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Dalai llama ask a child to suck his tongue

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Mooshamoo · 10/04/2023 12:49

Has anyone seen the new video of the Dalai Llama asking a child to suck his tongue. Yes. It sounds bizarre. But it is in the news right now. The video is out there. And the dalai llama is apologising on social media now

Im devastated! I went to see the Dalai Llama in India. He gave a speech on accepting and loving everyone, and that it didn't matter what religion we are. I always told people that it was one of the highlights of my life.

I went through life thinking he was a good person, that he was one of the good ones. To see this today, makes me think oh no is he yet another abuser.

Some people have remarked about this video that sticking your tongue out at someone is a greeting in Tibet.

However - the Dalai Llama kisses the child on the lips in the video, and asks the child to suck his tongue. It does not look right at all.

He has apologised on twitter now.

What do you all think?

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Sudeko · 15/04/2023 15:44

Yes, I searched the darkest recesses of the web just to confirm that there was nothing pre-April 2023. I reiterate my point about Silicon Valley chiefs being in the DLs pocket so I expect that they may be able to plant some misdated results if it becomes necessary.

Sudeko · 15/04/2023 15:44

Do not worry, we cannot bring down the cult but we see you.

pickledandpuzzled · 15/04/2023 16:14

Can you find the burble burble game documented please? It's a variation of the raspberry blowing game, where you make a baby giggle by blowing raspberries on her tummy. I remember it being mentioned by the Nanny in 'Nanny knows best' who wrote a book on baby rearing around the 1990s. She was saying that it's very undignified and we shouldn't do it. I think most families do, though.

What about the nose disappearing game? I've seen it in films, I'm not sure about books.

I think western culture is pretty widely documented in comparison with Tibetan, so it should be fairly widely referenced, and in English too!

pickledandpuzzled · 15/04/2023 16:16

Based on previous discursive technique on this thread, I'm going to suggest Sudeko is an agent of the Chinese government, or perhaps a Chinese bot, designed to inflame opinion and destabilise Tibet.

So my natural counterpart as the devout Buddhist cultist I am! Grin

Sudeko · 15/04/2023 16:19

You are wrong on both counts. It can't feel very satisfying to suppress the truth via unfair means. It speaks volumes about the value of your truth.
Blowing raspberries on a baby's tummy is very different to sucking an older child's tongue when you have never met him before.

pickledandpuzzled · 15/04/2023 18:17

Yet that is not what the game involves, apparently. It's a joke akin to 'Another biscuit? I'll be broke at this rate! You'll be eating me out of house and home!'

Anyway, you accuse me of being a Buddhist cultist and a pedophile apologist, neither of which I am, and I'll accuse you of being a chinese plant or bot on similar evidence- disagreeing!

We'll just have to watch and wait for all the accusations of abuse to pour out.

Sudeko · 15/04/2023 18:25

In an ideal world, if only.

pickledandpuzzled · 15/04/2023 20:26

I was all ready to be revolted and horrified, and of some bits I am.

Am I reading this wrong, though? Doesn't it just say that kids choosing to have sex with each other shouldn't be criminalised? And that sex offender laws should be applied equally to men and women?
That sounds fair enough, I guess it doesn't protect a 15 yr old being coerced by someone the same age, given how hard coercion is to police anyway.

"With respect to the enforcement of criminal law, any prescribed minimum age of consent to sex must be applied in a non-discriminatory manner. Enforcement may not be linked to the sex/gender of participants or age of consent to marriage. Moreover, sexual conduct involving persons below the domestically prescribed minimum age of consent to sex may be consensual, in fact, if not in law. In this context, the enforcement of criminal law should reflect the rights and capacity of persons under 18 years of age to make decisions about engaging in consensual sexual conduct and their right to be heard in matters concerning them.
Pursuant to their evolving capacities and progressive autonomy, persons under 18 years of age should participate in decisions affecting them, with due regard to their age, maturity and best interests, and with specific attention to non-discrimination guarantees."

Sudeko · 15/04/2023 20:33

🙄Big eye roll.

pickledandpuzzled · 15/04/2023 20:48

If it's decriminalising sex between kids and adults, then it's disgusting, shocking, abhorrent.

If it's supposed to stop kids having sex with each other being prosecuted then it's fine. I'd prefer we tried to avoid sexualising kids so early, and if we found our way back to kids being over 16 before they have sex it would be great, but I'd doubt they'd manage it.

I can't tell from reading it.

L3ThirtySeven · 17/04/2023 18:03

pickledandpuzzled · 15/04/2023 20:26

I was all ready to be revolted and horrified, and of some bits I am.

Am I reading this wrong, though? Doesn't it just say that kids choosing to have sex with each other shouldn't be criminalised? And that sex offender laws should be applied equally to men and women?
That sounds fair enough, I guess it doesn't protect a 15 yr old being coerced by someone the same age, given how hard coercion is to police anyway.

"With respect to the enforcement of criminal law, any prescribed minimum age of consent to sex must be applied in a non-discriminatory manner. Enforcement may not be linked to the sex/gender of participants or age of consent to marriage. Moreover, sexual conduct involving persons below the domestically prescribed minimum age of consent to sex may be consensual, in fact, if not in law. In this context, the enforcement of criminal law should reflect the rights and capacity of persons under 18 years of age to make decisions about engaging in consensual sexual conduct and their right to be heard in matters concerning them.
Pursuant to their evolving capacities and progressive autonomy, persons under 18 years of age should participate in decisions affecting them, with due regard to their age, maturity and best interests, and with specific attention to non-discrimination guarantees."

That’s how I read it too.
“With respect to the enforcement of criminal law, any prescribed minimum age of consent to sex must be applied in a non-discriminatory manner. Enforcement may not be linked to the sex/gender of participants or age of consent to marriage.”
This is highlighting the fact that in some countries girls can consent to marriage at age 12, well below the age of consent for sex in the same country. It’s a know loophole used by adult men to get to underage girls, because they see marriage as a waiver of the consent to sex age.

The whole second part only applies to “Moreover, sexual conduct involving persons below the domestically prescribed minimum age of consent..” So it would only apply if everyone doing the sexual conduct were below the minimum age of consent. This part doesn’t decriminalise sexual conduct where one participant is at or above the minimum age of consent.

What were there bits that were horrific?

L3ThirtySeven · 17/04/2023 18:32

I don’t see anywhere where the UN report is decriminalising sexual conduct between adults and children.
https://icj2.wpenginepowered.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/8-MARCH-Principles-FINAL-printer-version-1-MARCH-2023.pdf

I think I see what Liveaction has done. Instead of reading it as written “sexual conduct involving persons below the ….minimum age of consent” which as written excludes anyone at or above the minimum age of consent. Liveaction has read it as if it was written “sexual conduct involving persons below and persons at or above the…minimum age of consent….” Theyve put in what wasn’t there.

https://icj2.wpenginepowered.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/8-MARCH-Principles-FINAL-printer-version-1-MARCH-2023.pdf

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 13:37

GingerbreadBaking · 12/04/2023 09:49

Those men were not men of God, they were men that liked to hurt other males, especially Alter boys. They joinsd to financially, sexually and spiritually abuse a group of people, there were people saying many years ago that they planted people with a politician agenda in the church h and the church was one of the fisrt along with scouts long before the NHS or BBC would admit there was an issue. This is why every safeguarding serious case review shows that people Will protect their institutions, yet they are the same they are dishonest about it.

There were a tiny minority who hurt sexually hurt females, most within the Catholic Church wasn't male on male sexual abuse. Females were hurt in other ways, that was mostly female on female by females like Nicola Sturgeon who were likely personality disordered as those are the people who get into positions of power in the secular world and harm others.

I know this is an old thread, but I'm struck by this post about 'planting people with a political agenda in the church'. Do you mean they planted gay men and this was the political agenda? Or some other political agenda? What do you mean?

I'm not wholly convinced by that. Several of the worst abusers (Marcial Maciel for one) were old men ordained before the 1960s,. Were they also ordained as part of a political agenda?

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 13:38

GingerbreadBaking · 12/04/2023 10:42

Same with the male on male issue.

Do you think gay men are more likely to abuse than straight men?

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 13:47

GingerbreadBaking · 11/04/2023 18:26

I have thought the same about the CoE as the Anglican church reaches far due to past colonists spreading the faith.

The woke Queer ideology spread in the west comed from the left also.

Nobody can make a man do that to a child, though you have to question those who clapped and laughed along. It reminded me of those who clap and laugh along at a drag queen event of diversity including small children.

Are you saying the Anglican church is from the left and therefore bad?

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 13:50

GingerbreadBaking · 11/04/2023 17:48

From what I understand there are two types of seminaries in the Catholic Church and becoming a Jeusuit is avoided by those who tell on the others.

Are you implying that Jesuits have covered up the most abuse? They have high rates of coverup. The Brothers of John, Salesians and Marists have even higher rates of cover up.

Or are you implying that Jesuits have more gay men and are therefore more likely to abuse and cover up?

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 13:52

Sudeko · 11/04/2023 17:19

Given our leaders all claim to be higher ups in Buddhism and yet they have created a shitshow, I think the Utopia is some years away.

Well plenty of religions have corrupt followers in high places. Plenty of Popes even have been corrupt: that doesn't discredit the religion itself if the corrupt followers are not actually following its teachings.

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 14:05

GingerbreadBaking · 12/04/2023 16:19

It's the ones in denial that they are in a cult that get me, most people in a bog standard religion, group like Scouts or political movement will state that they are, the ones in denial are bizarre, intersectionality/Queer/diversity/inclusion/equality/GrettaCult - they will say until blue in the face that they aren't in a cult and be nasty and condescending abouts other's, it's really amusing. You don't get people who are agnostic or from a bog standard religion quite like the bolshy rudeness and arrogance of those who claim to be athiest yet are of the woke ideology.

I don't know, I think fundamentalists of any type can be extremely arrogant and pushy. Muslim fundamentalists are the most common but all religions have a few, generally a small lot though.

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