My partner is not jealous at all

[Zamummy]

Would you feel unloved if your partner wasn't jealous? Is it a red flag or?

So you want your partner to feel a negative emotion and damaging emotion.

To prove they care?

That suggests you are the red flag.

No, I’d just think I was in a healthy relationship with a grown-up.

Why would anyone want their partner to be jealous? It's a horrible characteristic.

A red flag? NOT being jealous?
No....
Unless you're fucking someone else infront of him and he's just sat watching the footy...

And, yes, I agree with pp. It’s the person who wants their partner to be jealous that is a red flag.

No. It is the opposite of a red flag. A green flag?

Nope , my husband has never been jealous even when we were teens it's a negative insecure emotion to have

I have been married for 25 years. My husband doesn't have one jealous bone in his body.

Jealous of what exactly?

Surely it's a good thing?

At the risk of sounding patronising are you quite young?

Lack of jealousy I would say suggests there is a good degree of trust and respect.

Huh? What’s good about jealousy?

You sound like the red flag.

Jealous of what exactly? I find some of the ‘jealousy’ considered normal on here completely and depressingly mad — stuff like posters requiring opposite-sex friends of their partners be ‘retired’ as soon as they enter a relationship, or that going to the cinema with an opposite sex friend is ‘date territory’.

Grow up and accept you've got a good relationship that should be drama free.

This.

The greenest of green flags. Lack of jealousy shows emotional maturity.

I am 30.

You're the red flag, not your partner. Jealousy is a really ugly trait.

I feel like it's lack of care...

Are you talking about this possessive jealous trait that men have in things like 50 shades ?

There's a right jealousy and a wrong jealousy. If you're married to him and having an affair, he should rightly be jealous because legally you are pledged to one another and breaking your vow to him. If you've not made any commitment to each other and yet he's jealous of your interest in other men or vice versa, he has no right to be jealous.

😆 no!

This

Why on earth would you want your partner to feel jealous.

Bloody hell.