...and who by no real fault of their own now might have something they care about denied to them.
I wanted to join the Gardai, or the Army, or if not become an Air Hostess.
Except at the time, I didn't meet the minimum height requirement.
The careers I cared about were denied to me by something I couldn't help being. Should the rules that were built around protecting the safety of the employee, or affecting their ability to do the job, be disregarded just short-arse me wanted the job?
Whether we like it or not, there are many many things that exclude us from things we would like to do. I just have to suck it up that my body is built the way it is and that I can't identify into a 5ft 9" body - or that I can demand that everyone pretend to be looking up at me because my feelings get hurt when I'm made aware of my ahem, shortcomings.
The truth of it is that for many transgender women, they don't want the third space. It's never been about them wanting a safe place to piss. If they had that space it's just a room and it doesn't validate them in the same way. I know I'm not explaining it right but they will never accept third spaces, third categories in sports. Everything is about pushing into womens spaces, and beating us at being women.