Jesus, 100% this. Why the hell have people latched onto this as an excuse to start a gender-war topic. Who cares, whether this murderer was male or female or halfway in between? It's so far off focus it deserves a comment like Roots has said.
the title of the thread, and thus the topic of this thread is around the reporting of the sex/gender of the shooter. Want to start a commiseration or in memoriam thread? have at it.
This is important (moreso because of the Trans Vengeance thing which had completely passed me by) because again and again we are hearing that the numbers of crimes that have previously been nearly always committed by men, are now being increasingly committed by women. Rape and violence, mostly. But a cursory look at photos of the perpetrator, or a quick skim read of accompanying articles, show more often than not, these are trans women. Men, in other words. So it's not necessarily the case that we need to target attempts to cut down the number of rapes/violent crimes, or increase prosecutions at women - we still need to target these things at men.
Reporting plays a part here. In this particular case, for eg, it would be interesting to know if this transition from young woman to young man is social, if there is more to it. Are they getting illegal testosterone from one of the TRAs who are gathering unused hormones from the trans community, to pass them - free and illegally - to minors who contact them. If this woman/trans man was taking testosterone, did that play any part in this. etc etc.
But as to mass shootings, in particular at schools, in the US? i am immune to them pretty much - in that i don't read the articles about the victims and their families - because i have cried enough over them in the past. It's like a circle of grief. In the centre you have the victim, next ring is their family, next ring out is their wider family, next is their friends etc etc. We, in the UK (unless we know any of the people involved, or have a connection to the school, town, state etc) are so far in the outer rings that we can look at the other aspects of this crime, to try to make it make sense to us. It doesn't make us callous or uncaring. This event is far away in a country over which we have no influence. Crying and rending our clothes does nothing to help the victims or their poor families.