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My children were invited into a strangers house! Am I over reacting?

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Flowers94 · 06/09/2023 19:06

This is quite long but basically my children are 8&9 and have been playing out at the back of our house for a few months but know where they can and can’t go. a few days ago they’ve gone out and when I’ve gone to shout them in they weren’t responding so I’ve panicked and when they returned about 10 mins later they’ve been in a house about 12 door up stroking a cat.
I’ve explained the them about stranger danger and asked what’s happened and they’ve said the cat was lost so they’ve found it and this couple have said to them that the cat is shy so do they want to come in and stroke/feed the cat.

i went mad at the kids which I maybe shouldn’t have done but they know we don’t go into strangers houses, I am considering going to this couples house and suggesting they don’t invite children into their home as to me that’s extremely odd.
is this an overreaction on my part? Or do normal adults invite children into their homes to stroke there pets

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Blueink · 10/09/2023 15:22

Having had a few days to reflect, what did you decide to do, OP?

tolerable · 18/02/2024 01:36

i would take the kids-and calmly go knock. Say your kids said theyd been a visit and "gently"say youve HAD to give them into trouble for going inside. MOST reasonable adults -if hadnt realised the potential "dangerzone"will at that stage realise the issue. If they do you gony have new even vague neighbours with cat "friends".

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