At the end of the day, being an adult human female is shit.
There are lots of things we can rant and rail at - and quite rightly.
The one thing we can’t change is biology. When it comes down to the basics, we CANNOT change biology (no matter how some factions seem to think we can).
WE need to be responsible for our bodies, for our protection re pregnancy. There is no point railing about how it isn’t fair. There will NEVER be a day when a man can get pregnant and give birth. That is a basic, biological, fact.
Nothing can be done to change that. So, the most important thing women can do is to own that fact and act accordingly.
Do men get off lightly in this respect? Hell, yeah! Can we do anything to change the fundamental and biological fact? Err, no.
No man should, ever, have the right to expect what a woman should do regards to her fertility. Her body, her choice. But no woman should expect a man to cut off his chance to fertility.
Sadly, due to biology, the responsibility falls to the woman. Not to “protect” or “enable” men. But to make the decision for themselves.
I am old enough now to sort the wheat from the chaff. And I can categorically say that I would still never rely on a man to be my source of contraception. For him, it doesn’t really matter if it fails. It will ALWAYS matter for the woman. And, sadly, that is why the onus will always need to be on women.