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7 dogs in Starbucks today is too much

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Elfandwellbeing · 25/11/2023 18:47

I turned around and walked out again, don’t get me started on dogs sniffing cups and plates of food whilst sat next to the owners.
What is the solution ?
Can’t dogs be left anymore?
AIBU to think dog separation cannot be so painful that dogs have to go everywhere!

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Tooshytoshine · 25/11/2023 19:44

I love dogs in cafes, pubs and restaurants. I especially love a cafe, pub or restaurant with a resident dog or cat.

I like strangers coming up and talking to me about my dog.

A woman today asked if she could stroke my super soft, very patient but quite large dog whilst we were waiting outside a shop and ended up giving her a bit of a hug. Afterwards, she said thank you and looked a bit sheepish saying it had been a hard time. We spoke for a few minutes, exchanged a few kind words and she said it had made her day a little better.

I regularly meet a widower who says his dog (a quite charmless terrier mix - beauty is in the eye of the beholder) saved his life. He said he used to go for walks but nobody spoke to him until he got a dog as men don't get chatted to unless they have a dog or a baby. He now regularly chats with other walkers and these acquaintances sustain him.

Times are hard, dogs often give us a reason to interact with strangers and share human connection. They mainly aren't vicious, slathering, disease ridden wretches trying to maul all passing toddlers - they are soft bellied family members who make some people's lives a little bit brighter.

Drink coffee in one of the hundreds of other cafes available and let the dog lovers live and chat to each other.

PomPomSugar · 25/11/2023 19:45

I watched a lady watch her Labrador urinate up the stand selling birthday cards at the garden centre today and just walk away as if nothing had happened.

heartsinvisiblefury · 25/11/2023 19:45

Just go elsewhere - it's really not that difficult

Standproperly · 25/11/2023 19:46

TurquoiseHexagonSun · 25/11/2023 19:35

You think 7 dogs isn't excessive? 🤔

The more the better IMO.
Seven screaming, feral kids would be way too many though

LuckySantangelo35 · 25/11/2023 19:46

TatoSpice · 25/11/2023 19:12

I agree.

@TatoSpice
@ApolloandDaphne

only cos they can’t talk.

Whiteday · 25/11/2023 19:47

Not enough on my opinion 🐕 ❤️

Although I'd never take my dog in Starbucks the coffee is awful, she prefers an artisan coffee shop.

LuckySantangelo35 · 25/11/2023 19:47

heartsinvisiblefury · 25/11/2023 19:45

Just go elsewhere - it's really not that difficult

@heartsinvisiblefury

why should she have to?!

humans trump dogs, always

Whiteday · 25/11/2023 19:48

Screamingabdabz · 25/11/2023 18:51

One dog in an establishment serving food or dog is too many.

I wouldn't go anywhere that served dog!

LuckySantangelo35 · 25/11/2023 19:48

HUMANS TRUMP DOGS, ALWAYS

OldTinHat · 25/11/2023 19:49

I'd rather a dog in a cafe than cats crapping all over my garden.

Begsthequestion · 25/11/2023 19:49

LuckySantangelo35 · 25/11/2023 19:47

@heartsinvisiblefury

why should she have to?!

humans trump dogs, always

Yes exactly, it's a cafe for humans, not a dog park.

SaintJuliette · 25/11/2023 19:49

Has the law changed?
It never used to be a thing at all, unless there was outside seating and dogs stayed out there. I don't get it.

Begsthequestion · 25/11/2023 19:50

OldTinHat · 25/11/2023 19:49

I'd rather a dog in a cafe than cats crapping all over my garden.

It's not a zero sum game

Whiteday · 25/11/2023 19:50

Elfandwellbeing · 25/11/2023 19:26

I do not hate dogs but I do hate eating with dogs. I am amazed at the sheer number of people who can’t leave their dog at home, it is like a separation anxiety !
A dog is a commitment and will mean and a life style change but not all people accept this. Instead they impose their dogs on others.

In an establishment that allows dogs GrinGrin

AlwaysGinPlease · 25/11/2023 19:50

Elfandwellbeing · 25/11/2023 18:47

I turned around and walked out again, don’t get me started on dogs sniffing cups and plates of food whilst sat next to the owners.
What is the solution ?
Can’t dogs be left anymore?
AIBU to think dog separation cannot be so painful that dogs have to go everywhere!

Oh look ,yet another boring anti dog/dogs in places post. 🥱 Quit whining and go somewhere that doesn't allow dogs. How hard is that for you to grasp?

Whiteday · 25/11/2023 19:51

AirFryerFrequentFlyer · 25/11/2023 19:30

Dog bashing threads are rapidly over taking teacher bashing and benefit bashing on MN.

We just need a thread where a MIL on benefits has parked badly, popped in uninvited and brought her dog for MN Bingo full house. Grin

You forgot the cyclist! 🚴

PelvicFloorClenchReminder · 25/11/2023 19:52

I too much prefer the gorgeous starpups quietly enjoying their pupaccinos to the feral small children running up and down over the seats yelling. One time there was a feral small child running up and down over the seats yelling wearing just a nappy. Appeared to be a rather bulging nappy.

Whiteday · 25/11/2023 19:52

Nelly91 · 25/11/2023 19:37

I have horrendous dog allergies and just wish dog owners would consider this or at least take it seriously.

Why and how?

Standproperly · 25/11/2023 19:52

AlwaysGinPlease · 25/11/2023 19:50

Oh look ,yet another boring anti dog/dogs in places post. 🥱 Quit whining and go somewhere that doesn't allow dogs. How hard is that for you to grasp?

Well said 🐶🐕🦮🐩🐕‍🦺🐾🦴

kidneymidney · 25/11/2023 19:52

Standproperly · 25/11/2023 18:49

Another miserable dog hater. This has been done to death on MN

🤣 agree

HappySammy · 25/11/2023 19:53

I have cats but I also love dogs. If I was able to bring my cats everywhere I would so I love seeing dogs out with their owners.

beetr00 · 25/11/2023 19:53

@Elfandwellbeing

just fyi, it is store dependent. Would have been useful to chat to the manager?

this is from X

Starbucks UK@StarbucksUK

Dogs that are not guide or assistance dogs are allowed in store at the store manager’s discretion. Have a chat with them - they'll be able to let you know what their policy is.

LuckySantangelo35 · 25/11/2023 19:53

Whiteday · 25/11/2023 19:52

Why and how?

@Whiteday

why?!

cos that poster has more right to be in a cafe than a dog and so many cafes these days allow dogs.

Whiteday · 25/11/2023 19:54

@LuckySantangelo35 but clearly, I leave Bert clearly the cafe owners don't think it's a viable business proposition.

LuckySantangelo35 · 25/11/2023 19:54

Standproperly · 25/11/2023 19:52

Well said 🐶🐕🦮🐩🐕‍🦺🐾🦴

@Standproperly
@AlwaysGinPlease

op can whine all she wants. Not everyone wants smelly, arse licking animals in a cafe 🤷‍♀️

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