To ask what your 'glass next to the dishwasher' moment was?

[Rosesareradish]

Or is it the straw that broke the camels back?

I was working today, so I asked DP to get something out of the freezer to defrost for dinner. He was at home with the children, I was working until 6. At lunch time I text to say I would go to Aldi after work so I'd be late home.

I got home at 7.15, I unloaded the car and he put the shopping away. I went for a wee and said goodnight to the children. I then went in to the living room to ask what was for dinner. Nothing! He didn't get anything out of the freezer, he gave the children soup for tea and he had a nice sausage roll he'd bought.

No thought whatsoever to me eating. My irked face probably gave me away and he suggested I have cereal or cook something I'd just bought from Aldi.

AAAARGH.
AIBU to be so annoyed? I would never have left him without dinner after working. Especially if he then went and did the weekly shop afterwards (which he never does anyway..!)

Please don't do that. It's a great thread that some women need to find.

This thread has been ruined by some people, honestly behaving like children.

Last post was yesterday......

Nothing since then.

Pot kettle black 🙄

I asked politely and calmly one night in front of the kids they could thank me for cooking the meal (as I did everyday thanklessly). He said, 'I don't need to thank you, you don't deserve thanks it's just a meal.' Nasty man. He came home one day and I had left and he was surprised.

Good for you. How old were your children then? 🌹