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Waking boyfriend up on holiday ,aibu?

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ifitfeelslikeparadise · 14/11/2023 07:29

We have saved all year for this holiday and got here yesterday.
Just to the Canary Islands but spent £3,000 for a nice suite.
The night before we came away we stayed in a nice hotel and he went to sleep at 7pm
Got up the next morning at 7am
We got here yesterday afternoon
We went to bed last night at 8pm and probably asleep for 10pm
I woke up this morning at 6am but couldn't get back to sleep as 8 hours was more than enough.
7am I got a drink from the beside cabinet and woke him up.
Apologised and after 5 mins I got up and went into living room to make a cup of tea.
He comes in moaning waking me up at 7am on holiday making tea
Anyway turned into a argument
Because I don't want to spend all holiday In bed.
He's so lazy
Honestly 8 -10 hours should be enough
Maybe I'm a little excited but I've planned this for ages now
I'm sat on balcony making no noise while he is still in bed.
He's told me I can't unpack my case till he gets up
Aibu to not want to spend all holiday in bed?
He says it's his holiday too -which it is
But surely me getting up and going in next room isn't really bad ?
I crept out

OP posts:
LovelyIssues · 20/11/2023 16:03

@jannier yes I did hun

LuckySantangelo35 · 21/11/2023 09:45

ICK
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FrenchandSaunders · 21/11/2023 11:50

A friend of mine had a holiday like this with a boyfriend, he made it really miserable. On the last night they had a big falling out and he wasn't talking to her the next morning whilst they were packing.

Got to the airport and he asked her for his passport .... she replied "it's in the safe in the room" 😁

Cosyblankets · 21/11/2023 14:08

ifitfeelslikeparadise · 17/11/2023 10:40

Can anyone tell me if I've done anything wrong here
We went down to the pool before going to mogan
He said he would come down even tho he's tired and in pain
So he says we will sit here ,it's totally in the shade the side he has picked
So I said shall we sit in the sun
So he starts -has to be on your terms
So face like thunder we sit here
1 hour we have sat here
Literally nobody else here as everyone is on the other side in the sun.
He hasn't spoke in a hour face like thunder
Sat with his long sleeve top on
Now he's just said we won't go to mogan today
We can go tomorrow -I picked this seat and clearly it's not good enough for you

What have I done wrong ?was I wrong to suggest a seat in the sun?

I wouldn't be giving him a choice
I would be telling him what i was doing
He can do what he likes

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