? Then just say "I was running a test to see how long it would take you to get down here as a test run for when a burglar strolls into the house through the open door which YOU bloody well left open!!!!"
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Janpoppy · 26/03/2024 04:27
In relationships people do things to show their partner matters to them. This would include taking their concerns about safety seriously and treating their feelings as important.
Sorry to say but his attitude suggests he doesn't care about you.
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