My partner is not jealous at all

[Zamummy]

Would you feel unloved if your partner wasn't jealous? Is it a red flag or?

Are you trying to make him jealous?

Do you mean that he doesn't act as if he would even care if you went off with somebody else?

What exactly do you want them to be jealous of? Jealousy is not a good trait

Not at all

Lack of care....surely it's a sign he trusts you and is happy that your relationship is strong. You sound like you are 30 going on 13.

I think you need to revaluate your idea of a healthy relationship. Jealous (controlling?!) men are awful.

No. I want him to make me feel like a man marking his territory and defending it lol

Maybe I am just confused 😕

What are you wanting from him then are you talking about him being jealous of another man showing you attention . If he's not jealous it's because he completely trusts you , surly that's a good thing

@Zamummy I'm sorry but I think you've been modelled unhealthy relationships if you think it takes jealousy to show care.

Jealousy is often a sign of insecurity and is not an attractive trait.

Have you been reading Mills & Boon?

Your attitude to romantic relationships is odd and unhealthy.

Would you like him to cock his leg and piss on you?

This has got to be a wind up

What do you want him to feel jealous about?

gross. Women aren’t men’s property or “territory”. This is a very toxic attitude. Why do you want that?

If you've made vows to each other, and said in public "all that I am I give to you", then it is right and natural that he would be "jealous" of you giving yourself to someone else. Same if he was breaking his vow - you should be jealous. If no promises are being broken and it's just irrational jealousy, that's different.

Have you shared this in real life OP? It's really unhealthy. I feel sorry for him!

What's the circumstances and what do you want from your partner?

I think feelings of jealousy are normal. But I'd expect DH and I to be able to talk about them in a civilised manner together. Not have DH mark his territory with me.

“mark his territory and defend it”

Whaaaaaat?! Somethings not right in your head for you to want this age 30.

You want him to be marking his territory and defending it, wtf?
You are a person not a cabin in the woods!

Come on now, this isn't real, is it.

Nope, and if my partner was that insecure that they felt that either of us should be 'marking their territory' I'd say that the relationship was toxic and should probably end

Wow. DH is the least jealous man I’ve ever met and it’s wonderful. I couldn’t be dealing with a jealous partner, it must be exhausting. I know a woman whose husband is jealous, he’s horrifically insecure (and is a bloody bully) and she basically now never goes anywhere (including to the shops) without him. No girls weekends away for her, no meeting up with us for dinners unless it’s a couples thing, no night out at the pub, she’s made her whole life all about him because his jealousy can’t handle anything else. What a way to live.
I’d try and find a way to be grateful, I know I am.

Uhhh no. What are you doing that you want him to be jealous of?

I would not in real life.

This sounds like you're looking for more of a BDSM sort of jealousy? Sub/Dom roleplaying?
If you want this for real then it's kind of abusive.