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To think most people have *not* tried cocaine?

349 replies

bluegreygreen · 12/01/2023 20:36

On another thread, a poster states that 'most people have at least tried cocaine'.

I haven't, and family haven't. However, on threads about drugs there always seems to be a clear divide - either people haven't taken them, or everyone they know has.

So, for a very unscientific survey:

YABU - I have tried cocaine
YANBU - I have not tried cocaine

OP posts:
canyoutellemehowtoget · 12/01/2023 21:07

TheFormidableMrsC · 12/01/2023 21:03

I cannot imagine ever wanting to snort powder up my nose. No thanks!

I snorted crushed up ecstasy pills a few times. That was way worse.

housemaus · 12/01/2023 21:07

I have and most (70%?) of people I know/socialise with have at some point. I'm always genuinely surprised when people say they don't know anyone who has.

I grew up in a deprived suburb but went to uni with lots of very posh people and now work with mostly middle class people and it's across all social groups, so I don't think that has much to do with it.

Phos · 12/01/2023 21:09

Never tried it, never wanted to. I'm pretty sure if I had wanted to, it wouldn't have been hard to obtain, especially in the city where I went to university. I'm very anti illegal drugs though and would worry about potential effects.

My DH tried it once in his 20s but it did nothing for him. He lived in another country at the time, I'm not sure if it's more common there or not.

dolor · 12/01/2023 21:10

Nope, and I never will. It's the absolute devil.

lobsterkiller · 12/01/2023 21:10

I have done a fair few times, as have a lot of friends. I haven't touched for many, many years now and I'm quite shocked at how it's seen as being pretty benign. on par with having a couple of drinks.

toocold54 · 12/01/2023 21:10

I haven’t even though I used to smoke a lot of cannabis.

I do have quite a few friends who’ve done it but we grew up in a deprived area and I found cocaine is more prevalent in better off areas.

milkysmum · 12/01/2023 21:11

YABU.
Was completely normal in my circle in the past, both people known socially and professionally.
I haven't touch drugs for many years, I don't even drink alcohol anymore.
ExH declined to give up previous lifestyle, hence now Ex. One of his best friends was a headteacher and used more cocaine than anyone we knew.

KangarooKenny · 12/01/2023 21:11

Never tried it, never tried weed or anything else either. Never wanted to.

Msstakes · 12/01/2023 21:12

About 80% of my friends have (some last weekend). I have but find it makes me a terrible bore.

OrlandointheWilderness · 12/01/2023 21:12

God no. I know a few people who have but they are very much the minority.

SauteBaconHollow · 12/01/2023 21:12

Never tried any kind of drug. Abhore everything about drugs and, not sorry, I do judge those that use.

I so drink alcohol - full disclosure.

Leemoe · 12/01/2023 21:12

canyoutellemehowtoget · 12/01/2023 21:07

I snorted crushed up ecstasy pills a few times. That was way worse.

Oh thanks I can taste that now 🤢

CinnamonSquared · 12/01/2023 21:12

I did a stint in rehab because of it (and other drugs) 9 years ago. Happy to say I’ve been clean since then. It’s a hell of a drug if you have an addictive personality. And everyone I knew growing up did it too, just not as much as me.

Bayleaf25 · 12/01/2023 21:12

30 % have voted yes so far so it’s fair to say that it’s not rare (on mumsnet anyway).

Mavericksaviators · 12/01/2023 21:12

i left my ex because of his coke addiction, everybody I work with is a regular user. I’ve never tried it, I have no desire to either

Fushiadreams · 12/01/2023 21:13

Tried weed but that’s it, I’d never do anything else. But I have a couple of friends who have tried it all and in their 50s still do. I don’t think it’s big or clever.

one of my friends kids does. He is big into the London scene and parties very hard, he’s become so thin with it too. Thing is his mum hates drugs, I love him to bits but do worry a bit and I can’t tell her. She knows he’s big into the London party scene, but she doesn’t know about rhe drug use, she is so bemused by his weight loss.😔

Mamai90 · 12/01/2023 21:13

I have, it wasn't for me. It's used often in my friendship circle but personally now I wouldn't touch it with a barge pole.

Exdpisatwat · 12/01/2023 21:14

I was a waitress in top London restaurants for a few years. It. Was. Everywhere. All the managers, most of the waiters, a few of the support staff and basically all of the kitchen. Loads of customers on it too.

LeFeu · 12/01/2023 21:14

I haven’t, and to my knowledge my friendship circle generally haven’t, but there are a few I wouldn’t be surprised if they had! Generally we’re not a hard partying lot and like many others I’d not want to put money into a system that is supporting criminal activity.

canyoutellemehowtoget · 12/01/2023 21:14

Leemoe · 12/01/2023 21:12

Oh thanks I can taste that now 🤢

Don't remember a taste just STUNG like fuck.

Didn't stop me doing it again, though 😐

Class A are a mug's game. Attractive to me as a traumatised young adult, left them behind decades ago.

MrsR87 · 12/01/2023 21:15

I have never tried it and never will. I have however been offered it multiple times. I have also been in a centre cubicle of three in the toilets of a very upmarket pub in an expensive area and seen a credit card being thrown over from one end cubicle to the other and some rather obvious snorting sounds.

LolaSmiles · 12/01/2023 21:15

Never tried it and have never been in circles where people did. Most people I know haven't.

canyoutellemehowtoget · 12/01/2023 21:16

Exdpisatwat · 12/01/2023 21:14

I was a waitress in top London restaurants for a few years. It. Was. Everywhere. All the managers, most of the waiters, a few of the support staff and basically all of the kitchen. Loads of customers on it too.

Yes, my workplace was like this, too. My boss racking up lines in the cellar for us all to go take a turn while we were on shift 🙄

Leemoe · 12/01/2023 21:16

I have tried it. Not my thing really but ecstasy became difficult to source around here after the early 2000s so most people transitioned to lines of coke and the club scene changed for the worse.

I don't do any drugs at all these days.

COL1N · 12/01/2023 21:17

I have & most people I know have