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To ask you to show me your normal home…

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Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 12:53

Fed up with the Instagram showing perfect homes, when the real world is much messier..: so show me your normal homes… here’s my messy (and a bit dated) kitchen

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balkanscot · 24/12/2023 16:05

Fancy architect-designed everything perfect sister in law’s kitchen. No children. Mine is a bit different. Just a little. 1 child. You get the picture.

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SoupDragon · 24/12/2023 16:58

balkanscot · 24/12/2023 16:05

Fancy architect-designed everything perfect sister in law’s kitchen. No children. Mine is a bit different. Just a little. 1 child. You get the picture.

Have you just posted a picture of your SIL's kitchen along with a snarky comment?? Rude if so.

AngelaRippingMyLegIntheAir · 24/12/2023 16:58

TheRussiansHackedMyKitchen · 24/12/2023 10:57

Why did a poster comment about tea towels being "out on display"?
Where are you supposed to hang them then? The Aga/ oven door handle is practical; they're in constant use.
Mine get changed daily so they're clean. Confused

It's me and a pet peeve 😂They go on a 3M little hook inside a door!

Janieforever · 24/12/2023 17:05

balkanscot · 24/12/2023 16:05

Fancy architect-designed everything perfect sister in law’s kitchen. No children. Mine is a bit different. Just a little. 1 child. You get the picture.

Is that actually your sister in laws kitchen? Surely no one is this rude?👀

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/12/2023 17:08

Risun · 24/12/2023 15:55

@MyBoringOldHouse Very Christmassy, nice! ......But a fan? Interesting.

We still have a fan in the corner of our room - bought in the hot summer 2022 and will no doubt be needed in future .

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/12/2023 17:11

balkanscot · 24/12/2023 16:05

Fancy architect-designed everything perfect sister in law’s kitchen. No children. Mine is a bit different. Just a little. 1 child. You get the picture.

Let's see your kitchen then . I'm hoping you haven't actually posted someone else's kitchen without their permission .

raindropsonatinroof · 24/12/2023 17:28

Mine is a bit different. Just a little. 1 child. You get the picture

I certainly do. Someone is clearly very bitter and unkind posting someone else's photos without permission

Beeswood · 24/12/2023 18:49

Merry Christmas, everyone!

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BIossomtoes · 24/12/2023 18:56

So sweet, what a cutie 💕

StarlightLime · 24/12/2023 19:21

He's gorgeous 😍

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/12/2023 19:53

Beeswood · 24/12/2023 18:49

Merry Christmas, everyone!

💕🐶💕

icouldhavebeensomeone · 24/12/2023 19:54

@ChishiyaBat I Love your Kitchen! 😍

MooseBreath · 24/12/2023 19:59

Our living room 5 minutes post-tidy, so this is about as organized as it gets. We have a 3.5yo and a 1yo, so it's always a mess.

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ChishiyaBat · 24/12/2023 20:11

Thank you @icouldhavebeensomeone ❤️

Kitchenpic · 24/12/2023 21:03

Pluvia · 24/12/2023 11:30

Proper home, @Fiscus. Lots of evidence of life going on. I used to do surveys in peoples' homes and I grew to absolutely hate all the modern, soulless, no-one-cooks-or-eats-in-here kitchens. There were places where the dog or cat's water was kept with cling film over it and the pet had to ask for a drink!

So many people just follow the herd. Grey. Navy. Black granite — no, no, get rid of the black granite, you need white marble... The people who apologise for the mess most are those who live in almost clinical surroundings.

While I kind of see what you are saying have you ever considered that lots of people just buy what is readily available from the main retailers at an affordable price point and that will largely tend to be whatever is currently the in thing/was super fashionable a few months back. We have grey kitchen largely because when we looked 2 1/2 years back at Howdens, B&Q, Benchmarx and similar they essentially had a choice of white, grey or navy unless you wanted to pay a significant premium. Ikea had a little bit more choice but we’re having some supply issues and small places local to us also with lots of choice were sooooo expensive.
I had initially thought red might be nice or a light coloured wood kitchen but neither of those were readily available and (more expensive) options we did find had less choice of cupboard fronts. I do sometimes wonder if people who criticise following trends are the ones willing to spend 20-30k on their kitchen and get something different & they miss that for many people that either isn’t possible or just doesn’t feel worthwhile.

Ukrainebaby23 · 24/12/2023 21:30

MyChristmasUsername · 22/12/2023 14:19

Selling your home and having the pics in Rightmove is totally different. It’s more on here, if there were ever a data leak then it’s pictures of your home plus anything else you’ve shared on here including all your personal info in your profile that you signed up with, so email and password DOB gender etc. then whatever else you have shared in threads so possibly the size of your family, the area you live in, your medical issues. I just think it’s wise to be careful.

Great, be careful out there, you never know who's watching you.
Posting pics of your messy or otherwise kitchen though is unlikely to create you any issues.
I'm on a car owners club sm site. They post pics of their cars every other day. Nothing bad happens.

MyBoringOldHouse · 24/12/2023 21:49

Risun · 24/12/2023 15:55

@MyBoringOldHouse Very Christmassy, nice! ......But a fan? Interesting.

Menopause.

I'm always boiling.

mangochops · 24/12/2023 21:55

@Beeswood omg gorgeous! What a sweetheart ❤️❤️

TheRussiansHackedMyKitchen · 24/12/2023 22:08

Oooh. Thank you for that @AngelaRippingMyLegIntheAir . I'll have a read!

Hotatxmas · 24/12/2023 23:20

Fan here too, but I’m in Oz (and menopausal).

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NotaShowHome · 27/12/2023 21:50

I’m very jealous of those of you with a farmhouse kitchen table. That’s my dream 😊 my kitchen is too small for a table.
Also, bonus pic of our retro Xmas decs

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Risun · 27/12/2023 22:16

@NotaShowHome Is that a beautiful borzoi I can see?

NotaShowHome · 27/12/2023 22:26

Risun · 27/12/2023 22:16

@NotaShowHome Is that a beautiful borzoi I can see?

It is indeed! Our hoover works overtime

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 28/12/2023 06:16

Risun · 27/12/2023 22:16

@NotaShowHome Is that a beautiful borzoi I can see?

I had to look again.! I initially thought it was a fluffy throw. 😂. Beautiful dog.

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