Everyone feels unattractive often. Everyone sometimes has that thought were you imagine you must look like an alien to other people. Everyone worries that their head is too big, too small, too pointy, too wide. Everyone thinks they’re overweight or underweight sometimes or even all the time. Legs too long. Arms too flabby. Fingers to squat. Skin to veiny. Whatever it is we all regularly feel like crap about ourselves.
I, for example, am currently entirely preoccupied with how overweight I am. But when I meet up with friends of mine who are much more overweight than I am, I don’t give their weight a second thought or see it negatively at all.
Now I am an absolute sulker - whinge about my weight (and other perceived wrongs) but I had a female friend who had a very noticeable moustache. But she was confident, presented herself well, and NEVER MENTIONED the moustache. When I think of her I think of a very attractive person.
My point being is that you’re not ugly. And everyone has people make annoying comments. Everyone feels ugly a lot of the time. And lots of people are actually not overly attractive but people around them think they are, because they’re happy in their own skin. If you’re striking/masculine looking, that’s you - and that’s special. Confidence and inner happiness/self-respect is what you need to worry about, not your actual looks. (I need to practice what I preach!)
DISCLAIMER Do not brush off the dickheads at your work. They’re absolute arseholes that deserve to lose their jobs. Even if someone looked like Shrek had a love child with Mr Blobby there is no reason on this earth to make fun of it or draw pictures (?!). Normal people would just think oh that person is unusual looking, then nothing. They’d think nothing more of it.
Be brave. Tell your boss. And look for a new job in the meantime where people are not evil.