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AIBU unreasonable to ask houseguest not to use the hairdryer at 1.30 am?

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houseguesthair · 09/06/2023 09:27

I have a friend staying in my flat with her friend. Haven't seen them much as they're out visiting during the day till late and I'm at work during the day. It's a smallish city flat - 3 bedrooms.

Friend and her friend got back late last night and took long showers around midnight - I don't have an issue with that but wouldn't have done it at someone else's house if I thought they could hear and knew they were working the next day.

I then heard what I thought was the hairdryer about an hour later, I waited 10 minutes and it was still going so I got up and told friend of friend who was giving herself a bona fida blow dry in the bathroom next to my bedroom that it was too late to be using the hairdryer and that it was too loud for me and for the neighbors as she also had the window open. She grudgingly stopped and turned it off.

This morning I asked her while I was making coffee if she had slept well, she replied no in a really passive agressive way that she hadn't slept well because she had wet hair and had gotten bitten by mosquitos.

WIBU to ask her to turn the hairdryer off at 1.30 am? She seemed really pissed off with me this morning - even though I'm putting them up for free in a very expensive city for 5 days...

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T1Dmama · 12/06/2023 14:01

Glad the CFF left. Hope friend is ok and makes new friends… I don’t buy the ‘you made her feel uncomfortable BS’… who gets jealous over a few photos and is rude as result
CFF sounds rude, entitled and controlling/possessive

WindyGirl · 14/06/2023 23:03

Suggest your dear friend get therapy to find out why she is so excited about narcissists. You'll save her a ton of future grief.

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