Or is he - moving costs after relationship end.

[DietCokeAddict19]

Ex has lived with me, rent free but paying half the bills, for 5 years. In that time he’s been able to rent out his own place to the tune of £1800 a month which he has been putting in savings.

So we’ve split up, and he has moved out and back into his own place. He lives 3 hours away, so with various trips and van hire, it’s cost him £220.

In the process of sorting out finances and our joint account etc, and he has asked me to pay half of his moving costs.

I’ve told him he’s being completely unreasonable - it’s not my problem that he lives 3 hours away and needed to hire a van.

From a guy who earns at least 4 times my salary, he’s just being a CF, right?

So glad you’re all doing ok.

Did you get yourself a cat in the end?

Inam glad you are on the path to recovery. It's hard but you have been doing the work. And he is clearly a very strange person.

Sorry to hear about the contact from your ex recently. Would you think about blocking him? There has been some comfort for me in the mutual blocking - a sort of finality about it I think. No chance of seeping in through the gaps now.

I did! I got 2 kittens (who aren't really kittens any more!). They have been great company and despite the kids being really unsure at the start, they adore them.