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To think this shouldn't result in a prison sentence

211 replies

Codie22345 · 02/10/2023 18:16

I've read that idiot who showed the picture of that poor little boy at the football match is facing jail. Showing that picture was incredibly cruel, nasty, spiteful and many other things. That poor boy suffered with cancer and his family lost him so young.
However I do not believe this man should go to jail for showing the image. He rightfully deserves to be named and shamed, cautioned, possibly banned from future matches. But I don't understand why he should be going to prison over it.

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StuartBroadshairband · 03/10/2023 03:00

Not the point, but who the fuck are Sunderland United?

Also, that bigot Defoe didn't half take advantage of the situation to improve his image.

SammyScrounge · 03/10/2023 03:25

Saker · 02/10/2023 18:23

I agree with you OP, it would be more productive to make him do community service for a hospice or similar. Sending people to prison rarely achieves anything.

Service at a hospice? Lots of ill people to photograph there.

Statice · 03/10/2023 03:34

If convicted under the Public Order Act the maximum time he can be imprisoned for is six months. Seems reasonable. He may well only be fined.

Cyclebabble · 03/10/2023 03:36

Vile man. Cannot imagine how Bradley’s family must have felt. Prosecution said on being questioned he said he felt it was a laugh and funny banter. It is right that he is going to bed worrying he is off to jail- but my bet is community service. I hope it is a number of hundreds of hours doing something really unpleasant.

Nat6999 · 03/10/2023 19:11

Brefugee · 02/10/2023 20:26

I'm a Sheffield Wednesday fan and am appalled. I hope he gets the harshest sentence allowable, it should act as a deterrent. I've contributed to the fund set up by the Wednesday women's club and a lot of my friends have done the same.

Frankly? The stewards need to chuck drunk/drugged/high people out of the ground. I'm in Germany. We are allowed to actually take beer to our seats. That kind of drunkenness would never be allowed.

I'm a Wednesday supporter as well, though with the state of the team at the moment, I'm a bit ashamed

Nat6999 · 03/10/2023 19:15

I think he will either get a tag or the alcohol tag, a community order & a drug rehabilitation order plus a football banning order.

Heronwatcher · 03/10/2023 19:26

YABU he’s a brainless callous idiot who deserves to be made an example of.

100% chance that if you fined him he just wouldn’t pay (I bet he’s not working) then someone would have to pay more taxpayer’s money to enforce it through the courts and let’s be honest he’s hardly likely to have prestige assets to enforce it against.

MalteserGeezee · 03/10/2023 19:34

IslaWinds · 02/10/2023 18:38

I wouldn’t want a coke addict with zero empathy doing community service other than emptying dog poo bins.

Amen to this. I wouldn't let this waste of skin within a 10 mile radius of a kid's hospital or cancer unit. It's not the job of those kids or their parents to be emotional support humans/perform emotional labour to educate someone about something that is just so patently, breathtakingly obvious that it shouldn't need explaining. Coked up peace of shit.

Willapea · 03/10/2023 21:18

This cretin lives in our village, and he's been kicked off his football and cricket team, banned from his local pub and the cricket club. Oh and and apparently lost his job.
Not laughing now.

Againstmachine · 03/10/2023 23:00

Willapea · 03/10/2023 21:18

This cretin lives in our village, and he's been kicked off his football and cricket team, banned from his local pub and the cricket club. Oh and and apparently lost his job.
Not laughing now.

He has he is now completely ostracized hopefully with his moron brother.

That said the football community with the threats of violence against him and his family havent painted a great picture of theirselves and I'd dare say there is a few who ought to be arrested for their threats.

BlackForestCake · 03/10/2023 23:47

Those are worse punishments than prison tbh.

“So why did you leave your last job?... ”

Ameanstreakamilewide · 04/10/2023 17:30

Codie22345 · 02/10/2023 18:16

I've read that idiot who showed the picture of that poor little boy at the football match is facing jail. Showing that picture was incredibly cruel, nasty, spiteful and many other things. That poor boy suffered with cancer and his family lost him so young.
However I do not believe this man should go to jail for showing the image. He rightfully deserves to be named and shamed, cautioned, possibly banned from future matches. But I don't understand why he should be going to prison over it.

Not when we continually have men in possession of thousands of child sexual abuse pictures, strolling out of the courtroom.

The 2 men are dickheads. But that's what free speech is.
A fine would have been better.

Codie22345 · 04/10/2023 18:05

There's a baying mob mentality with anything I find. People want the worst punishment possible for anything. They will happily see this man's life ruined. They would be happy for him to never work again and be locked in a cell for the rest of his days. What he did was disgraceful and hideous. But the fact that people want his entire life to be over is quite frightening.

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Codie22345 · 04/10/2023 18:07

They'd even be happy for him to get beaten to a pulp. He's not a nice person, evidently. However people have this sick thirst for wanting someone's life to be ended, it's evident from some posters and it's just too much.

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Ameanstreakamilewide · 04/10/2023 18:08

Codie22345 · 04/10/2023 18:07

They'd even be happy for him to get beaten to a pulp. He's not a nice person, evidently. However people have this sick thirst for wanting someone's life to be ended, it's evident from some posters and it's just too much.

Social media doesn't help. I genuinely think it's a blight on modern society.

It can bring out the worst in people, especially the anonymity it provides.

Codie22345 · 04/10/2023 18:15

Yes I agree. Remember when people were desperate to 'make an example ' of Caroline Flack.

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MyCircumference · 04/10/2023 19:46

Ameanstreakamilewide · 04/10/2023 18:08

Social media doesn't help. I genuinely think it's a blight on modern society.

It can bring out the worst in people, especially the anonymity it provides.

i agree, about social media
it should be a cautionary tale - like black mirror

Heronwatcher · 04/10/2023 20:48

Codie22345 · 04/10/2023 18:05

There's a baying mob mentality with anything I find. People want the worst punishment possible for anything. They will happily see this man's life ruined. They would be happy for him to never work again and be locked in a cell for the rest of his days. What he did was disgraceful and hideous. But the fact that people want his entire life to be over is quite frightening.

Oh come on, if he gets a prison sentence it’s because that’s available to the judge who deals with the sentencing for that crime as a matter of law. That’s because (we) society take that kind of behaviour seriously enough to merit it- and quite rightly too given that (as many people have pointed out) it was not just callous and cruel, but also extremely dangerous in a football ground.

And besides by your logic he’d be safer in prison anyway 🤷‍♀️

Ameanstreakamilewide · 06/10/2023 08:51

Nat6999 · 02/10/2023 18:47

He wasn't so brave when he scuttled out of court today. Sheffield Wednesday supporters named & shamed him at the weekend. He also lost his job because supporters told where he worked what he had done. He is banned from any football ground in the country.

He lost his job??

I'd like to know on what grounds.

His employer might need to buckle up for an employment tribunal.
How he behaved at a football match (in his own time, etc), has fuck all to do with his employer.

SawX · 06/10/2023 08:56

DonnaBanana · 02/10/2023 18:41

This is a crime that goes beyond anything physical violence can do as it targeted thousands of fans at the match. This was laughing while showing a photo of a dead person. While I don’t support capital punishment usually clear cut cases like this where lots of people saw the crime took place in real time are a different matter imo

This person is probably eligible to be on a jury of your peers. Terrifying.

Againstmachine · 06/10/2023 08:58

From what I read he has only recently left his previous job so if there less than 2 years they can get rid.

R37sraY · 06/10/2023 09:03

Kpo58 · 02/10/2023 18:21

Freedom of expression doesn't mean freedom from consequences. If we did this more often, maybe it would help lower the amount of hurtful trolls out there.

Freedom from legal consequences is exactly what it does mean.

Ameanstreakamilewide · 06/10/2023 09:06

Againstmachine · 06/10/2023 08:58

From what I read he has only recently left his previous job so if there less than 2 years they can get rid.

They still can't get rid of an employee because 'villagers with pitchforks and torches banged on the door of the castle'.

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 06/10/2023 09:12

R37sraY · 06/10/2023 09:03

Freedom from legal consequences is exactly what it does mean.

Not really. Mischievously shouting ‘fire’ in a crowded theatre, resulting in crush and injury, would be a criminal offence and civil wrong. Defamation and harassment with words are wrongs that can be sued on or are criminal offences (harassment). There are others.

I do agree that we need to very careful about restricting speech though. Action against this bloke is probably justifiable on the public order basis, but not on the basis of causing offence in itself.

Everanewbie · 06/10/2023 09:12

I was absolutely appalled by this. Unfortunately, and reluctantly I have come to the conclusion that the law courts should not punish this man.

My issue is that ultimately, to try and convict this man someone must be the arbiter or what outrages public decency.

To me, this is the absolute height of outraging public decency and I would love to throw the book at him. But other people saw the Satanic Verses as the worst offense to public decency and wanted Salmon Rushdie executed. Some celebrities expressed their hope publicly that our then Prime Minister would succumb to covid. BLM activists have been known to call for genocide of white people. If you let these things slide, where is the line?

This man should be banned from every football ground in the land as that is a decision for the football authorities and clubs. And privately, I hope the lads at this guys local express their outrage to him in their own special way. He shouldn't go unpunished and I'm sure he won't do, but state prosecution spooks me.

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