Like i said very clearly - Each to their own.
No such thing as 'no strings' sex - every single time you lay with someone you contract their energy good or bad, bonding begins and you also expose yourself to STI's and other germs jumping from Tom, to Dick to Harry!! How will females like OP even know if the guy she's 'casually' shagging isnt involved with many diff other women like she is involved with many diff males? See how easy it is to spread Infections??
Protected or not - we know using condoms there is still a risk it might break leaving both sides exposed and unprotected. Its clumsy and dirty imo.
What i said comes from a spiritual point of view. Just like my views on gender disphoria or whatever excuse people use to change their god given gender. 'I feel like I was born a unicorn - i'm not in the right body' it does not give me the right to alter my forehead and surgically add a brightly coloured glittery horn to my forehead because i woke up feeling like a unicorn does it?
I understand not everyone has the same beliefs as me but I know what I know and sex is SACRED - it is not even debatable at this point. Educate yourselves because i am unapologetic.
I'm realistic. Society was the correct word to use because many sheeps in society think this is perfectly fine and nothing wrong with it. Each to their own but its disgusting and puts people at risk everytime. Self respect is lacking in BOTH sexes hence men doing it and females doing it
Mens equivalent to being called a bike is 'f*ck boys' - where i'm from females tend to avoid fck boys because when you are clean and you go with a f boy - you've potentially mixed your clean bodily fluids with about 30+ other foreign bodily fluids which will imbalance ones vaginal PH resulting thrush, bv or other vaginal problems.
All i'm saying is the casual sex culture needs scrapping. If you dont intend on being with the person dont sleep with them and then complain they lost interest In you or that they've given u a non treatable STI its pointless.
Sex is so special when its with the one you love and the one you are with. No feeling like it and your partner will know how to properly pleasure you - date, bash and dash is the guy fulfilling his needs - he isnt trying to satisfy you at that point!!
Hence me being suprised that OP even said the sex wasnt great - what was she actually hoping for without bonding and trying out all these diff penises??
Ive had the same partner for almost 15 years, we have 3 beauty boys and sex is still amazing & steamy because he knows me like i know him, we know eachothers likes and dislikes - he WANTS to please me and I WANT to please him - we are 2 halves and together we are whole. I wish all females would experience a love like the one I've got. You'd soon change your view if you did.
quality over quantity every single time, with everything in life. Value yourselves more, females and males!!
Such a shame, so sad