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AIBU that my partner is going skydiving with another woman after I refused?

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Ssanne · 04/02/2024 12:19

Title as it is.

Partner wanted to do a charity skydive with some of his friends/colleagues. I refused as it isn't something I'm interested in.

He said fine. And now is doing the tandem skydive with one of his female friends?

AIBU to be concerned?

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Sirzy · 04/02/2024 12:20

What do you think is going to happen when they jump out the plane?

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Wibblywobblylikejelly · 04/02/2024 12:20

YABU.
He asked you said no so he found the next best option.

I do not believe that anyone has successfully screwed while free falling.
Also I doubt they'll be much discussion while hurtling through the air.

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DelilahJane · 04/02/2024 12:20

What are your concerns?

Im fairly positive he won't be able to bonk her mid sky dive.

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Tatumm · 04/02/2024 12:21

It wouldn’t bother me, but I am not you. What is it about the situation that concerns you?

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wednesday32 · 04/02/2024 12:22

Were you hoping your partner would not go ahead and do the skydive if you weren’t taking part?
with tandem
skydives you are buddied with someone based on weight so on the day the company responsible will decide who jumps with who.

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SpacePatch · 04/02/2024 12:23

YANBU. I’d be be concerned his penis accidentally falls in her mid-air and they have a sky-child. LTB

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theduchessofspork · 04/02/2024 12:23

It’s quite hard to get jiggy in mid air in boiler suits

Don’t be daft OP. It’s fine,

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OrigamiOwls · 04/02/2024 12:23

What exactly are your concerns?

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Deathbyfluffy · 04/02/2024 12:23

Are you worried they’ll have a shag at 10,000 feet or something?
You said no, so he’s going with a friend. Gender is pretty irrelevant here

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Doyoumind · 04/02/2024 12:24

Not sure you're for real.

Won't he be doing it with an instructor? Unless she's an instructor? The point of a tandem is that you're strapped to someone who knows what they're doing.

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 04/02/2024 12:25

Just because you're attracted to your partner doesn't mean that anybody else is.

I think your post is really off.

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Mrsjayy · 04/02/2024 12:25

SpacePatch · 04/02/2024 12:23

YANBU. I’d be be concerned his penis accidentally falls in her mid-air and they have a sky-child. LTB

sky child 😂

op apart from accidental sky sex what else do you think will happen?

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Onemorefortheroad · 04/02/2024 12:26

Wibblywobblylikejelly · 04/02/2024 12:20

YABU.
He asked you said no so he found the next best option.

I do not believe that anyone has successfully screwed while free falling.
Also I doubt they'll be much discussion while hurtling through the air.

Sorry, this made me laugh 🤭

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Lemonyyellow · 04/02/2024 12:26

Op you tandem sky dive with the instructor not each other

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Boomer55 · 04/02/2024 12:27

Not much they can get up floating down from aircraft…🙄

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KirstenBlest · 04/02/2024 12:27

I did a skydive with two work friends (one female, one male, and we were all single). It was just three colleagues jumping out of an aeroplane.

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Tatumm · 04/02/2024 12:28

He asked you first, suggesting you were his first choice. She is his plan B.

What could happen? They will dive with an instructor. It may become a bonding experience for them, maybe.

Do you already have concerns about this specific person? Or is there history with your partner being unfaithful?

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ilovesooty · 04/02/2024 12:28

Sirzy · 04/02/2024 12:20

What do you think is going to happen when they jump out the plane?

Exactly. You had the opportunity to do it and didn't want to.

Do you think he's going to shag her mid air? 😂

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RockAndRollerskate · 04/02/2024 12:29

This thread has floored me 😂

All the talk about accidental mid-air intercourse before @Lemonyyellow comes along to point out they don’t just strap two beginners together and lob them out of the plane

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DinnaeFashYersel · 04/02/2024 12:29

I dont have any trust issues in my relationship so I wouldn't give it a second thought.

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DinnaeFashYersel · 04/02/2024 12:29

SpacePatch · 04/02/2024 12:23

YANBU. I’d be be concerned his penis accidentally falls in her mid-air and they have a sky-child. LTB

🤣🤣😂

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Kernackered · 04/02/2024 12:31

Wibblywobblylikejelly · 04/02/2024 12:20

YABU.
He asked you said no so he found the next best option.

I do not believe that anyone has successfully screwed while free falling.
Also I doubt they'll be much discussion while hurtling through the air.

You're wrong.... genuinely some porn stars did this!

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MonsteraMama · 04/02/2024 12:31

If they're new to skydiving they won't be tandeming together, they'll both be strapped to an instructor. They don't make a habit of chucking rookies out of a plane strapped together and hope for the best.

And I can assure you that shagging will be the last thing on either of their minds while plummeting towards the ground with snot and slobber streaming all over their faces.

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Lammveg · 04/02/2024 12:32

I'll be impressed if they join the mile high club via skydiving

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brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/02/2024 12:34

“Oh honey, skydiving is better than sexual intercourse !”

”with you it is”

In any case you can be sure they’re practicing safe sex. They’ll have reserve chutes in case the mains fail.

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