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To ask what stops you voting for Labour?

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Winniethepoohandtiggertoo · 06/03/2023 09:21

No agenda I’m just interested as Kier is on LBC this morning…

For me it’s the TWAW magical thinking, and not being convinced they would prioritise average earners, which I want to happen.

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MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 06:57

WiIson · 09/03/2023 00:27

Maybe not, but they've made it clear what pathway they would take if they did get in. Which is why I'd never vote for them. Until they had a massive clear out.

Yes and it’s clear they have believers such as Lammy and co with strong views that override women’s rights in favour of TRAs

I don’t think Starmer will do a clear out before the GE as he did with antisemitism.

GPTec1 · 09/03/2023 07:22

MarshaBradyo · 08/03/2023 22:39

I don’t agree as the left takes a different stance separating the two.

Sorry to quote again but if you read both TWAW lobby groups, you can't put a fag paper between them.
Both say a man can be a woman with the same rights as a biological woman and should be celebrated as such and both said this on IWD :(

Additional NHS gender clinics have been set up since 2020, there on in every region of the country and whilst not as awful as the Tavistock clinic, still offer all the services required to turn a man into a "woman" including a Gender certificate without surgery, so self ID via a clinic.

IMHO the Tories are just better at keeping the lid on debate in their party but both will remove womens rights & right now the Tories are doing it by the bucket load e.g avg childcare p.a is £15k, Gender pay gap highest ever, meaning women work for less and or have to stay at home - Progress hey?

ToodlePipYouLongHairedGit · 09/03/2023 07:30

twitterexile · 08/03/2023 19:37

It was the LGBT Labour account but EI is not a woman.

twitter.com/LGBTLabour/status/1633450878668623876

I read the comments underneath and one said is this a reCatcha robot test 😂

But seriously how can I vote for the Labour party who will not stand up for my rights as a woman.

I remember years ago my grandma saying if you are feckless, criminal or here illegally, the labour party will fight your corner.

Now, in this day and age, the mantra should be if you are a woman, the labour party will not fight your corner.

twitterexile · 09/03/2023 07:45

Additional NHS gender clinics have been set up since 2020, there on in every region of the country and whilst not as awful as the Tavistock clinic, still offer all the services required to turn a man into a "woman" including a Gender certificate without surgery, so self ID via a clinic

Evidence of this please.

MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 08:12

GPTec1 · 09/03/2023 07:22

Sorry to quote again but if you read both TWAW lobby groups, you can't put a fag paper between them.
Both say a man can be a woman with the same rights as a biological woman and should be celebrated as such and both said this on IWD :(

Additional NHS gender clinics have been set up since 2020, there on in every region of the country and whilst not as awful as the Tavistock clinic, still offer all the services required to turn a man into a "woman" including a Gender certificate without surgery, so self ID via a clinic.

IMHO the Tories are just better at keeping the lid on debate in their party but both will remove womens rights & right now the Tories are doing it by the bucket load e.g avg childcare p.a is £15k, Gender pay gap highest ever, meaning women work for less and or have to stay at home - Progress hey?

but if you read both TWAW lobby groups, you can't put a fag paper between them

It’s in the name, I’m not surprised they both have similar views in the same way say cat lobby groups would push for cat related policy.

They’re just a group of voters who have attached the party of choice to their name. They won’t run past their comms with the party and it will be their own views.

Imo it’s better to look at where the parties are heading and who makes up the strongest views and what they are. It’s easy to see with Labour that MPs like Lammy are not on the side of women and Starmer can’t make clear statements either. They are hide bound by TRAs

Nearly all western countries were hit by this ideology at roughly the same time. What I’m looking for is who will reverse from that position v worsen it. Labour will do the latter, Cons are finally showing reverse.

Seventytwosunsetstrip · 09/03/2023 08:21

Having lived in Wales in the past, under a Labour government, I can categorically say they aren't fit to run a bath, never mind a country.

Blossomtoes · 09/03/2023 08:22

Cons are finally showing reverse.

They’re saying what people want to hear. In every respect their policies damage women, they do nothing to improve the lives of women and children. Talk’s cheap.

Seventytwosunsetstrip · 09/03/2023 08:25

Blossomtoes · 09/03/2023 08:22

Cons are finally showing reverse.

They’re saying what people want to hear. In every respect their policies damage women, they do nothing to improve the lives of women and children. Talk’s cheap.

At least they know what a woman is !

MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 08:26

Plus Starmer and Labour are already telling people what they think.

Rights hoarding dinosaurs. People who want Labour to win might wave it away for whatever reason. No chance here. They can take a hike.

GPTec1 · 09/03/2023 08:26

Nearly all western countries were hit by this ideology at roughly the same time. What I’m looking for is who will reverse from that position v worsen it. Labour will do the latter, Cons are finally showing reverse

In what way?
Some conservatives have said the right noises but on policy? Don't see it.

They ve an 76 seat majority, they could remove/reform the GRA but this is not in their plans.

Being able and accepted to change your gender is alive and kicking under this Govt.
www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment/#:~:text=GDCs%20have%20a%20multidisciplinary%20team,typical%20of%20your%20gender%20identity

Blossomtoes · 09/03/2023 08:28

Rights hoarding dinosaurs was Lammy. Not Starmer. Not the Labour Party. One MP with the same view as Tory MP Caroline Nokes.

MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 08:33

One thing that’s evident from hanging around on FWR is how Starmer is perceived on this issue. Weak and a fence sitter. Not just my views but similar from left and right women.

Only those really wanting Labour to win would make make people wave it away.

Fine, their call, their party getting in supersedes this issue. But the arguments don’t convince.

GPTec1 · 09/03/2023 08:36

I like Caroline Noakes, her recommendations on the menopause where totally rejected by the Tories, Labour would adopt them.

Rights hoarding dinosaurs. People who want Labour to win might wave it away for whatever reason

I am critical of both parties on TWAW, some posters appear to take one side without any evidence for their choice.

I also look at what the Cons have done already to womens rights e.g my children are older now but 10 years ago i was paying about £4k a year for childcare, the same amount now would be over £15k.
Effectively removing the parents right to work would have removed mine!
We have by far, the most expensive childcare in Europe.
Another right removed is the right to a single sex ward and to be treated by the gender of a HCP of your choice.

Tories are very clever in their messaging but on action, same old.

C8H10N4O2 · 09/03/2023 08:36

Clavinova · 08/03/2023 09:25

There is no comparison between going to the local grammar school (alternative at that time being a secondary modern) which went independent rather than comp and the 45k per year Winchester.

Starmer's 'local' grammar school was 10 miles away from his family home and Sunak was a dayboy at Winchester, not a boarder.

When Starmer went to school many areas were still grammar vs secondary modern - there was no comprehensive option

Not necessarily true if the school was 10 miles away. Starmer's local council only covered his fees up to the age of 16 - he 'doesn't recall' how his sixth form place was funded - which leaves open the possibility that his parents (or another relative) partly contributed to his fees at sixth form. 'Doesn't recall' is just another example of how Starmer frequently evades answering questions.

Don't be ridiculous. I went to school in this era and in my area like many others the choice was get on the bus to the grammar school or go to the secondary modern. Ten mile journeys to school were not remotely unusual.

To pretend that the area grammar school is even remotely comparable to Winchester just because it subsequently opted to go indy rather than comp is stretching reality to nonsense even by your standards.

C8H10N4O2 · 09/03/2023 08:41

AintNoPartyLikeANumber10Party · 08/03/2023 09:51

Most of the posters on this thread I doubt have ever voted for Labour.

Your dismissal of us is horribly wrong. I strongly suspect many PPs have previously voted Labour.

Not only did I vote Labour until very recently, I was also a party member and an activist. I started as a teenager, collecting numbers at polling stations for Labour back in the 80s. In the last GE, I went door to door for our lovely local MP. I have told her that I can no longer support her, and why.

I am a Jewish woman and I can no longer ignore the way women and Jews are treated by the so-called progressive left. If I have to, I will hold my nose and vote Tory; I have daughters and I have a duty to protect them.

Yes quite a few posters on this thread are speaking from experience inside the party. I'm one of them.

But casually dismissing anyone who outlines the issues on the doorstep as a red Tory, a Tory, thick, influenced by MSM was a great strategy at the last election so lets wheel it out again 🙄

The comparisons with Blair are relevant not because Blair was some kind of saint - he was never my choice as leader. They are because he was competent, galvanised massive support across the country and communicated effectively with the public. The latter two in particular remain an issue for Starmer.

C8H10N4O2 · 09/03/2023 08:53

GPTec1 · 08/03/2023 10:36

When I was canvassing not just in 97 but in the years running up to that election people had a clear idea of what Labour stood for and were choosing Labour rather than simply voting against the Major government. To be fair, people were pretty clear on what they thought Corbyn stood for - they just didn't want him. The only Labour policy which pretty much everyone knows is around identity politics

I was a keen Blair/Labour supporter but in 1995, i didn't have a clue what they stood for, only that they weren't the Tories, it was all general ambitions, if you can link to specific Labour policies from say 94 or 95 i'd been keen to be proved wrong.

Blair said very little on specific policy until late 96/97.

TBF as well, Corbyn came very close to winning in 2017, his ideas were not that outrageous then but 2019 was a Brexit one and Labour had a very confused policy and their other policies were, at best, rather silly, like free internet for all, so tax payers give their money for the well off to have fibre broad band?
They over promised but they'd have lost regardless, it was a "Get Brexit Done" GE (3 word slogans are all we can manage)

Labour do not have a policy on id because the manifesto hasn't been written but the Tories have opened up many more NHS gender clinics to enable Self ID.

I see the Tories are already getting their 3 word slogans out there "Stop the Boats"

In local elections in the last couple of years running up to 97 people were pretty clear on Labour's priorities which were around education and opportunity. As I said upthread - details of policy such as £X to build Y hospitals etc go in manifestos in the run up to an election. The principles and priorities and ideas are what need to be out there and clear in the voters' minds.

I was canvassing in target seats and nobody was in any doubt about Blair's key messages and priorities.

Labour's manifesto in 2019 included self id, its absolutely part of party policy from conference. Every senior Labour spokesman has either enthusiastically promoted it or avoided the subject whilst reminding us about "the most marginalised community in human existence".

To suggest otherwise is to ignore reality which is why very large numbers of long term party workers are struggling with continuing to support Labour at the moment. Even after the Scottish fiasco not one shadow minister can even bring themselves to open up a debate on finding a pragmatic solution - its still adherence to the mantra or nothing.

WiIson · 09/03/2023 08:54

GPTec1 · 09/03/2023 08:36

I like Caroline Noakes, her recommendations on the menopause where totally rejected by the Tories, Labour would adopt them.

Rights hoarding dinosaurs. People who want Labour to win might wave it away for whatever reason

I am critical of both parties on TWAW, some posters appear to take one side without any evidence for their choice.

I also look at what the Cons have done already to womens rights e.g my children are older now but 10 years ago i was paying about £4k a year for childcare, the same amount now would be over £15k.
Effectively removing the parents right to work would have removed mine!
We have by far, the most expensive childcare in Europe.
Another right removed is the right to a single sex ward and to be treated by the gender of a HCP of your choice.

Tories are very clever in their messaging but on action, same old.

15 years ago, where I am, people paid well in excess of £12000 per year for full time childcare. That cost hasn't changed much today. It was a lot then. And it's still a lot now. But theres not been a huge rise.

L1ttledrummergirl · 09/03/2023 08:55

Blossomtoes · 09/03/2023 00:49

And so have the Tories. There’s absolutely no guarantee or even indication that they wouldn’t revert to May’s 2017 position. Caroline Nokes and Maria Caulfield would resurrect it in a heartbeat.

When we have a date for the general election, go to hustings, ask questions on the issues that matter to you. If self ID is problematic for you, listen to the answers given by your candidates and vote for the one that fits your criteria best. If you feel really strongly about them then campaign for them on those issues.

We don't vote for a party, we vote for individuals who are affiliated to a group at that time. Vote for the person who best fits your values, if enough are on the same page that will become policy.

Xenia · 09/03/2023 09:09

Obviously the Tories are best on the gender/sex issue. That matters to me but I vote in relation to the economy and personal taxation and on there I believe the Tories win hands down too. I am also against ULEZ coming out here thanks to Khan in rural outer london later this year which will cost me £4500 a year (so about £9k of before tax income). My Tory London council is opposing this so another reason to support the Tories who in so many areas now support the lower earner working man or woman

Blossomtoes · 09/03/2023 09:18

If congestion charging reaches your area surely it would be cheaper to buy a compliant car @Xenia? My Aygo is 3.5 years old and worth about £4k, if you bought it you’d be £500 in profit in the first year.

WiIson · 09/03/2023 09:19

Xenia · 09/03/2023 09:09

Obviously the Tories are best on the gender/sex issue. That matters to me but I vote in relation to the economy and personal taxation and on there I believe the Tories win hands down too. I am also against ULEZ coming out here thanks to Khan in rural outer london later this year which will cost me £4500 a year (so about £9k of before tax income). My Tory London council is opposing this so another reason to support the Tories who in so many areas now support the lower earner working man or woman

Yes I think I pretty much agree with this.

GPTec1 · 09/03/2023 09:20

Xenia · 09/03/2023 09:09

Obviously the Tories are best on the gender/sex issue. That matters to me but I vote in relation to the economy and personal taxation and on there I believe the Tories win hands down too. I am also against ULEZ coming out here thanks to Khan in rural outer london later this year which will cost me £4500 a year (so about £9k of before tax income). My Tory London council is opposing this so another reason to support the Tories who in so many areas now support the lower earner working man or woman

The Tories are getting rid of all fossil fuel cars within 7 years, i don't really see how that is helping lower earners.

You do know how much an average EV costs don't you?

We've highest personal tax rates since WW2, highest inflation of any comparable european country and one of the the highest energy costs in Europe.

Eurozone inflation 8.5%, France inflation 7%, Spain 6%. Even Italy the economic basket case of the EU is slightly lower.

& it will be mostly the low earners who are on NHS waiting lists.

With "help" like this, i'd rather not have Tory "Help"

WiIson · 09/03/2023 09:22

Blossomtoes · 09/03/2023 09:18

If congestion charging reaches your area surely it would be cheaper to buy a compliant car @Xenia? My Aygo is 3.5 years old and worth about £4k, if you bought it you’d be £500 in profit in the first year.

This is such a middle class response. Where the heck do ordinary people get 4k from? Particularly in the cost of living crises. Do people think that everyone has thousands of pounds available to just buy a compliant car?

WiIson · 09/03/2023 09:23

GPTec1 · 09/03/2023 09:20

The Tories are getting rid of all fossil fuel cars within 7 years, i don't really see how that is helping lower earners.

You do know how much an average EV costs don't you?

We've highest personal tax rates since WW2, highest inflation of any comparable european country and one of the the highest energy costs in Europe.

Eurozone inflation 8.5%, France inflation 7%, Spain 6%. Even Italy the economic basket case of the EU is slightly lower.

& it will be mostly the low earners who are on NHS waiting lists.

With "help" like this, i'd rather not have Tory "Help"

I don't think labour will change this. I think they will make it worse.

MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 09:24

C8H10N4O2 · 09/03/2023 08:53

In local elections in the last couple of years running up to 97 people were pretty clear on Labour's priorities which were around education and opportunity. As I said upthread - details of policy such as £X to build Y hospitals etc go in manifestos in the run up to an election. The principles and priorities and ideas are what need to be out there and clear in the voters' minds.

I was canvassing in target seats and nobody was in any doubt about Blair's key messages and priorities.

Labour's manifesto in 2019 included self id, its absolutely part of party policy from conference. Every senior Labour spokesman has either enthusiastically promoted it or avoided the subject whilst reminding us about "the most marginalised community in human existence".

To suggest otherwise is to ignore reality which is why very large numbers of long term party workers are struggling with continuing to support Labour at the moment. Even after the Scottish fiasco not one shadow minister can even bring themselves to open up a debate on finding a pragmatic solution - its still adherence to the mantra or nothing.

Appreciate the inside view.

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