To say F** OFF!!

[zunchie]

Maybe I'm overacting but I don't think I am. The other day I was at a cafe with my friend (31F) and I was pouting my lips when she looked at me and said 'that reminds me' and started applying chapstick. I was a bit confused by this but then I realised what she meant and I was very angry. But then yesterday we went out again and I can't remember the conversation but I stuck my teeth out in a funny way and she looked me up and down and said in a smug voice 'I need to book my dentist appointment' and she set a reminder in her calendar. Am I overreacting or is this not on? And how do I approach it without sounding paranoid?

Are you sure you are 31?

This sounds like it's a reverse.

otherwise I cant think why someone would start a thread admitting to pouting and gurning at a friend who then takes the piss because they asked for it!

Sits there pulling faces, and then complains when friend comments.

What a odd one you are.

Well it could've been a positive thing like it reminded her she needs lip filler or something nice about my own lips rather than applying chapstick which is obviously implying my lips are dry. It is all negative with her.

How insulting. So because I'm in my 30s I have to be serious all the time and I can't make jokes or pull faces at all.

It’s obviously irritating her though. Take the hint and stop.

Do you also floss your teeth with your hair?

But why are you pulling faces though? Just stop it.

Unless you have tourettes or something and can't help it.

Do you also floss your teeth with your hair?

I just saw that thread. Yikes.

😲 What thread is that, please?

Edit: Sorry, just found it.

Your lips reminded her of her lips which needed chapstick. Not your dry lips reminded her of her lips.

Are your lips dry? It isnt incommon or a huge insult.

Unless your teeth are visibly decaying then it was teeth that made her think of dentist.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5020405-sisters-annoying-habit-making-meeting-unbearable

This isn’t very funny or entertaining if that’s your angle and the outrage doesn’t add anything.

Poor effort .

You can say FUCK OFF on here no need for asterisks

Are you on glue?

You sound 31 going on 5. Keep your teeth in your mouth ffs. Your friend must feel like your babysitter.

Well it's not something most adults do no
Unless it's one of those daft pouty photos ....

OP you're obviously aware that you sometimes pull faces, has this been due to a medical condition? Friend never made it obvious before?

If you insist on gurning all the time then of course she's going to comment.

Or she's thinking oh yes nice lips I want to keep my lips in top condition I will use chap stick. Why on earth would looking at your lips remind her to get filler

True. In which case I apologise for my earlier comment and understand you cannot help pulling faces

It could have been worse...

Your friend could have been reminded she needed a shit with your pouty lips and opened her beer bottle on your sticky out teeth.

So yeah, YABU.

So you sat pouting and sticking your teeth out at this woman and then became irrationally angry at her! I think she needs to ‘F** OFF’ far away from you you absolute nut job 🤣🤣

Is gurning in fashion?!

No, I was just being funny and pulled my teeth out I don't remember why it was a joke in the moment. What a silly suggestion that I must have tourettes or be disabled in some way.

Next time you poke your teeth out, casually grab a tennis racket and start eating an apple through it.