@DewinDwl its been documented white blonde kids get treated better, white blonde blue eyed women being protected more, treated better, more police resources allocated for them, better maternity and medical outcome...
We want the best for our children, if they pull the genetic lottery card out where they are likely to be treated better why wouldnt a parent feel relieved? Racism is abhorrent but dismissing advantage to looking typically white is like saying i dont see colour to dismiss racism and prejudice. It gaslights reality.
For example in Italy, darker Southern white Italians, tanned dark eyes and hair are discriminated against due to colourism and xenophobia.
I dont personally think brown eyes are automatically ugly nor do I think blue eyes are automatically pretty but blue eyes do open up doors and you do get treated better for having them.