*I live in an echo chamber, almost all my friends and colleagues are Labour supporters, and I only actually know one person who definitely votes Tory.
She's still voting Tory because she's politically and economically illiterate, and has no grasp of how stuff works. She bloody loved the flatulent fabricator Johnson because she thought he was "hilarious". She was an NHS nurse for many years and is now in local government, managing sheltered housing schemes, but because she's got a few lazy colleagues she's still convinced that our public services are adequately funded and any problems are down to bad management and/or lazy staff. Oh, and also because so many people have more children than they can afford because they get more benefits (I've pointed out that since 2017, they don't get any more money after the second child, but she just shrugs). *
Do this ‘friend’ a favour and stop being her ‘friend’. Go and live in your echo chamber as you clearly can’t take someone with a different opinion.
There is plenty of waste in public services and maybe, having experienced it, this lady may actually know better than you. Also, you are incorrect that you get no more benefits after 2 children.
Typical be kind socialist voter who can’t accept that other people vote differently because they feel that is what is best for society.