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To be glad the Guardian have stopped describing the school shooter as a woman?

265 replies

Greatly · 28/03/2023 10:48

They headlined with the shooter being a woman yesterday.

Today of course we learn the shooter is transgender.

They would have known this yesterday.

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Whiteroomjoy · 28/03/2023 13:10

Ok, here’s a thought…given male pattern violence stems from testosterone (ok then culture adds to differences), do we know if this transgender male was taking testosterone? It is so very rare that women kill and even rarer for them to take multiple random lives .

CuriousD · 28/03/2023 13:11

Shocking isn't it.

Six people where murdered in cold blood, three of them children.

But all the "med'ja" attention will be on the killers right to have their choice of pronouns used.

FourTeaFallOut · 28/03/2023 13:11

Where is this Trans Vengeance call to arms - is this a real thing or one of those joke mistruths spread from disrupting corners of the internet just to see how far the lie can travel?

ItIsFiat · 28/03/2023 13:12

FourTeaFallOut · 28/03/2023 10:55

What you need to know is that, in the media, when a man declares himself to be a woman - then he is a woman. And when women declare herself to be a man - they are still a woman. This is abjection. Men get to have a sex class that excludes men who won't acquiesce to gender norms and also excludes the women who come knocking on their door.

Thus, whenever a transgender person commits a crime - regardless of their sex - it is always a woman's crime.

It seems so.

AssignedNorthern · 28/03/2023 13:15

FourTeaFallOut · 28/03/2023 10:55

What you need to know is that, in the media, when a man declares himself to be a woman - then he is a woman. And when women declare herself to be a man - they are still a woman. This is abjection. Men get to have a sex class that excludes men who won't acquiesce to gender norms and also excludes the women who come knocking on their door.

Thus, whenever a transgender person commits a crime - regardless of their sex - it is always a woman's crime.

This is 100% - shows the whole thing to be an absolute pile of misogyny

Gincan · 28/03/2023 13:15

TheHoover · 28/03/2023 12:48

Except they aren’t being reported as a woman. They were initially reported as a woman because the police initially said they were a woman because they look like a woman and are named Audrey. Then, the police clarified and media outlets changed their reports. So, this biologically female person committed murder and is not being reported as a woman, hence the OP. It’s completely incorrect to claim “when women who think they are men commit crimes, they are reported as women”*

I agree but hey let the outraged have their moments of outrage…..

Exactly....why let facts get in the way of outrage

DotAndCarryOne2 · 28/03/2023 13:16

Boudicasbeard · 28/03/2023 13:04

Are people missing the fact that major US trans orgs called openly for Trans Vengance and then this happened?

The politics of this is key to why it happened. Children are dead because online activists have convinced mentally vulnerable people that they are under threat and now one of them has lashed out in real life.

How is this any different to right wing shooters, Islamic terrorism or any ideologically driven act of violence.

It isn’t.

I missed this totally, yes. If that’s the case, it’s chilling to think that this woman has acted on that and changes the whole scenario to an act of terrorism.

SpidersAreShitheads · 28/03/2023 13:17

Brefugee · 28/03/2023 12:35

I don't know what it will take for the US to agree to reform their gun control laws. And when I saw reform, I mean radically reform. How many more children are going to have to die before someone says enough?! Utterly tragic

well, they won't so it's just a fact of life in the same way that plane crashes or car accidents are a fact of life (but more frequent than the former, mass shootings fewer than the latter but individual shootings? who knows)

It is interesting that in the UK after Dunblane there was decisive action, after Sandy Hook? we know what happened after that. The most tragic thing about all these mass shootings is that we know each time that it won't be the last.

It is perfectly legitimate to look into press reporting of events. I see pp thought it would be a good idea to not report on the shooter at all. I find that interesting (pretty much like the conventions now on reporting on suicide).

The shooter being trans or not (aside of the manifesto which i hadn't read about) is also neither here nor there, in the grand scheme of things apart from 2 points. One is that this is so rarely a crime committed by a biological woman that the sex of the shooter is hugely relevant. The fact that the shooter claims a trans identity is also hugely relevant. And clear and consistent reporting is definitely required here.

I agree with you on all those points. I included a reference to the gun control laws really for completeness, but yes, we know how pointless it is and that there's no real appetite for any change in the US.

The rest of my post was making the point that accuracy and consistency in language is important. According to some sources, the shooter had been living as a male called Aidan and presented physically as a male so the reporting of them as female is not consistent with how trans women criminals have been reported - and that's extremely relevant for crime statistics and data.

I read someone questioning whether the shooter was taking testosterone - we don't know how far they'd transitioned. If they were taking T, again that could be relevant because as we know from bodybuilders, supplementing with testosterone can cause serious aggression.

It's all relevant. For many different reasons.

Mirabai · 28/03/2023 13:17

DotAndCarryOne2 · 28/03/2023 13:10

I think it’s way too early to be trying to instil any kind of sympathy or empathy towards the killers’ mental state. I do get where you’re coming from. Her family will be grieving too, but it has to be said that all Americans are a product of their environment, and not everyone who has problems with their mental state shoots their way into a school and guns children down. And if they had close contact with her, surely her family must have had their concerns - if so, why didn’t they act on them ? There have been many, many school shooting tragedies, and each one has provided an opportunity for gun law reform. Nothing has changed, so you have to accept the status quo. I’m sure all of these issues will come out in time as the investigation continues, but now isn’t the time.

First I haven’t tried to “instill” anything. Secondly I didn’t suggest sympathy or empathy towards the killer, merely analysis.

There’s no such thing as the right time: the time is when these events occur.

I don’t agree that anyone has to accept the status quo on guns in the US. Every latest shooting increases the importance of challenging the might gun lobby.

amyneedssleep · 28/03/2023 13:20

The largely right wing American and UK media feel it is important to perpetuate the belief that female violence can be just as brutal as male violence. That way they do not have to report the reality that we are living in a patriarchal hellscape.

When a perpetrator of violence is trans, their pronouns are either respected (for transwomen) or disregarded (for transmen.) Bob's your uncle, more and more women are seen in the public eye as being criminals regardless of either their gender expression or their biological sex. There are no winners here, not trans people nor gender critics.

It is fundamentally transphobic to state that the shooter is female if you're also going to say in the same breath that they're trans. If their gender expression isn't important, neither is their trans status. It's at best a clarifying paragraph later in the article, not part of the headline.

I expect this absolute rubbish from right-wing-and-proud tabloid rags, but when coverage is meant to be impartial, it's absolutely infuriating to see blatant, harmful misinformation which is then recycled on here by people who hate transwomen and saw this as an easy win.

GailBlancheViola · 28/03/2023 13:21

SidewaysOtter · 28/03/2023 12:40

Maybe then it would be more helpful if people were just referred to as their biological sex regardless of how they "identify". Then there would be no confusion.

Precisely.

And the crimes committed recorded as perpetrated by the biological sex the person is.

Mangling language, definitions and pronouns is why there is confusion surrounding the perpetrator of this crime and their motive.

Keep it simple, straightforward and factual, report the truth, record the truth.

Haffiana · 28/03/2023 13:22

She was a woman who identified as a mass murderer.

I do not see what she felt about her gender has any relevance to anything or why it should be reported.

ItIsFiat · 28/03/2023 13:23

Boudicasbeard · 28/03/2023 13:13

Here is a link for doubters. It encourages attendees to admire the use of molatov cocktails at the original Stonewall riots. And asks that people organise events in their hometowns. Looks like someone took that seriously.

https://www.struggle-la-lucha.org/2023/02/09/washington-d-c-trans-day-of-vengeance-march-31-april-1/

UK public servants aren't having special days for all protected groups only certain ones, who get special treatment, despite the equality act stating such behaviour causes bad feelings between protected characteristics and shouldn't happen.

Look at the crime stats. The public servants keep bending the knee to woke ideologies that harm other groups, it is a form of worship as it makes others sacrifices to this idol they worship.

This is an excellent thread on this religion that's taken over.

mobile.twitter.com/ConceptualJames/status/1640413801609609225

Boudicasbeard · 28/03/2023 13:24

@amyneedssleep

It is not transphobic to point out that there is an inconsistency in the way transmen and transwomen are treated by the news media.

And it is also not transphobic to point out that parts of the trans community have been calling openly for this kind of violence.

Some transactivists online are openly celebrating. Others are upset that more people weren’t killed.

Is this something you support?

RedToothBrush · 28/03/2023 13:26

If reports are true that there was some sort of extremist manifesto, then that begs for examining online radicalisation.

I don't think there's any doubt that there is online radicalisation associated with trans activism going on.

Where the problem lies is whether there are certain political parties who don't wish for this to come under scrutiny. That's not ok. No area of extremism should be off limits because it just happens to be aligned with the correct political party.

And that's where I think there's real danger.

In the UK we are starting to break through that and say yes be sympathetic but no there's are limits to unchecked actions / lack of accountability / basic levels of safeguarding we'd expect as a norm in any other setting.

I think my worry is, some of the push to suppress any extreme activism if it exists here, will be about political protectionism.

I don't think it's political point scoring to want transparency on what's motivated this event. You can't prevent similar issues without having some of those perhaps difficult and sensitive conversations. And yes, now is the time to be doing it because otherwise it will be easier to just bury under the carpet until next time.

These events almost always follow a pattern. And they almost always have a series of red flags leading up to them. The individuals also fall through the cracks in society which has ultimately failed to look after them and instead has alienated them in someway.

Whiteroomjoy · 28/03/2023 13:28

To the Americans posting here

The real question however, is how the fuck did a young person get hold of guns, what are the USA going to do about it?
as usual, nothing, zilch
the statistics of mass gun perpetrated deaths form USA compared with other countries is appalling, yet USA voters seem to wilfully ignore the obvious for their stupid constitution that was never written to let school kids and general public wander into schools with automatic weapons.
its about money . It’s about machoism. It’s about weird conspiracy theory survivalist that seem to populate USA in greater numbers than elsewhere.
https://yubanet.com/usa/over-70-of-mass-shootings-in-developed-countries-happen-in-the-us-international-analysis-shows/
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-41488081
All those victims and families sent down a rabbit hole for years trying to deal with this and a country full of idiots in power who won’t let anything good come out of it. The population weeping and praying, or saying don’t use this incident to debate the shooters motives, instead of taking action. Another shooters family having to live with consequence of their troubled relative having easy access to guns who has taken this as a “way out” of their troubles and is easily enabled to do so.

Gun at a gun show in Virginia

Nashville school shooting: How many mass shootings in the US in 2023?

Charts explaining some of the key statistics behind gun ownership and attacks linked to guns in the US.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-41488081

Rowthe · 28/03/2023 13:28

Wanderingowl · 28/03/2023 12:34

She identified as transgender. The police, who have read her manifesto, confirmed this. Stop trying to disavow trans people who commit heinous crimes, quite possibly in the name of 'trans vengeance,' because it doesn't fit your chosen narrative. I don't know if we will ever get to know what was in her manifesto. I'm pretty sure that people working for The Daily Wire, headquartered in Nashville, will be using every local connection they have to get a hold of it. So we might. But there is certainly an implication floating about that this shooting is connected to her trans identity and the recent passing of House Bill 1 in Tennessee which is being dubbed a 'trans genocide' online.

I'm sure saying someone 'identifies as trans' would constitute a hate crime.

They dont identify as trans, they are trans.

Try saying it to anyone who says they are trans.

ancientgran · 28/03/2023 13:30

JaneJeffer · 28/03/2023 13:06

Please stop using this evil act as a springboard for your opinions
How is anything going to be learned if no one is allowed to express an opinion? Keep sticking your head in the sand and these mass killings of innocent children will never end.

It is too soon. There is a time for debating the wider implications but a few hours after 3 children and 3 adults were murdered isn't the time.

VenAqui · 28/03/2023 13:30

fuck me. People died. None of this even matters.

Hoppinggreen · 28/03/2023 13:31

Coffeellama · 28/03/2023 11:10

News reports suggest she hadn’t transitioned.

According to some views using male pronouns and/or saying you are a different sex to the one you were born IS transitioning.

Wanderingowl · 28/03/2023 13:32

And we have this 'look what you made me do, now do what we want or we'll do it some more' statement from the Trans Resistance Network. It's very, very, very important that we learn why Hale did what she did and if it is for the reasons that seem possible. This type of rhetoric stops being tolerated immediately.

r/Transguns, a sub reddit about trans people collecting guns for the coming fight back, was made private today, to hide what they talk about there from ordinary people that might be exposed to it. This isn't something that we can reasonably allow to be swept under the rug.

To be glad the Guardian have stopped describing the school shooter as a woman?
Beddfellows · 28/03/2023 13:35

Brefugee · 28/03/2023 11:26

Exactly this. A human shot 6 other humans 3 of them children. That is all that really matters.

it is the 89th such event in a US school. So i will continue to treat these tragic events in the same way they are treated in the US: it's just something that happens.

and i will focus on the reporting because that is really important at a time when women raped by trans women have to refer to their rapist's female penis, and the rapist as "she".

The 89th school shooting in the US - THIS YEAR.

Wanderingowl · 28/03/2023 13:36

Rowthe · 28/03/2023 13:28

I'm sure saying someone 'identifies as trans' would constitute a hate crime.

They dont identify as trans, they are trans.

Try saying it to anyone who says they are trans.

I don't doubt it probably would and in real life I'd be quite careful about who I'd use accurate language around.