Night out drama - old boss

[Geordielass35]

I've been on a hen night in Belfast. It's been a great weekend and people have been so friendly. Been drinking and dancing, went to the Titanic museum as well.

My old boss is on the hen night. She was a bitch at times when I worked with her and was very judgemental of others, including me, when I worked for her.

Anyway tonight she has clearly cheated on her husband. I saw her leave the bar with a man now I can hear her in the next room and she's not alone...

I know people that know both of them. Do I say something or just keep it quiet, since it's none of my business. I'm desperate to tell people and it's wrong what she did, but is it my business to mention it?! I'm torn on it. Reasonable or not reasonable to tell the people close to her husband?

Nah, I'd still say the same.

No, don't say a word. It's none of your business for a start and you probably won't be the only person who saw her sneaking off with this man. Unless you are friends with her husband, steer well clear.

I'm one who said I wouldn't say anything as it's nothing to do with me, and I'm not getting involved, but,....... girl code?!
WTF sounds high school, something The Plastics in Mean Girls would say lol 😁

Don't mention it to anyone else but let her know that you know and let her suffer :) :)

@GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight 😂😂😂

😂😂😂 I’m 43 and past it so yh me and my friends say girl code ha ha 😂

@Lollipop81 😂 I'm challenging myself to get that phrase into my working day tomorrow haha

Absolutely, I currently have 4 other men on the go, it keeps the marriage alive!

Also BTW cheating on hen do's/abroad doesn't count, what happens on tour stays on tour after all!

My experience is that people always do what they want to do. Whether it's wise or not.

You'll blab. Because you don't like this woman and you want revenge and will probably delight in any pain you cause her, and ignore the collateral damage to her family.

But be ready for the return fire, if you don't have any proof.

Because you just might be labelled a spiteful liar and disgruntled ex-employee, who was never any good at her job. And regardless, whoever you tell, will think you are spiteful.

Because you are "desperate to tell people" out of spite and resentment. And that doesn't really make you a nice or responsible person.

You're not running to your husband to unburden yourself. You want to run to people closest to her husband.

And you're too lazy to read all the OP's replies. FFS.

You've just told everyone on the internet.

When I saw her I’d have said in front of others “omg Jane, did you sleep with that guy you went back to your room with? It sounded like it through the wall.” Then she’ll deny and you’ll say “haha glad I asked because it really sounded like you did”.

I’m a nice person but I’m also happy to be a bitch when the occasion requires it.

If dh shagged around on a stag do I’d expect to be told to be honest - maybe that’s because I know his friends.

Belfast is buzzin, init?💚 Misses point entirely 😝

Lol, I used to work with a horrible woman.

If I saw this on a night out, I would blast it everywhere. But, that's me 😁

If she was really horrible to you, I’d let her know subtlety that you know …and just leave it hanging there….

I feel sorry for the husband but unless I knew him, I’d stay quiet. These things have a trick of biting you back.

Catch her in the morning, wink & say 'Did you enjoy your night last night?' Let her know you're aware she wasn't alone. Then have a loud convo with your friends on the way home about how some people aren't happy at home & feel the need to judge others at work. She may well get the hint that her bitching in the past towards you could have backfired on her if you were that type of person to tell her hubby & she might be more careful who she judges in future.

Update to this thread is that she left her husband and is with the new man. Pleased I kept my mouth shut!