Or is this an unhinged thing to say?

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Been seeing ExDP for the past nine months.

He hates the thought of me being with anyone else.

Today he has asked me if I have slept with anyone else, because the last time we had sex I "felt different".

Is this even a thing? Wtf?!

FFS, It's a fanny, not a golden snitch - they don't have flesh memories.

Perhaps its his knob not going in as far as his guts gotten bigger and is getting in the way

This has misery written all over it.

He seems the ignorant and thick type to think that a woman who has slept with twenty men once is going to have a 'loose' vagina but a woman who has slept with her husband/partner twenty times isn't.

Dump him and his acorn Willy pronto.

He didn't say she felt loose though, just different.

Of course it isn't a thing. Has he been watching Andrew Tate videos or something? It's a disgusting thing some men say about women.

Unhinged, creepy, potentially abusive.

Dump him asap.

He is disgusting and your response should have been to dump him there and then.

Find your self respect and dump him if you have an ounce of sense and self esteem.

Sunshinesky1981

Hilarious! So funny, and probably true!
OP - get rid, it's not a thing, he's being an arsehole

God - He sounds vile.

Leave now with some dignity intact.

He was your ex for a reason…. Don’t fall back into this trap. He hasn’t changed.

I don’t know you but I know that you deserve better x

I feel like I've just read the script of Jeremy Kyle.

He needs to become your Ex again.

That’s a misogynistic and yes, totally unhinged, thing to say. Utterly gross and disgusting.

If you won't dump him, insist on a condom until he gets a STI check.

I can see why he’s an ex. Thick as shit. I can’t see why you’re back with him, felt different, what a twat.

Oh god he's one of those people who thinks the vagina magically moulds around whatever penis was last in it.

OP what on earth are you doing dating this piece of fungus? Having sex with it no less! Eurgh.

I’d love to see how this relationship pans out.

He has just said he needs the reassurance and doesn't want it to be a big deal.

Jesus christ OP.

Read between the lines of what he is saying.

What a repulsive, thick, controlling wanker.

ew ew ew.

Ugh. Don't fall for it. Don't fall for it again that should say.
Reassurance my arse, it's about control.

No, it's not a thing.
Unless you had literally just been sat (seconds before him penetrating you) on one of those monster dildos, then there's no way he could tell.
He said it to see your reaction.

He's an ex for a reason and it sounds like he deserves to stay there.

It clearly is a big deal or he wouldn’t mention it.

he was an ex for a reason.

He's either paranoid and insecure or he's slept with someone else and is comparing you to her. It's not a nice comment though, he's implying you're not as tight as before. Does he have form for making comments like this or is this a one off?

And the phrase “reassurance”

what does it matter if you’d worked your way through the premier league. You weren’t together

"When you lay down with dogs, don't be surprised when you catch fleas".

Imagine actually having this discussion with someone.🙄

Cringing for you OP.

You don't have to disclose anything that happened when you weren't together. And he shouldn't be asking