I found this dress totally unacceptable

[Whatwouldyado]

Would you wear this out to a restaurant? Wearing nothing underneath but nipple covers and thong?

just to be clear…this is an open all day brunch/lunch then tapas burgers kinda place. family friendly, kids menu crayons ect. Not an evening or drinks venue.

I was completely taken a back as to why anyone would think it’s appropriate to wear that to a kid friendly restaurant

couldn’t find a link to the actual dress but it’s very similar to this Kylie Jenner one.

AIBU here?!

detail missing incase it’s outing!

Looking at the pic that old post about donning 'edgy' clothing, only to realize you look like Suzi Quatro's fat nan, springs immediately to mind.

In which case, no, I definitely wouldn't wear it.

If another woman wore it in this setting (in February?) she'd look a bit of a Charlie and I'd probably just grin up my sleeve. Is that viewed as a 'cool' response? Nah, I'm just too lazy to be arsed.

PS. does my bum look big in this?

pmsl

I care so little that I can barely be bothered to say so.

I really dont get the whole showing underwear thing. Its purely to shock people/or for celebs to get in papers. There’s so many gorgeous dresses out there i’d buy with their money!

But it wouldn’t bother me and would make a point of not looking at them (as to wear that in the day, you are really just looking for attention).

This for me too 😬

I would not wear it,but I would not be bothered about what other people wear.

I personally wouldn't, but 10 years ago I might have 😅 in my area we all wander around in bikinis half the year though

I did a long time ago. You aren't young forever.
Although Yorkshire maybe wasn't the most sensible place for this dress sense.

I'm glad I did stupid things when I was younger and had the body for it.

I do think it is an evening look though.

Ah she's put her knees through it already 🙄

A friend has worn something like this to dinner but with a thong bodysuit under it. So a little more covered up at the front at least.

She's tiny and toned and looked phenomenal, but we were at a very high end restaurant in a fairly 'fabulous' location abroad.

She'd have looked a twat a Nando's in Nottingham on a Saturday lunchtime.

Agree with this - no adult, male or female has the right to expose themselves in front of children, and whilst that dress is not quite as bad as exposing herself it is still inappropriate outside of an adult only setting. In the evening and in adult only settings then hell yes, the woman can wear what she wants.

Other adult women might shrug and say so what, but I bet some of the kids there felt very uncomfortable. Not all, but some and kids can't articulate why and they can't just vote with their feet and leave. N othing to do with policing women. It is to do with protecting kids from adult behaviour.

She lives in Los Angeles, I’m sure she’ll be fine.

Not something I would wear but whilst I’d definitely notice and probably comment to whoever I was with I would be offended by it.

I think it’s inappropriate for a family restaurant.

You do realise the thread isn’t actually about Kylie Jenner…?! We don’t know where this took place.

I think it's very bizarre to say other people are "sexualising" someone wearing that. It's meant to be sexy and provocative, surely?

It's not like people perving over someone wearing yoga pants or some other items of eminently practical clothing and turning it into something it isn't, it's just recognising oh yeah, lacy, sheer, underwear showing, yeah that hits all the sexy lingerie buttons. Pretending it's not seems a bit like putting up your telescope to your blind eye.

And there are places to wear that sort of thing: nightclub - maybe, holiday -maybe (depending on where), bedroom - for sure, sex club - yep, red carpet - if you fancy, photoshoot - yep, etc etc.

There are places it's not really appropriate to wear it - funerals & weddings, office job, family restaurants, supermarket etc.

We all went out wearing inappropriate shit when we were young.
I couldn’t clutch my pearls about it too much, especially when I think of the things that I wore back in the 90’s! I once went to a Prince concert wearing symbols on my bra underneath a totally see through top. Those were the days!

Where would you draw the line though? If she had just worn the underwear without the lace cover up - which actually doesn’t cover anything up, would that be ok?

I doubt the kids were upset - do they get upset at the beach? - that's a b it silly IMO. Maybe a few of the adults got a bit distracted.

Absolutely!

Well, I'd clear the restaurant if I did it, so I don't think the owners would thank me 😂

Odd choice for a family friendly day time venue but I wouldn't be offended.

Thing is, I think that's a perfectly appropriate thing to have worn to a Prince concert.

If you'd worn it to the local Harvester of an afternoon, it would be a bit more eyebrow-raising. 😂

If that’s a kiddie friendly lunch with tapas outfit, what does going “out-out” look like 😂

Well said!

I'd laugh. It's not a terrible thing to wear just because there are kids there though. It's not like she's having sex in public. Just making a tit of herself.