We’re eloping anyway so the wedding itself isn’t an issue. I’d love a hen do but I only have two ‘real’ friends, both live too far away and then I have a several more people that I vaguely know / have lost touch with, I would say we’re loosely friends but not close enough to invite to something like that especially where they won’t know anyone else but me. Minor thing in the grand scheme of things but I feel a bit deflated, hopefully you only marry once so it would be nice to have a special build up
AIBU?
Embarrassed I don’t have enough friends to have a hen do
taratatata · 02/06/2023 16:49
Am I being unreasonable?
279 votes. Final results.
POLLSuccessstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
BodegaSushi · 02/06/2023 17:27
I agree with this 💁🏽♀️
How people can find a partner but not a friend is a mystery to me
Successstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
Successstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
GreekDogRescue · 02/06/2023 19:02
Where have all these mean girls come from?
BodegaSushi · 02/06/2023 17:27
I agree with this 💁🏽♀️
How people can find a partner but not a friend is a mystery to me
Successstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
BodegaSushi · 02/06/2023 17:27
I agree with this 💁🏽♀️
How people can find a partner but not a friend is a mystery to me
Successstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
Creative33 · 02/06/2023 18:02
OP don’t get down about this. I was exactly the same and felt I needed to expand the invite list, so I invited people who I knew well but wasn’t great friend with.. tbh I’m no longer in contact with any of the people at my hen party besides my sister and 1 other person! I wish I’d just had a nice meal with her and had a pamper sesh together… the ‘fun activities’ and night out were so false and it felt forced at the time.
Remember it’s all about quality and NOT quantity. A hen is what feels right for you, not what social media paints it to be.
You do you. I wish someone had told me the same
taratatata · 02/06/2023 16:49
We’re eloping anyway so the wedding itself isn’t an issue. I’d love a hen do but I only have two ‘real’ friends, both live too far away and then I have a several more people that I vaguely know / have lost touch with, I would say we’re loosely friends but not close enough to invite to something like that especially where they won’t know anyone else but me. Minor thing in the grand scheme of things but I feel a bit deflated, hopefully you only marry once so it would be nice to have a special build up
Successstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
Fighterofthenightman1 · 02/06/2023 18:03
Can you honestly not see any difference between a friend and a partner?
They're two completely different types of relationships with different expectations
BodegaSushi · 02/06/2023 17:27
I agree with this 💁🏽♀️
How people can find a partner but not a friend is a mystery to me
Successstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
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Successstory82 · 02/06/2023 16:51
Not minor in my opinion. My friends mean the world to me.
Why have you not developed friendships?
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