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AIBU that my partner is going skydiving with another woman after I refused?

181 replies

Ssanne · 04/02/2024 12:19

Title as it is.

Partner wanted to do a charity skydive with some of his friends/colleagues. I refused as it isn't something I'm interested in.

He said fine. And now is doing the tandem skydive with one of his female friends?

AIBU to be concerned?

OP posts:
SpacePatch · 04/02/2024 12:34

RockAndRollerskate · 04/02/2024 12:29

This thread has floored me 😂

All the talk about accidental mid-air intercourse before @Lemonyyellow comes along to point out they don’t just strap two beginners together and lob them out of the plane

Might turn into a mid-air orgy with the instructors too?

KirstenBlest · 04/02/2024 12:34

The strapped on diving instructors might get in the way.

KirstenBlest · 04/02/2024 12:35

Is this how women accidentally get pregnant?

Zwicky · 04/02/2024 12:35

I think it’s very noble and you should be more supportive. They will definitely raise more money for a naked acrobatic skydive than a basic one.

RockAndRollerskate · 04/02/2024 12:36

SpacePatch · 04/02/2024 12:34

Might turn into a mid-air orgy with the instructors too?

Ah then OP has real reason for concern. LTB.

StressyMcStressFace · 04/02/2024 12:37

KirstenBlest · 04/02/2024 12:35

Is this how women accidentally get pregnant?

Or indeed "fall" pregnant 😆

Ssanne · 04/02/2024 12:37

I think it's more the bonding element for me and the fact that I'm just not into these daredevil/extreme sports so he just might find her more attractive that she does want to do these activities

OP posts:
EIIaJ · 04/02/2024 12:39

You are being actually insane

Bluenotgreen · 04/02/2024 12:40

Does he have form for cheating?

Do you have form for unwarranted jealousy?

WestendGrrls · 04/02/2024 12:40

Is it naked skydiving? That would be concerning.

LenaLamont · 04/02/2024 12:40

I have a hopeless case of the giggles after reading this thread.

Honeychickpea · 04/02/2024 12:40

Ssanne · 04/02/2024 12:19

Title as it is.

Partner wanted to do a charity skydive with some of his friends/colleagues. I refused as it isn't something I'm interested in.

He said fine. And now is doing the tandem skydive with one of his female friends?

AIBU to be concerned?

I suppose you might be afraid that your husband might prefer someone who shares his interests. I certainly would.

RockAndRollerskate · 04/02/2024 12:42

OP, we’re all taking the piss here, but really I don’t think this is about the skydiving. As long as you have some shared interests, you don’t need to have 100% alignment at all times - that would be boring!

You may need to address your insecurities / jealousy

DeeLusional · 04/02/2024 12:43

Lemonyyellow · 04/02/2024 12:26

Op you tandem sky dive with the instructor not each other

This. Where did OP get the idea that he would be strapped to another novice?

Bonjovispjs · 04/02/2024 12:43

SpacePatch · 04/02/2024 12:34

Might turn into a mid-air orgy with the instructors too?

Now that sounds like fun 😄

hasbeen91 · 04/02/2024 12:44

I would be pretty impressed if they managed to do it

ElevenSeven · 04/02/2024 12:46

Ssanne · 04/02/2024 12:37

I think it's more the bonding element for me and the fact that I'm just not into these daredevil/extreme sports so he just might find her more attractive that she does want to do these activities

He might just like that she’s not jealous and insecure

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 04/02/2024 12:46

Tandem is with an instructor

Is this how the Penis just falls into the vagina? When he lands on her?

Seriously though, you can have different interests and hobbies.

PoisonMaple · 04/02/2024 12:47

Sirzy · 04/02/2024 12:20

What do you think is going to happen when they jump out the plane?

This made me laugh! Imagine the possibilities 😁😁

OP, YABU, and also think about why you're feeling the way you are.

pinkyredrose · 04/02/2024 12:48

Ssanne · 04/02/2024 12:37

I think it's more the bonding element for me and the fact that I'm just not into these daredevil/extreme sports so he just might find her more attractive that she does want to do these activities

bonding element 😂

Sorry OP but YABVU! They'll each be strapped to different instructors, they won't be falling through the air with thier arms n legs wrapped round each other!

carrotbagel · 04/02/2024 12:48

If you don't trust him not to fall in love while he's falling through the sky screaming and hoping he doesn't splat on the ground then why are you with him?

PoisonMaple · 04/02/2024 12:48

Ssanne · 04/02/2024 12:37

I think it's more the bonding element for me and the fact that I'm just not into these daredevil/extreme sports so he just might find her more attractive that she does want to do these activities

He is with you, for you.

Your insecurities are your own. Work on them.

Wibblywobblylikejelly · 04/02/2024 12:48

Kernackered · 04/02/2024 12:31

You're wrong.... genuinely some porn stars did this!

No way! I am searching 😅 but was it successful.....would it be on pornhub?

Honeychickpea · 04/02/2024 12:49

OrigamiOwls · 04/02/2024 12:23

What exactly are your concerns?

This is Mumsnet, so soon we will see posts accusing the OP'S husband of having an emotional affair due to having an interest that the OP does not share.

TheTigerWhoCameToEatMyHusband · 04/02/2024 12:49

Mile high club lol

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