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To think most men are degenerate if you dig down

363 replies

dontshootthefruit · 09/06/2023 17:16

That's it really. Could be pmt but...

I'm not sure MN helps change my mind, and yes, I know people don't post their happy stories.

My own experiences, that of most of my friends, the women on here. It's endless. I know there are some guys that are nicer than others. I know some that I consider good friends. I still wonder, deep deep down if they're all degenerate when it comes to sex.

Porn, prostitution, rough sex, casual assaults, etc. I listened to womens hour today discussing a new BBC doc about the widespread groping on the tube in Japan. What's most shocking to me is the fact they have sex clubs there that allow men to pay to replicate that kind of sexual assault (clubs decked out like train carriages full of prostitutes that appear to resist as part of the fun). Thing is, it's not a fringe activity, it's a "thing". I totally despair. I try to be positive, I have a partner, I have a daughter that's growing up fas, but push comes to shove... wouldn't trust one man that deeply when their sexuality calls.

Shoot me.😀

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deathbyhayfever · 10/06/2023 12:33

JamSandle · 10/06/2023 12:17

Depending on where you live in the world, it can be very much like the Handmaid's Tale.

True.

Thankfully not in my part of the world however.

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 12:35

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Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:37

deathbyhayfever · 10/06/2023 12:32

Funny how in my experience, the attitude of some of the "women" on here (I imagine you are women, it's an anonymous forum after all) looking down and insulting anyone who doesn't fit their narrative.

is a lot worst than the attitude of men they hate so much. 😂

Well, at least you’re one of the few willing to admit you’re a man. Your cohorts are still hiding, so brave.

Welliehead · 10/06/2023 12:39

Thesharkradar · 10/06/2023 12:00

I think you're wrong they would be marrying these girls before they reach puberty so that they can make them submissive and compliant before all the hormones kick in, break them in if you will. Then they would impregnate them as soon as they were able to conceive, they wouldn't wait until the girls were 15, 15 year olds are much too feisty, they would compete with other men to capture and dominate the youngest prettiest girls.

Omg.

Surely this thread has jumped the shark now?!

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 12:40

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:16

Really, you’re a woman? You sound like a man.

Sad that you need your so called DH to back you up.

Well I can 100% clear that you for you last time I checked I was 100% and born one.

So I can confidently then assume that your powers of deduction and assumptions are also equally 100% factually incorrect as proven by your post.

Well done you've proved your posts are no longer worth replying to or indeed listening to there generally wrong as proven fact 😁

TheGuv1982 · 10/06/2023 12:45

I can’t fathom how people link “porn” to behaviour that pre-existed its wide spread availability.

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:46

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Well, given the thread is about men who are degenerate and not all men, if you think your H is being vilified here then you must see him as a degenerate.

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 12:49

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:46

Well, given the thread is about men who are degenerate and not all men, if you think your H is being vilified here then you must see him as a degenerate.

Nice attempt at a goady bait post, you really must try harder. Not very good are you. You have already proved your comprehension and assumptions are usually 100% incorrect. As fact from your previous post to me.

So carry on I find you amusing, if not a little challenged in the understanding department 😁

deathbyhayfever · 10/06/2023 12:51

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:37

Well, at least you’re one of the few willing to admit you’re a man. Your cohorts are still hiding, so brave.

😂😂😂

Thank you for proving my point.

If I can't agree with you, I must be a man, supreme insult. I am very much female, proudly so, thank you very much. (I am just assuming YOU are female, not someone on a wind-up, which is always possible with such offensive comments)

deathbyhayfever · 10/06/2023 12:52

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Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:53

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 12:49

Nice attempt at a goady bait post, you really must try harder. Not very good are you. You have already proved your comprehension and assumptions are usually 100% incorrect. As fact from your previous post to me.

So carry on I find you amusing, if not a little challenged in the understanding department 😁

Your little smiley emoji proves you’re seething inside. Crack on.

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:55

deathbyhayfever · 10/06/2023 12:51

😂😂😂

Thank you for proving my point.

If I can't agree with you, I must be a man, supreme insult. I am very much female, proudly so, thank you very much. (I am just assuming YOU are female, not someone on a wind-up, which is always possible with such offensive comments)

No, I thought you are a man because you have consistently minimised male violence on this thread.

If you’re not man then you’re on a wind up, which is even sadder.

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 12:56

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chupachucks · 10/06/2023 12:58

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:53

Your little smiley emoji proves you’re seething inside. Crack on.

😜👍

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:58

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Oooh the smiley faces are multiplying, you must be really raging now!

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 13:02

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 12:58

Oooh the smiley faces are multiplying, you must be really raging now!

Still wrong, infarct as you accuse yet another female of being a male, and this reply now shows your on 3/3 factually incorrect posts.

Well done you have proved to everyone here, everything you say is wrong. Also the fact you think you are winding anyone up just should your a bit delusional. I'll leave you be now as it's like posting to that drunk person stood in the road shouting at busses driving by 🤪

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 13:03

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 13:02

Still wrong, infarct as you accuse yet another female of being a male, and this reply now shows your on 3/3 factually incorrect posts.

Well done you have proved to everyone here, everything you say is wrong. Also the fact you think you are winding anyone up just should your a bit delusional. I'll leave you be now as it's like posting to that drunk person stood in the road shouting at busses driving by 🤪

How is it factually correct you’re a woman? Post your birth certificate here or it never happened.

Welliehead · 10/06/2023 13:06

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 13:03

How is it factually correct you’re a woman? Post your birth certificate here or it never happened.

FFS.

Are you serious?

This thread has gone way too far.

TheAudie · 10/06/2023 13:07

I honestly do not think my husband, dad, father in law, brothers, boss, most of my friends husbands, most of my husbands friends, male colleagues are degenerates

deathbyhayfever · 10/06/2023 13:09

Welliehead · 10/06/2023 13:06

FFS.

Are you serious?

This thread has gone way too far.

You know why I think this is a wind-up? Because it's there to derail the thread.

I don't agree at all with the "most men this, all men that" anymore than I agree with "most women this, all women that". However, posts so confrontational and rude are only there to stop any discussion.

Welliehead · 10/06/2023 13:10

I do not think my brothers, dh, dhs friends, my many male friends and colleagues, my bosses, my coaches, my trainers, my dad, my FIL, my uncles, my BIL or my ds's are degenerates either.

deathbyhayfever · 10/06/2023 13:10

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 13:02

Still wrong, infarct as you accuse yet another female of being a male, and this reply now shows your on 3/3 factually incorrect posts.

Well done you have proved to everyone here, everything you say is wrong. Also the fact you think you are winding anyone up just should your a bit delusional. I'll leave you be now as it's like posting to that drunk person stood in the road shouting at busses driving by 🤪

I'll ignore the poster if I was you, they are only trying to offend and start a fight, it's pointless

chupachucks · 10/06/2023 13:13

@deathbyhayfever yep going into garden to help my loving DH water his roses, it's lovely day out. 👍

Lacucuracha · 10/06/2023 13:14

Welliehead · 10/06/2023 13:06

FFS.

Are you serious?

This thread has gone way too far.

Nope, not serious. Just saying anyone claim they’re anyone on the internet.

Now I’ll leave all the MRA keyboard warriors to their fun for a while whilst I go out and enjoy the sun. Ciao.

CampCroc · 10/06/2023 14:15

When have you heard or seen your wonderful husband / son / brother etc. Alone with other men?
And then think about the friends they keep..
Do they have that 1 friend who is a bit creepy?
Or has raped / abused / been violent to a woman / used prostitutes / addicted to porn / all his exes are psycho etc.

Every woman knows someone who has been raped.
No man knows a rapist. If they do there's usually a reason why it’s not rape.

I read this ^ somewhere, can’t remember where, and it’s not a direct quote, but it really struck a chord.
Men make excuses for each other, to the detriment of women.
NAMALT goes without saying, but until the so-called decent men are consistently standing up and calling out shitty behaviour, then they are complicit. At the moment that rarely happens, and all too often the men who do call it out turn out to be using their position to be predatory and access women.

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