To wait for inheritance before divorce?

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I have reached a difficult point in my marriage. DH has lied to me and there has been a break down of trust and communication. There has not been any abuse or infidelity but I am done.

DH knows how I feel but wants to stay married and to try and make it work.

The practicalities of separation are difficult. Kids are at a difficult stage and this would exacerbate their problems. Financially we can’t afford to maintain two households and stay in the same area. which would be essential for kids in f we did spilt.

In any case I can’t see a long term future with DH. but also I am not considering another relationship and I am scared about What the future would look like on my own.

But if I do delay the inevitable- for kids and practical reasons WIBU to at least hold on until DH inherits (likely a substantial amount in the next few years) as this would make separation an easier possibility. Or is this grabby, cynical and unfair on DH?

How can I navigate this?

No, I totally think your husband should hold out for half of your inheritance.

Their eventual inheritance won't change the fact they'd be living in poor accommodation and have to change schools if their mum leaves their dad now, would it?
Lots of women don't leave unhappy marriages because of financial issues.

Not only is it ghoulish to wait for an inheritance, it's probably useless if your husband doesn't mingle the money and keeps it as a non-matrimonial asset.