Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

The pictures of Daniela Westbrook

265 replies

ontyekams · 14/08/2023 17:11

The recent pictures of Daniela Westbrook has attracted a lot of negative comments. I can’t help but feeling sorry for someone who clearly has had issues to deal with throughout her life.

Do you find it is rude to say she looks awful?

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/danniella-westbrook-channels-marilyn-monroe-30681709.amp

Danniella Westbrook channels Marilyn Monroe as she shows off results of boob job

Danniella Westbrook showed off the results of her latest surgery after going under the knife months after a botched operation on her face left her 'wanting to die'

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/danniella-westbrook-channels-marilyn-monroe-30681709.amp

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
AInightingale · 14/08/2023 17:57

Yes, I do, because she has a facial disfigurement and 'awful' is not a word that should be used in this context. Bad hairstyles and clothes and things that can be changed are 'awful'. It may have been self inflicted through addiction but she still deserves compassion. It's hardly an option to live with a bag on your head.

cantstaymadatyou · 14/08/2023 17:57

There was an ex-Eastenders actor who ended up working in B&M. She was only in it a short time yet it was splashed all over the papers. Luckily they got bored easily and moved on. If Daniella Westbrook tried to work in Asda it would be ridiculous. The press would no doubt be trying to get embarrassing photos of her and there would be all sorts of weirdos turning up.

Clarabe1 · 14/08/2023 17:58

I saw her about a year again on the train. She looked tiny and very, very vulnerable. Photos don’t really convey it. If she hadn’t have been who she was I would have assumed she was a drug user if I being honest. The DM and other tabloids are just being cruel with the endless photos.

OhhhhhhhhBiscuits · 14/08/2023 17:58

BBno4 · 14/08/2023 17:52

OK, so reading the article it seems she has had botched surgery in Turkey so I don't think it is all from the drug abuse.

No its all from drug abuse. She likes to claim they botched her surgery by showing a very heavily filtered picture of herself saying this is what she looked like before and this is after. It's all bollocks. She has no one to blame but herself. You would think when she lost her septum that would have been a wake up call, but she is still snorting away on the coke.

sunglassesonthetable · 14/08/2023 17:59

She sells the pictures herself so she is obviously happy for them to be out there. These are not in the wild pap pictures. She is posing for them. Any photo credits of Backgrid are the person getting friend/family/someone to take pictures of themselves and then selling them to Backgrid. Loads of z listers use Backgrid to earn money.

Yep that's it. First I thought was that they were intrusive pap photos.

Then it dawned on me.

Remembermynamealways · 14/08/2023 17:59

I see this as the best advert of all for kids to avoid drugs at all costs. The poor thing is being exploited. I don’t know how anyone can look at the photos and feel anything other than empathy.
She is a survivor.

PinkCherryBlossoms · 14/08/2023 17:59

CalistoNoSolo · 14/08/2023 17:47

We have a deficit of unskilled labour. Pretty sure she could get a job if she really had to put food on the table. Stacking shelves in her local supermarket is beneath her presumably.

We do have a deficit. But she's still a drug addict with no evidence that she can actually usefully perform unskilled labour, and whose presence is going to attract untoward attention. One can see why the average NMW employer would rather just manage without.

cinnamonfrenchtoast · 14/08/2023 17:59

OhhhhhhhhBiscuits · 14/08/2023 17:56

She sells the pictures herself so she is obviously happy for them to be out there. These are not in the wild pap pictures. She is posing for them. Any photo credits of Backgrid are the person getting friend/family/someone to take pictures of themselves and then selling them to Backgrid. Loads of z listers use Backgrid to earn money.

And if she isn't an advert to not do drugs I don't know what is. She is apparently still on the coke so she hasn't learnt her lesson.

Hmm, is she really happy for them to be out there or is she desperate for money?

ladyvivienne · 14/08/2023 18:01

I don't understand why she looks so old though - sunbeds? Yes her nose collapsed but that doesn't explain her neck etc.

I don't feel sorry for her, she did it to herself.

x2boys · 14/08/2023 18:02

She looks dreadful.,but I saw these pictures on Facebook yesterday and the the daily mail ( I think)/had posted them saying how glamorous she looks they know full.well.she doesn't look glamorous they are just trying to.provoke horrible comments
But she puts herself out there I guess?

Clarabe1 · 14/08/2023 18:03

FetchezLaVache · 14/08/2023 17:45

What I don't understand is that there must be loads of people who've taken as much cocaine as she has - why does it seem to have affected her so badly? Genetic predisposition to osteoporosis??

What a lot if people forget is that she was also in a horrendous car crash that knocked a load of her teeth out. The cocaine knackered her nose and bones but the car crash really accelerated it,
Then what put the final nail in is when she had teeth implants, which completely knackered her jaw.
it wasn’t all due to the drugs but that’s what made her susceptible in the first place

Fartooold · 14/08/2023 18:03

Just a reminder of how she used to look.
I don't care if she did this to herself, it's just a cruel, horrible way to end up.
I wish her well for the future.

The pictures of Daniela Westbrook
RoseslnTheHospital · 14/08/2023 18:06

ladyvivienne · 14/08/2023 18:01

I don't understand why she looks so old though - sunbeds? Yes her nose collapsed but that doesn't explain her neck etc.

I don't feel sorry for her, she did it to herself.

She was (is?) a smoker as well as all the rest. And probably hasn't cared at all about sun safety over the years.

dayswithaY · 14/08/2023 18:07

Here we go again - “why can’t she just stack shelves in a supermarket” is such an old fashioned thing to say.

The online application is long and complicated, involving lots of “what would you do in this situation” type questions, examples of when you have shown initiative etc. You have to turn up for a whole day’s training which you better pass or you’re out. Asda used to ask you to work a 4 hour trial shift unpaid (maybe they still do?)

They prefer people with retail experience, competition is fierce, hours are not guaranteed, it is a physically demanding job, you have to multi task between shop floor, self service checkouts, tills and warehouse. Why anyone thinks it’s an easy choice for someone who is down on their luck is beyond me.

Regarding Daniella’s lifestyle, I just think about all the ordinary non famous ex (or current) drug addicts who can’t make a quick buck from the Daily Mail. I guess they have to resort to stealing from said supermarkets to get by, instead of the freebies and cash available to Z listers so we can all laugh at them.

She’s a lot better off than some people.

theDudesmummy · 14/08/2023 18:07

I had not heard of this lady before, but is she is/was an addict and this is the main cause of her unfortunate condition then saying that she has "no-one to blame but herself" is not right or fair. It is a mental disorder.

fiorentina · 14/08/2023 18:07

The photos are always by Backgrid so she has a relationship with them to take the photos and get them published, probably to benefit financially.
It’s a shame she has no good supportive friends to try and help her, she continually makes awful choices I feel sad for how her life has become.

Gingerkittykat · 14/08/2023 18:09

I used to want to be like her when she was Sam in Eastenders, my teenage self thought she was very glamorous compared to podgy, ginger, bespectacled me.

I't really sad to see how she has ended up.

catzrulz · 14/08/2023 18:09

I heard of one report saying that she was trying to sell her old implants on only fans for £40 thousand pounds.
Desperately sad if it is true.

ManateeFair · 14/08/2023 18:09

She is selling photo opportunities to the media, so these shots were taken and sold with her permission, but the way the tabloids are using them is horrible and exploitative and I doubt she has capacity to make wise decisions at the moment.

It's very obvious that she has all sorts of mental and physical health issues and the only reason the Mirror and the Mail are running these stories is because they are fully aware that people will share the link just to say how terrible she looks (they knew exactly what they were doing with that sarcastic reference to Monroe). The fact that she is apparently willing to undergo that kind of humiliation for a cut of the photographer's fee is indicative of her desperation - I strongly doubt she'd be setting up pictures like this if she had any other viable way of making a living, and the papers are exploiting her desperation and her poor mental health for every last penny they can.

It's also worth remembering that she first started doing cocaine in nightclubs at the age of 14, so the very fact that she was even in a situation where going clubbing with adults and being offered coke at that age was something she was allowed/able to do is a pretty obvious sign that she's had an utterly dysfunctional childhood from the start. Poor girl.

themessygarden · 14/08/2023 18:10

Gosh, so awful. . I also don't understand how she can't have a reconstruction of her face, people have reconstruction after horrific car accidents, burns, gunshots, cancer, there must be a maxillofacial surgeon who could help reconstruct her face.

Usernamen · 14/08/2023 18:13

dayswithaY · 14/08/2023 18:07

Here we go again - “why can’t she just stack shelves in a supermarket” is such an old fashioned thing to say.

The online application is long and complicated, involving lots of “what would you do in this situation” type questions, examples of when you have shown initiative etc. You have to turn up for a whole day’s training which you better pass or you’re out. Asda used to ask you to work a 4 hour trial shift unpaid (maybe they still do?)

They prefer people with retail experience, competition is fierce, hours are not guaranteed, it is a physically demanding job, you have to multi task between shop floor, self service checkouts, tills and warehouse. Why anyone thinks it’s an easy choice for someone who is down on their luck is beyond me.

Regarding Daniella’s lifestyle, I just think about all the ordinary non famous ex (or current) drug addicts who can’t make a quick buck from the Daily Mail. I guess they have to resort to stealing from said supermarkets to get by, instead of the freebies and cash available to Z listers so we can all laugh at them.

She’s a lot better off than some people.

The difficulty isn’t in getting a job at a supermarket or newsagents, it’s in going from attending celebrity parties and TV awards ceremonies dressed in designer clothes with hair and make up professionally done etc. to “stacking shelves”. I don’t think anything could find that anything other than excruciating.

TequilaNights · 14/08/2023 18:13

Leave her alone.

Where do people get off on commenting on another persons appearance.

In the public eye or not, be better.

Callyem · 14/08/2023 18:13

She does appear to be active in her addiction. No employer would touch her. She has choices, but because of her addiction, chooses the only way she knows to get enough money to fund her habit. Its very sad.

jc12689 · 14/08/2023 18:13

WhateverMate · 14/08/2023 17:32

You feel so sorry for her that you thought you'd post her photo on Mumsnet, to invite more comments 🙄

Yeah people love to claim how disgusting it is and how she's being exploited and how they feel sorry for her but they're the ones reading the articles and even sharing the links to give these stories more traction.

Sorry OP. You're part of the problem. It's voyeuristic and just what these newspapers want.

Clarabe1 · 14/08/2023 18:13

themessygarden · 14/08/2023 18:10

Gosh, so awful. . I also don't understand how she can't have a reconstruction of her face, people have reconstruction after horrific car accidents, burns, gunshots, cancer, there must be a maxillofacial surgeon who could help reconstruct her face.

I think it’s probably because she won’t quit smoking and is still an addict. She was warned that must give up smoking before having teeth implants and carried on and that’s one of the reasons they failed.