Or is this an unhinged thing to say?

[cteevee]

Been seeing ExDP for the past nine months.

He hates the thought of me being with anyone else.

Today he has asked me if I have slept with anyone else, because the last time we had sex I "felt different".

Is this even a thing? Wtf?!

Wtaf? Looser and different, and YOU'RE the one being over sensitive??! What's he got down there, a digital micrometer? Why are you entertaining this crap for a second?

Why did you split up from this prince of a man

Sounds like he has a small cock and doesn't realise vaginas change throughout your cycle

@Eckyftang
The big questions are how long were you split up for, and how many people did you sleep with in that time?

What a fucking weird comment to make on this thread, almost as weird as her ex/not ex's comment.

@cteevee darling, I think you know this guy is not good for you. That is one hell of a red flag comment. It's not actually any of his business if you slept with anybody else in the year that you were apart, but I bet if you tell him that you did he'll be a dickhead about it.

(Also more generally - fuuuucckkkk why are some men really this thick about basic fucking biology???)

He’s doing this to’trick’ you into ‘confessing’ . He’s either projecting or a controlling arse. Is this relationship really worth the angst?

Yabu because you're the one putting up with it and no doubt you'll stay together.

Relationships are supposed to make you happy.

Is this making you happy?

Gross

Most of the time, yes. But things like this sour it.

Well…

1. that’s incredibly sexist and idiotic. Even shagging 100 blokes wouldn’t make you “loose”. He’s taking about tissue and muscles, not saran wrap🙄
2. your clitoris, labia etc. Fill up with blood when you’re aroused. And the muscles tighten up. Maybe you were “looser” (if you actually were…) because you just weren’t aroused?

Please say no children involved in this “relationship”. 🤞

This guy really is the dregs of the barrel. He isn't a good one. You can do better than this, OP. Being on your own would be better than this.

Absusive arseholes always call their victims "sensitive".

God help you OP, your standards are really to be pitied.

Tell him no, you aren't 'looser' but you were going to ask him if his penis has shrunk a bit because he feels 'different'

I'm not surprised!

Is it worth having to deal with this sort of questioning?

He was an ex for a reason OP, why did the relationship not work out last time and what makes you think it’ll be any different this time?

I suggest finding a man with a better understanding of the female anatomy in the very least. A penis cannot make you loose and nor is it capable of changing the texture of your body.

He sounds grim.

Does he think your vagina is made of kinetic sand?

Gross, you don’t wear out and get baggy from sex. This sounds like incel trope

Ugh, you need to throw him back.

Run for the hills, when you get to the hills, run some more.

What I don't understand is, why are you referring to him as an ex if you are back together? It sounds like confusion about the state of your relationship. You say "basically" a relationship, but is it?

If you are exclusive, then this question is offensive. He is making it clear that he does not trust you. If you are not exclusive, then who you have slept with is none of his business. If you haven't disucssed this, discuss it ASAP. You should not be having long term sexual relationships with people if you haven't talked about the basic grounds of your relationship.

The fact that he wants reassurance indicates that you are exclusive, and he doesn't trust you, which would be the end for me. Also, sleeping with other men doesn't make you "loose" fucking stupidest thing I've ever heard.

I just shuddered, can you imagine?? That devil stuff gets everywhere....

Get some self respect OP what an insult to you...you feel looser. 😡

He sounds like a controlling arse who sees you as his property. Why are you with him again exactly?