Did I mentioned that im livid?
Both DH and I work full time.
he works Saturdays.
we have children, one of whom has additional needs and is an awful violent, abusive individual.
We are getting support from psychiatrists and we have a key worker. You may link this to my previous threads.
Its my FIL's 80th, we were all supposed to go to theirs 1.5 hours away for a surprise lunch.
Only DH went because we didn't want a violent outburst our 12 year old and for him to call us all cunts and possibly throw a chair at us, like he does.
So DH decided he would go alone.
He was planning on leaving at 11am.
He didn't bother hauling his arse out of bed until 9.30am.
Tonigbt I'm putting the smallest to bed, he's asleep and 12 year old calls me in tears asking me to collect him as his bully has just punched him repeatedly in the head.
I call DH thinking it's 7pm so he must be round the corner as it's quite late.
no, he's just left.
So I have to wake up and drag out a crying pre-schooler to rescue the other one Who is now throwing things round his room in a rage as per.
Im absolutely livid that DH has just left.
Why the fuck did he need to stay until 7pm? When he knows full fucking well what it's like here.
You go for a birthday lunch, you leave by 5, 6 latest surely??