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Lodger putting on the heating

240 replies

temosmail · 01/08/2023 17:23

Is it really that cold???

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Maia77 · 01/08/2023 18:43

I've had it on a few times this week. I'm in the North West.

Mummyoflittledragon · 01/08/2023 18:44

temosmail · 01/08/2023 18:13

There is an extractor fan for showers. You can't expect a window in winter to be open all the time..... it's going to let out all the heat.

Dd showers late some evenings and the window stays open all night summer and winter. I am often up early and shut it before the heating comes on. This would work less well were the window not protected on one side by our house and on the other by the neighbour’s (it’s in a kind of wide U). But it really doesn’t feel cold for long in there once the heating is on.

We also leave the bathroom window open a considerable amount of time after showers. I find if you don’t want mould and things like the bathroom radiator to rust fast, an extractor fan doesn’t really cut it.

marshmallowfinder · 01/08/2023 18:44

21 degrees here and humid. Crazy to put heating on unless 15/16 degrees.

Aphotoaday · 01/08/2023 18:53

RunningFromInsanity · 01/08/2023 17:24

Depends what country.
But U.K., no absolutely not.

Depends where in the UK you are. Orkney and Shetland Isles are closer to the Artic Circle than London.

temosmail · 01/08/2023 18:54

@Mummyoflittledragon she opens, I close, and so the circle continues....

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someonethatyoulovetoomuch · 01/08/2023 18:55

I’m in NE Scotland just outside Aberdeen and it’s so hot I’ve sunburned today. If it’s 22° here in north Scotland it can’t be much colder elsewhere surely?!

abyssinianrosette · 01/08/2023 18:55

It's about 14 degrees here but feels cooler. Was very warm earlier when the sun was out. Kind of weather to put a light cardigan or sweater on, rather than heating, but then I don't feel the cold much.

temosmail · 01/08/2023 18:55

@Harlechchick well insulated flat?

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temosmail · 01/08/2023 18:56

BringOnSummerHolidays · 01/08/2023 18:20

I have the windows open after shower even in winter. It cost me more to fix a damp house. You can see here some other PP also put their heating on because of damp.

That said. There is no need to change the thermostat to 15C just because it’s summer. You can leave it at a constant temperature all year round. For example, 18 or 20C. Then it will come on when it drops below 20C. You should have rules on the thermostat temperature given you are paying.

It's 20 in winter,... lol

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Bideshi · 01/08/2023 18:58

MrsMarzetti · 01/08/2023 17:41

Her in SW Scotland it isn't cold but it is damp. Jeans have dried on the line today but the fires are lit to get rid of the dampness.

Here in SW Scotland we've lit the woodburner every evening and needed it.

Runnerduck34 · 01/08/2023 18:59

DH put heating on for an hour today, he was cold WFH , sitting still in a room with no direct sun.
I was also WFH but wasnt cold. Some people feel the cold more than others and some rooms in the house are colder than others.

BeeDavis · 01/08/2023 18:59

The only time I’ve put my heating on in the last few month is when the boiler man came to do a service! Even then I didn’t want to put it on 😂 Absolutely no need for it to be on in August they need to grow up 🤨

Restinggoddess · 01/08/2023 19:03

As many have said - depends on where you live and what kind of house you are in

Put ours on for an hour as 14 degrees here in Scotland

Perhaps this thread also shows that some people in this country have no idea what the heating requirements are in rural parts of the country - but it is Ubisoft a lodger to do this

VinEtFromage · 01/08/2023 19:04

KittyMcKitty · 01/08/2023 17:30

I guess it depends where you are - I’ve had the doors at the back of the house open all day and the washing in the line. (I’m in the SE).

@@KittyMcKitty

same here, it's been 24 most of the day, peaked at 26°, it's still very warm.

@temosmail

you need to speak to them and come to some agreement. My god daughter (17) would say it's cold, she'd be told to get a jumper, socks, throw. and I'd TRY to restrain myself from saying don't be so bloody ridiculous

dementedpixie · 01/08/2023 19:04

Your heating would not have actually come on though if it's set at 15⁰C as the rooms are already warm

Twyford · 01/08/2023 19:08

Weefreetiffany · 01/08/2023 18:16

Happy to take the lodgers money but not happy for them to actually live in the house? Part of living in a place is having a comfortable temperature- YABU

22 degrees is a perfectly comfortable temperature. It's that temperature where I am right now, and I'm OK with a T-shirt. I'm definitely not the hardy type, if I thought it was cold I wold put a jumper on.

ToBeOrNotToBee · 01/08/2023 19:10

If its cold it's cold.

Mine kicked in overnight last week, it was that cold overnight.

SadieOlsen · 01/08/2023 19:10

I lodged with people for years and never put the heating on or switched it off - it was her house and for her to decide. Lodgers generally pay a charge that covers rent and bills. If the lodger puts the heating on whenever they want, you could end up making little profit on the rent they pay you.

thecatsthecats · 01/08/2023 19:11

BringOnSummerHolidays · 01/08/2023 18:20

I have the windows open after shower even in winter. It cost me more to fix a damp house. You can see here some other PP also put their heating on because of damp.

That said. There is no need to change the thermostat to 15C just because it’s summer. You can leave it at a constant temperature all year round. For example, 18 or 20C. Then it will come on when it drops below 20C. You should have rules on the thermostat temperature given you are paying.

You can, but I actually prefer the house cooler in summer. It's not very refreshing to come in from. 25 degrees to 20 degrees.

Agree about airing the bathroom though - my own reason for keeping a warm house all the time in winter is elderly cats, one prone to lung infections. Definitely cheaper to keep him warm and to not pay the vet.

Whataretheodds · 01/08/2023 19:13

Have you explained to the lodger how the extractor fan works and when the window needs to be closed to let it work versus when the window needs to be open? It's not obvious in a different house.

I agree windows should be opened daily including in winter, but for an appropriate length of time!

Mirabai · 01/08/2023 19:15

I’ve put the heated towel rail on because nothing is drying. It’s sitting on the rack and going ponky.

LoveYouHoneyBadger · 01/08/2023 19:18

It depends where you are

I'm in Northern ireland and its cold and raining .I've had to put the heating on as past two nights I was shivering in bed.
Also , some people store body heat better than others. I'm always alot warmer than my partner , he's always cold , even in summer

Harlechchick · 01/08/2023 19:20

temosmail · 01/08/2023 18:55

@Harlechchick well insulated flat?

It may well be, but I reckon he's benefiting, like I say, from the residents above, below and to either side of him having theirs on. He's friendly with his neighbours and says that their flats are roasting & have their heaters on high!
If they start to move out & the flats stand empty, he may start to need his own heating in the colder months of course.

abyssinianrosette · 01/08/2023 19:20

It is cold for August. I'm in the West Country (further up than Cornwall but still never usually really cold in summer) but it's v changeable and windy.

ladyvivienne · 01/08/2023 19:21

Bathroom window absolutely should be open.

Heating should absolutely not be on!