To think my DH is being a big girls blouse about the the washing?

[KarenNotAKaren]

For years my DH Has allegedly been sensitive to wet washing - it makes him sneeze, wheeze and gives him itchy eyes. Apparently. He’s getting worse - when I simply take the washing out the machine he says within 30 seconds “Have you taken the washing out? It’s getting to my eyes already!” 🙄

I actually did an experiment in our last house. We had a kitchen living room open plan thing and when he was watching TV I very quietly unloaded the washing machine (he couldn’t see, TV was on loud too so couldn’t hear either) and left it all by the machine, and left the room. Came back 20 minutes later and he didn’t complain one bit or even clock on that he was in the same room as a pile of wet washing.

He won’t line dry his things because it makes his eyes itchy (🤷‍♀️). I can’t even have a sock drying on the radiator because it makes him sneeze apparently. I’d LOVE a heated airer as we spend an absolute fortune on tumble drying, but he’d make a right song and dance no doubt. Tumble drying is the only way he will dry his clothes. Even if I line dry mine he gets all dramatic if I come too close - “Oh god has that top been line dried - my eyes are itchy!”.

Weve just moved into a new home that has an integral washer/dryer. Well it doesn’t actually fucking dry anything? The ‘dryer’ part is a massive lie, so he wants to buy a separate washing machine AND dryer because apparently “I can’t live in a house with a condenser dryer it get to my eyes nose and lungs”. I sneered at him and he got really annoyed. I’d rather just stick with what we have and line dry things or get a heated airer.

I know I sound unsympathetic but I think he’s being so dramatic - I’ve asked his mum and he didn’t grow up with a tumble dryer, everything was dried on heaters and the washing line. He somehow survived childhood unscathed and his mum said he never had any issues. Yet as an adult all this OTT sneezing and “oh god it’s getting to my lungs that is” is going on - I just think he is being an attention seeker. No asthma. No respiratory issues.

Am I a horrible cow who needs to understand his sensitivities better? Do other people suffer like this just from being in the same room as a freshly washed sock? I’ve never heard of a single person who can’t be around wet washing. Or is he being the drama llama I think he is?

@AnonoMisss Death-knell not nail!

Me too. Is he very sensitive about the house not being "showroom" tidy? It could be a stealth way of ensuring that there is never any washing left hanging up to dry anywhere in the house or garden (if you have one).

Yes, I wondered this too.

You may want to not get facts and opinions mixed up.

or he could actually be allergic to the washing liquid being used. This needs to be checked

There are so many questions to your DH 'sensitivity'

Tumble drying doesn't get rid of detergent
Does other people being near him make his eyes itchy because they line dry?
Is he allergic to air? Lol
Is he allergic to water?

I could go on!

I would wash his clothes with Vinegar, it's a natural disinfectant, and although you don't get the nice detergent/softner smell, it doesn't smell like vinegar either.

I think this is more the case that he doesn't want to do any of his own washing than their being an actual problem. I would make him do his own

I actually did an experiment in our last house. We had a kitchen living room open plan thing and when he was watching TV I very quietly unloaded the washing machine (he couldn’t see, TV was on loud too so couldn’t hear either) and left it all by the machine, and left the room. Came back 20 minutes later and he didn’t complain one bit or even clock on that he was in the same room as a pile of wet washing

This is the key point I think🙄.

Let him do his own washing and not rope you in for help and advice whilst he's doing it either.

You can be allergic to water but it's generally a skin reaction

I agree - it's a way of getting out of doing it himself and a way of making you do it the way he wants.

😂😂😂 Love this 😂😂

Let him do his own washing and drying then he cant complain. Send him for allergy testing witch wont be nice

@KarenNotAKaren

Your husband sounds a royally massive pain in the arse frankly 😤

Tell your husband he can spend a small fortune on going to the local or nearest laundrette every week with the time restraints and bad weather hazzles at times too,

See how 🤔 much he enjoys that kind of experince 🙄 going out in the pissing cold rain weather and maybe strong winds too..🌧