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If you got your period at someone’s house

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Terrysnotmine · 27/02/2023 20:01

Totally random but I’m suffering from being peri and periods all over the shop, I don’t always have sanitary supplies on me. If you got your period at someone else’s house what would you do?
Im thinking about putting a little sign saying ladies, supplies are in the upstairs bathroom, please help yourself if needed.
YANBU-great idea
YABU-far too weird

OP posts:
Endlesssummer2022 · 27/02/2023 20:10

I’d use bog roll if I was caught short. No need to put up a sign. Seems a bit performative.

Hesma · 27/02/2023 20:10

I’m peri… have products on me 24/7

Noicant · 27/02/2023 20:10

I always have some in my bag, family know to rummage around in the cabinets or will just ask.

LakieLady · 27/02/2023 20:11

I'm at least 17 years post menopause now and I was so paranoid about getting caught out by an unexpected period that I still occasionally find a few tampons in a long unused holdall or handbag.

I found an old and long forgotten toiletry bag among some stuff in the loft a few weeks ago, and sure enough, towels and tampons were in there.

Dudum · 27/02/2023 20:12

A sign 🤣

Lamelie · 27/02/2023 20:13

I’m getting this ad GrinShock

If you got your period at someone’s house
Swiftswatch · 27/02/2023 20:13

ShirleyPhallus · 27/02/2023 20:06

Instead of a sign, perhaps you could print a little pamphlet of essential info about visiting your home? Could also include things like taking off your shoes and whether to ask for a drink and help yourself.

I actually can’t even tell if this is taking the piss or serious!!

Precipice · 27/02/2023 20:15

Just put some somewhere in the bathroom the guests can easily access. By your replacement toilet rolls, perhaps.

I wouldn't expect to be asked, just as I wouldn't expect a guest to ask me if they can use the toilet paper or use the soap or use a towel to dry their hands. But a sign is just bizarre.

autocarrot · 27/02/2023 20:15

Mangogogogo · 27/02/2023 20:02

If my periods were all over I’d carry protection always tbh!

This is the perfect answer.

AffIt · 27/02/2023 20:16

How many female guests that you don't know particularly well and bathrooms do you have in your house?!

I keep tampons in full view, because I'm 43 and stopped giving a fuck about any 'modesty' around sanitary products about 20 years ago. I have some pads / liners kicking about that people would be welcome to take, but I don't buy them in or anything.

Most of the women visiting my house would either be people that I have an open enough relationship with that they'd ask, or family who would just root about anyway.

Also, as I am, as previously stated, 43, I've been carrying my own SP around with me for years, because if there's one thing that 30-odd years of menstruation will teach you, it's to be prepared.

Something about this post is a bit weird...

Maray1967 · 27/02/2023 20:17

I have supplies in the bathroom cupboard. DS’s girlfriend has needed them occasionally. Don’t have a sign though.

lunar1 · 27/02/2023 20:18

My periods can be all over the place, I wouldn't go anywhere with out an emergency supply! I have a basket in all the toilets in my house with supplies in so if guests are here they don't need to ask.

StrapOnYourHeroHair · 27/02/2023 20:22

Wouldn’t you just put some somewhere visible in the bathroom guests use? The sign bit is weird but I get that sometimes things catch people unawares so having them available is a nice idea.

autocarrot · 27/02/2023 20:23

I have a basket in the bathroom with loo rolls, tampons, pads, nappy sacks, wipes, etc. Visiting girls/women can help themselves as necessary. I also have a load of new toothbrushes, make up remover (though I don't wear make up) etc lying around in the bathroom - my DC often had friends to stay unexpectedly when they were teenagers and still at home, and random guests don't necessarily come equipped with toothbrushes and makeup remover.

MissHoollie · 27/02/2023 20:24

Weird weird weird
Adults can surely ask a friend if they have something .

BabychamGlass · 27/02/2023 20:24

A sign?

Where??

On the gate?

Beware of the dog

NO cold callers, NO junk mail please

Ladies, supplies are in the upstairs bathroom, please help yourself if needed

Hankunamatata · 27/02/2023 20:24

I have sanitary stuff on each toilet. Don't need it but easy to keep packet pads in each loo.

Timeflieswhenyourehavingfun · 27/02/2023 20:25

Put a sign where ?
I keep tampons and pads in a cabinet in bathroom. If a visitor was caught short I’d presume they’d have a wee rummage in the cabinet or ask and I’ll direct them to where they are stored.

Nomoreno · 27/02/2023 20:26

If you're in a restaurant- then sure....but in your house?

I don't think you need a sign. If you're worried leave a basket with a few tampons and towels in. I have some wicker basket drawers by my sink. Any female is going to think to open that if in need - especially as the tale all purple packaging is visible.

Nomoreno · 27/02/2023 20:26

BabychamGlass · 27/02/2023 20:24

A sign?

Where??

On the gate?

Beware of the dog

NO cold callers, NO junk mail please

Ladies, supplies are in the upstairs bathroom, please help yourself if needed

😂

changedforonenightonly · 27/02/2023 20:29

This reads a bit too Jessica yaniv for me

Iseethesilverlining · 27/02/2023 20:29

Have lots of teenage girls through, friends of DD. She put out a little basket with some tampons and pads by the toilet so anyone can help themselves if needed without having to ask, in case they’re embarrassed. I thought it was very thoughtful.

JudgeRudy · 27/02/2023 20:29

Are you Dylan Mullvaney?

Putting up a sign is weird. If I had an 'unexpected show' at a friend's house I'd ask if they had something I could use for now, but I'd probably go home and clean up tbh unless friend had suitable sanpro and I was sure my underwear was clean.
If things were that unpredictable I'd likely have spares on me all the time.

Luredbyapomegranate · 27/02/2023 20:30

Have you been reading one of those nutty modern etiquette guides OP?!

Just leave some in the bathroom. Signage not needed

LaughingCat · 27/02/2023 20:30

I don’t think that's weird - sometimes you’re caught short. I once grabbed the wrong handbag on the way out the door and then had to spend an excruciating seven hours on a train…and my period started.

Sometimes these things happen. A little note to say ‘help yourself if you need it’ would be really welcome in a friend’s bathroom as I’d be way too embarrassed to ask outright unless I was super desperate!

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