An old school friend died recently and I'd like to go to his funeral. We were close at school but haven't seen each other for years.
I have a just turned one year old baby who's breastfed. Would it be unreasonable to take her to the funeral?
I don't have any local family/friends who could take DD, and the funeral is a decent drive away so would involve leaving her for a while. I haven't managed to cut down breastfeeds yet and she doesn't really have bottles or milk from a cup.
I'd sit at the back and take her out at the first peep, and think she'd be happy in a sling.
I'm not close to the school friend's parents or siblings etc so don't want to bother them at this difficult time by asking directly.