Like many on here, I took the OP at their word and tried to offer heartfelt support and maybe some advice. But sadly I think that we are being played.
Although I didn't post it last evening (my emotional capital on this and elsewhere had been spent for the day) I knew for sure (but partly hoped I'd be wrong) that the OP would be back to tell us all how very very wrong and delusional we all were, that a wonderful loving time was had with a sensitive and thoughtful gentleman. But I didn't expect it to be before 9.00am. Someone who regularly drinks to and beyond capacity and who needs a drink to ease their path into unwise sexual situations is unlikely to awake, let alone able to hop online to write lucid, coherent "see how right I was, it was all lovely and you are all wrong, jealous and mean" posts, including ongoing responses. I know this because I used to be like that myself. Many weekends were lost in drinking, hangover, sleep and more drinking. Posts online hectoring strangers for daring to care about and advise me would not have been possible until at least lunchtime on a Monday.
I'm sorry. I hate to write this, but there it is. If the thread remains then I predict further posts detailing loving messages and gestures from this sensitive mature lover to further prove us wrong. Time spent happy in each others' company. The daughter "finding out" and being delighted for them.
It was touching to see the outpouring of concern, kindness and advice offered by many on here, where MN threads can sometimes be a bleak place. It was nice to read what you kind people had to say.
As for @Ionlydrinkondaysendinginy , I can only wish you well again, and hope that you can get the help and support with whatever it is that you need to live a happy, healthy and fulfilling life. x