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To think this ‘valentines’ m&s meal is rubbish?

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Dawbie · 10/02/2023 12:37

Would you be disappointed with this as your valentines ‘cheap’ meal? When you ask for steak, asparagus and escalopes and come back with this instead 🙄think the main is horrendous.

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Stewball01 · 13/02/2023 01:22

@QueenOfThorns
Bon appetit.

AlwaysLatte · 13/02/2023 01:34

Go and get decent Aldi fillet steak, it's really good. You get quite cheap and small cuts of meat in these meal deals.

MotherOfPuffling · 13/02/2023 12:37

To those asking about why asparagus takes so long to grow: it isn’t that the plant takes 2-3 years to grow, it takes two years to prepare the soil!

inappropriateraspberry · 13/02/2023 12:58

I picked up steak and truffle mac cheese, chocolate fondants and a bottle of white in Tesco today for £12. Got some asparagus and some flat mushrooms for 70p each in Lidl. Mac cheese is a side dish, but I'm veggie so that will be my main. Also some ready done potatoes reduced. Was loads of stuff available.

Pipsquiggle · 13/02/2023 13:03

I had my Waitrose Valentine's meal yesterday with DH - it was delicious. Best bit is that I still have loads of the cocktail left. Definitely worth a trip to Waitrose

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/02/2023 15:24

Picked mine up today. They had everything. Including steak and asparagus

Scallops
Steak dolphy pots asparagus
Profiteroles
Pink lemonade

Lucky Mr Blondes

To think this ‘valentines’ m&s meal is rubbish?
Shade17 · 13/02/2023 22:11

Not really sure what you want. Two quality steaks cost anywhere between £12 and £30 each based on the cut. Anything less and we are talking cheap butchers or poor cuts, and then you might as well go to the shops

Absolutely this. The steak I cooked last was over £90 for the two of us and was absolutely incredible. Realistically, the steak from any supermarket in these deals is shit. Supermarket fillet can be just about edible but you can easily tell the difference between that and good butcher sourced.

Blondeshavemorefun · 13/02/2023 22:22

£90 for a bit of steak

Blondes faints

FadoFado · 13/02/2023 22:25

Was it one £90 steak between the two of you or was it two £45 steaks?

Either way, I'm agog.

Skinnermarink · 13/02/2023 22:28

Oh that’s ridiculous. Sorry but I need more detail on what cut these £45 steaks were and where the bloody hell you got them from. Waygu was it? I’ve had beautiful steak in fairly expensive restaurants that hasn’t cost as much as that.

Benjispruce4 · 13/02/2023 22:29

Aldi’s aged rump steak is good. For £90 I’d want it cooked and served by a bronzed god on roller blades.

SaltnPeppaPig · 13/02/2023 22:42

Think OP should have gone for this

To think this ‘valentines’ m&s meal is rubbish?
GoodChat · 14/02/2023 08:23

Shade17 · 13/02/2023 22:11

Not really sure what you want. Two quality steaks cost anywhere between £12 and £30 each based on the cut. Anything less and we are talking cheap butchers or poor cuts, and then you might as well go to the shops

Absolutely this. The steak I cooked last was over £90 for the two of us and was absolutely incredible. Realistically, the steak from any supermarket in these deals is shit. Supermarket fillet can be just about edible but you can easily tell the difference between that and good butcher sourced.

Probably cheaper to buy a cow at this point

Shade17 · 14/02/2023 13:08

Skinnermarink · 13/02/2023 22:28

Oh that’s ridiculous. Sorry but I need more detail on what cut these £45 steaks were and where the bloody hell you got them from. Waygu was it? I’ve had beautiful steak in fairly expensive restaurants that hasn’t cost as much as that.

Fairly low grade Wagyu tomahawk but still outstanding. This butcher sells steak up to about £400/kg. A decent steak in a restaurant is £50+, I think the last one I had was £85 excluding any sides and TBH it was nice. I do eat a LOT of steak, quite often I’ll buy a 5kg piece of sirloin and break it down into joints and steaks, tends to end up about £15 per portion but is way better than anything from the supermarket.

Mozero · 14/02/2023 20:08

Shade17 · 14/02/2023 13:08

Fairly low grade Wagyu tomahawk but still outstanding. This butcher sells steak up to about £400/kg. A decent steak in a restaurant is £50+, I think the last one I had was £85 excluding any sides and TBH it was nice. I do eat a LOT of steak, quite often I’ll buy a 5kg piece of sirloin and break it down into joints and steaks, tends to end up about £15 per portion but is way better than anything from the supermarket.

Totally agree! I'm going to rant a bit but well, it's just the whole mindset of the OP that got us here and now it's the doubling down in the comments of getting the cheapest meat possible and saying it's somehow good as restaurant-quality meat, which requires quite a lot of mental gymnastics.

I mean, the majority of 'fresh' supermarket meat is trash, I do not understand why you bother eating meat regularly if it's not from a butcher you trust and have a good relationship with. Some really, really good bacon costs about £2 more than supermarket stuff but oh my god is it the best bacon sarnie you will ever have.

If you can't afford it, then do like I do and eat it less and have preserved meat like polish sausages, chorizo etc. Frozen fish is still fine for the most part as long as you're having it in soups. I usually do the same with salmon fillets, and I'll buy a whole half salmon + head for about £24 and that works out usually at about £2-3 a fillet and is generally better quality than most of the quick supermarket meal options you get off the shelves.

Eating fresh mackerel from a fishmonger (some ones do about 5 for £4 and you can get them cleaned and even filleted) vs getting less for more money comes down to two things and that is convenience and time, which is where supermarkets benefit and straight out of the pandemic, they've really reinforced that behaviour.

Looking further afield takes time and effort but the food is more personal and you know where it's coming from rather than questioning a sticky color printed logo that says 'Organic' and because you're so tired and stressed you'll take it's word for it, despite it being a very good chance that it's put there for marketing purposes and the supermarket has also employed a very fancy magic circle law firm to really push the boundaries of the word 'Organic, free-range, happy, smiley animal'.

So I get my veg and other regular items from Lidl, we get local farm producers to send us food, and when I want something fancier, I'll budget for it.

What really gets to me is how people justify having skinless chicken breasts, but the first thing they do is opt for the meat with no skin, despite that skin being better than the processed vegetable or 'blend of pressed and unfiltered and filtered' olive oils.

Just get the whole bird, cut it up yourself, and use it in different meals. Economy, leads to efficiency! Not the other way round...though the supermarkets have made an excellent sales pitch thus far.

FadoFado · 14/02/2023 21:16

I do not understand why you bother eating meat regularly if it's not from a butcher you trust and have a good relationship with.

life can be so baffling

Blondeshavemorefun · 14/02/2023 23:06

Guessing the average lesson can't afford £24 for a salmon to cut up and freeze

That's half the budget for the weeks shopping for some

Anyway my M&S was nice

Would like to try £90 steak

Would I be able to tell the difference between that and a big boy steak which is about £6 from sains or Aldi

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/02/2023 23:24

Looks fine to me (although I don’t actually like prawn cocktail myself). I’d want some veggies with it though!

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