So this is your life now @BlueMediterranean for the forseeable future.
One of you will be wanting another baby soon.
It will be either you, because you get lonely with it just being you to get the baby to sleep and no doubt having to cope with many other things on your own too, mixed in with our stupid hormones that make us long for another screaming, pooing, puking, gorgeous, giggling, glorious bundle of wriggling arms and legs, and the true unconditional love that our young children give us, and that hopefully we give them back in spades;
or him,
Because from at least 8 O'clock in the evening, he can slouch down in his favourite chair, drink some beer (hopefully not smoke a fag?), watch his favourite TV - sport or inane comics (sorry, but I find it very hard to find anything funny about most modern day comedians - but that's just my personal hang-up - give me The Big Yin, or the two Ronnies, or Morcombe and Wise, or Sarah Millican, or our dear late departed Victoria Wood, yes I do know that most of the others are now dead too, they could all make me howl, but today's comics, I just don't understand the humour, but I am sure it must be me, not them...), maybe even watch some soft porn or play on his Xbox, until you come back down knackered, wanting a cuddle and a relax - oops, does he take you wanting a cuddle as meaning you are up for something else, so then you have to ward off his mauling paws as well?
If he impregnates you, he continues to have it all his own way for even longer, much longer...
Or OP you could stop being his own personal slave wonder woman. He doesn't seem to have much respect for you, or put you (and his dear child) above everyone else - well basically him, I doubt anyone else in his life comes above him - so if you just STOP, your dear 14 month old baby could have a bottle of your expressed milk given to him or her by their loving, doting, father, holding them in his arms, and gazing adoringly into their eyes as baby's eyes start to droop as they get heavier and H E A v i e r..... Z Z z z zz z z z. Oh dear that isn't baby snoring is it?
Anyway OP, I think that your partner would start respecting you much more if you stopped letting him walk all over you, and if he doesn't then please don't have another baby with him - I promise you that there are far better partners and dads out there, they might take a bit of searching for, but if you don't find one straight away (in fact please don't even try to, work on getting your own self-esteem right where it should be to start with, and understand and believe that you are worthy of being properly loved - including by yourself - and really respected!) living with only your own needs and your baby's, to meet and fulfill them on your own is so empowering, and so freeing. 🩷💐