I think it gets better when we have a government who invests in this country.
I voted for Brexit - I took a view that the EU is too big, too unwieldy, resistant to change and is a useful place for politicians to hide. It provided a nice gravy train for failed domestic politicians of all member nations. I believe that you still be true.
this is an excellent point. I remember right after the referendum when a council in Cornwall asked the government for a guarantee of pound-for-pound replacement of EU investment/subsidies. And a resounding "no" was the answer.
The EU has its problems, the UK had the best deal out of any country, which is partly why bafflement at the decision is so pronounced. What with the return of investments, the veto, staying out of the Euro ... What leave really should have done, IMO, and i am still completely aghast that they didn't was run a huge series of campaigns, especially in EU funded areas of "What has the EU done for us?" and then spelled it out in words of one syllable.
My position is in my name: I was in the fortunate (in terms of my FOM being affected) of being able to get citizenship of an EU member country without fuss, but at some expense. (we spent about EUR 1,500 for translations and paperwork, passports etc as a family of 4 so not bad compared to UK prices).
Personally? it has affected me in terms of getting things to and from family and friends in the UK due to customs and awful post services. An anecdote, but replicated across 27 states and a few million people being inconvenienced at worst. But. Small businesses in UK who previously shipped to the EU? have lost a lot of business. Some SME have, as PP said, establised EU based operations in addition to UK ones, which ultimately benefits the UK company and thus the exchequer. But the jobs? they go to EU nationals. And their salaries are spent in their local/EU economy for the most part. (insert lesson on Keynesian multipliers here)
I was working in Frankfurt from 2017 to 2018. Typically for many people working there i had a small apartment for use during the week, and travelled to my home on Friday afternoon, returning Monday morning. Due to the thousands of people already doing this, small apartments were already hideously expensive and at a premium. There were also many "business accommodation" - basically upmarket student accommodation - offering titchy, furnished and serviced studios. Most of these were more than i paid for a 1 bedroom apartment with full sized kitchen. In 2017 when reality started to set in, the price apartments similar to mine doubled. I can imagine Paris and Amsterdam were similar.