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To think no teacher is affirming animal/moon/object genders

263 replies

Greenpotatosoup · 23/06/2023 13:13

Surely no teacher in the UK would or could affirm a child who claimed to be a cat or a moon or any other sort of animal or object - eg letting them wear non-uniform, eat from bowl, disrupt learning with neo-pronoun requests. Just nonsense. This must be kids taking the piss and feeding bullshit to gullible journos.

I’ve also seen posters on here claiming their kid/cousin’s kid/neighbour’s goat breeder’s Auntie Sue’s best friend has first hand knowledge of this, and again I call bullshit. Bullshit. Any posters who say it’s not bullshit, get off here and write to Gillian Keegan, who explicitly requested examples of batshittery in schools at a recent select committee hearing, and name the school, and write to your local MP and ofsted too. But I think it’s just bullshit and teacher bashing.

YABU: I believe teachers ARE affirming cat/moon/anything genders

YANBU: I don’t believe any teacher would affirm an animal or object gender.

I understand there are strong views on here about transgender issues. My AIBU is not intended to be about that.

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PearlClutch · 23/06/2023 23:25

SeaSaltAir · 23/06/2023 19:03

They’re not. But there’s no hysterical pearl clutching in the truth.

I'm not even a little bit 'hysterical', I promise.

ginghamstarfish · 23/06/2023 23:26

I find it hard to believe any of this is real ... the person 'identifying' as a cat - well if they shit in a box, eat mice and lick their own arse then I might believe, but I'm sure they don't.

PickAChew · 23/06/2023 23:28

I epd hope YANBU but something suggests that there's always one.

PearlClutch · 23/06/2023 23:32

ilovesooty · 23/06/2023 20:15

I could. I didn't want to.

I suspect this thread will be an excuse to rehash all the stuff from the last one, and I would like this stuff to stay in Sex and Gender discussion quite frankly.

So you think these are actually genders, then?

redfacebigdisgrace · 23/06/2023 23:35

Teacher here. No way would I affirm an animal identity. It’s verging on abusive to the specific pupil and to the other pupils. This is a hill I will die on.

As an aside, I have a non binary pupil and just avoid using pronouns.

Moonandstarzz · 23/06/2023 23:38

It's inevitable it was going to happen.. If people decide they can identify as the opposite sex why not identify as a cat, unicorn, the moon, dinosaur or horse?

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 23/06/2023 23:42

ginghamstarfish · 23/06/2023 23:26

I find it hard to believe any of this is real ... the person 'identifying' as a cat - well if they shit in a box, eat mice and lick their own arse then I might believe, but I'm sure they don't.

Transwomen don't have vaginas, periods or the ability to carry a baby, yet we are expected to go along with their delusions.
What makes pretending to be a cat any different?

Setyoufree · 23/06/2023 23:44

Isn't the key bit less about the cat thing, and more about the fact that the girls were told their view that there are only two sexes was unacceptable?

I see the cat thing as an extension to all the other gender stuff really - when you have to affirm everything without question, why not cat?

Moonandstarzz · 23/06/2023 23:51

I think the two girls were absolutely correct in what they have done. If this ideology is being taught in schools it needs to be called out & exposed. I think many other kids will follow suit & hopefully expose anymore bullshit thats being peddled to kids.
Kids have the absolute right to question, debate & absolutely not believe what is being forced down their throats. Good on those girls. Teachers will need to think twice.
Fact over fiction. Always.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 24/06/2023 00:04

Setyoufree · 23/06/2023 23:44

Isn't the key bit less about the cat thing, and more about the fact that the girls were told their view that there are only two sexes was unacceptable?

I see the cat thing as an extension to all the other gender stuff really - when you have to affirm everything without question, why not cat?

Exactly, and the teacher called them homophobic for not believing in gender which makes no sense.

JazbayGrapes · 24/06/2023 00:04

I would have been that kid.

LoobyDop · 24/06/2023 00:10

I think this stuff about kids being allowed to identify as cats is deeply unhelpful to the GC argument. It just makes it easier for the TRAs to say we’re all nuts and buying into every bit of shit the right wing media feeds us, and easier for the majority in the middle to not want to get involved because it’s all so bizarre. We need to stop allowing the narrative to be controlled like that.

ashitghost · 24/06/2023 00:12

You are wrong. We have had a cat girl all the way through primary and into secondary. There’s also a boy who identifies as a shark.

Moonandstarzz · 24/06/2023 00:16

@LoobyDop@LoobyDop i don't agree. It's not about being GC or not. It's about common sense. It's about critical thinking. There is no difference between a child indentifying as a boy or as a cat...
The TRAs seem outraged on twitter, seemingly they don't want to be associated with the furries 🤷‍♀️

cherish123 · 24/06/2023 00:20

I am a teacher (primary) and there are very much 2 sexes. On the register- m/f. We don't have any children who say they are the opposite sex. We certainly would not entertain identifying as a cat etc!

ThreeLocusts · 24/06/2023 00:23

BigPeople · 23/06/2023 18:16

I have sat through gender awareness training in a school where we told as if it were absolute fact that ‘there are 73 genders’.

The lunatics have taken over the asylum. If you don’t believe it, you obviously don’t work in education!

I've repeatedly come across this number, but never a list, does someone have one?

Always makes me think of the 99 names of God in Islam. But only inasmuch as both affirm a belief - the names of God are beautiful even to atheist me ('the compassionate, the merciful' etc). The gender shite ain't.

Lookingfurther · 24/06/2023 01:02

ThreeLocusts · 24/06/2023 00:23

I've repeatedly come across this number, but never a list, does someone have one?

Always makes me think of the 99 names of God in Islam. But only inasmuch as both affirm a belief - the names of God are beautiful even to atheist me ('the compassionate, the merciful' etc). The gender shite ain't.

73 https://www.medicinenet.com/what_are_the_72_other_genders/article.htm

strawberry2017 · 24/06/2023 06:52

PrincessHoneysuckle · 23/06/2023 20:46

@strawberry2017 please tell me you're joking

Nope, I was talking to the mum whose daughter is in the same class.
I said the same to her!

Greenpotatosoup · 24/06/2023 07:09

ashitghost · 24/06/2023 00:12

You are wrong. We have had a cat girl all the way through primary and into secondary. There’s also a boy who identifies as a shark.

Not surprised kids might try this. But did the teachers affirm/go along with/enable this? If so, what form did the affirmation take?

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PearlClutch · 24/06/2023 07:12

Somanycats · 23/06/2023 23:16

It does hurt everybody else. I don't want to make my child lie every day because these over indulged kids (no, they are not lovely) insist on it. I hope they do not have a tolerant experience in secondary school. I hope someone pulls them up on this crap before they harm themselves with surgery or annoy everyone else so much they are social outcasts

It's a grave failure of these children.

Will they be 'affirmed'? Will they be encouraged to pursue surgery of their perfectly healthy bodies? Will anyone, ever, ask why they are unhappy in their bodies, consider the reason they wish to dissociate themselves from their bodies?

Anyone colluding in the myth that it's possible to change sex is negligent at best.

Greenpotatosoup · 24/06/2023 07:15

strawberry2017 · 23/06/2023 20:38

School near me has 3 that identify as dogs and bark in class.
Utterly ridiculous

Has this happened more than once, this barking in class? Are they not disciplined for this disruptive behaviour? Your friend’s daughter should write to Ofsted, DfE and her MP if this is accepted by the school.

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Moonandstarzz · 24/06/2023 07:28

PearlClutch · 24/06/2023 07:12

It's a grave failure of these children.

Will they be 'affirmed'? Will they be encouraged to pursue surgery of their perfectly healthy bodies? Will anyone, ever, ask why they are unhappy in their bodies, consider the reason they wish to dissociate themselves from their bodies?

Anyone colluding in the myth that it's possible to change sex is negligent at best.

Agree 100%... I also think it won't be long until the ones identifying as animals are going to start being offered surgery too to look more like their animal of choice.
There is no difference between a man who identifies as a woman or a man who identifies as a cat. Both are pretending to be something they are not or can never be. People need to stop entertaining the nonsense.