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AIBU?

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to pull my 6 year old out of school just because she wants to be home educated?

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HomeEduDilemma · 25/08/2023 11:46

Me and DH are not in agreement over this and I am feeling really stuck about it!

Our 9 year old (autistic) came out of school last year and is now home educated. He couldn't cope in mainstream school and we are all in agreement that home ed is the best thing for him.

Our almost 6 year old absolutely thrived in Reception last year academically and socially. She's very attached to me and would love to stay with me, but also enjoys school.

However, now she knows her brother is staying at home all day, she is miserable about going back to school. She's loved meeting up with other home ed kids over the summer and is in tears about school starting again.

I feel like she is only little once and I am at home anyway, so why not home educate her too? I'm sure she would continue doing really well academically with 1:1 attention (both kids very bright/academic).

DH feels like school should be the default and there is no real reason to keep her home. Plus as siblings they often bicker and fight and DS will suffer not getting 100% of my attention.

AIBU? So unsure about what to do for the best.

OP posts:
Potsto · 29/08/2023 20:11

Surely having them both at home means more time for individualised education for DS as well as DD? As you won't be tied to two school runs a day, and can stay at HE meets/the museum/etc as late as you like.

I suppose I'd look at how she's interacted with other children at the HE meets she's been at over the summer - has her social life been good? Can that be sustained? Will her school friends' parents facilitate playdates at weekends and the holidays, so she doesn't lose those connections?

As you say, the academics are the easier bit.

Mumtoaterribleteen · 30/08/2023 19:09

Help please what to do with regards drugs selling taking finding in the house do I give up on this teen . I’ve tried and tried and can’t seem to get away from this 18 years old making lots of mistakes

Reetnice · 30/08/2023 19:29

Dryona · 29/08/2023 16:16

Not all of us are like this woman so please don't do that.

Oh 😂 I actually really rate her? She sells home education to me so well 🤣

Dryona · 30/08/2023 19:55

Mumtoaterribleteen · 30/08/2023 19:09

Help please what to do with regards drugs selling taking finding in the house do I give up on this teen . I’ve tried and tried and can’t seem to get away from this 18 years old making lots of mistakes

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