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To think it's not on for H to eat dds chocolate.

192 replies

Bogiesaremyonlyfriend · 02/12/2022 11:49

Dd started her period yesterday, first one. I bought her a massive bar of galaxy as a little gift as she was a bit upset. She has had one line of it last night and taken one in her lunch box for school today as a treat. Husband has eaten all but one line of it, do over half the bar. I'm furious and think it's massively not on. He thinks it's chocolate and was left out so fair game.... He knew the reason for the chocolate and that it was something special for her. Dd2 knew not to touch it and hasn't even asked for any as she knew it was dds little treat and not for her (if she'd asked dd1 would def have shared)

OP posts:
Nanny0gg · 07/12/2022 00:41

BabyOnBoard90 · 06/12/2022 23:19

Very generous of you. But I can't promise I'll invest my limited time on this planet trying to understand the issues of Internet strangers.

Then don't waste your limited time posting something completely irrelevant that makes you look stupid as well as lazy

Nanny0gg · 07/12/2022 00:42

BabyOnBoard90 · 07/12/2022 00:41

I'd rather that than over invest my finite time on this planet on the issues of an Internet stranger.

But you enjoy yourself

I thought you had limited time?

BabyOnBoard90 · 07/12/2022 00:44

Nanny0gg · 07/12/2022 00:41

Then don't waste your limited time posting something completely irrelevant that makes you look stupid as well as lazy

Says the genius hounding random posters instead of providing constructive input to OP?

Couldn't care less how I look to anonymous forum dwellers. But enjoy building your reputation on here, hope it provides dividends.

Herejustforthisone · 07/12/2022 07:03

Jesus, who hurt that poster? Nut job.

kiwigeekmum · 07/12/2022 08:23

UGH, I want to slap him just reading your posts.

1: Get your daughter new chocolate. (Tell her exactly why.)
2: Call a lawyer and make an appointment.

Do them both TODAY.

AngelontopoftheTree · 07/12/2022 08:24

Herejustforthisone · 07/12/2022 07:03

Jesus, who hurt that poster? Nut job.

Don't know, but I had to laugh at the irony that they complained a different poster didn't give OP constructive advice. 🙄🤪

StopStartStop · 07/12/2022 08:25

My dad ate my unfinished Easter egg, probably around 1965.
He's ninety. I still remember.

And my mum said it was my own fault for leaving it in the cupboard (we weren't allowed food in our rooms)!

Pearls1234 · 07/12/2022 08:48

Bogiesaremyonlyfriend · 02/12/2022 13:23

I suppose the reason for starting the thread is because I'm upset and on my own so thought some solidarity would help.

I’m sorry there are a select few who don’t want to give that. Most of us are here for you! I hope your DD gets her replacement chocolate and H realises what a twat he’s being.

Absolutely understand though, it’s the reason I’ve never posted a thread after seeing the same story over and over - OPs just want somewhere to let things out and someone to talk to, then get ripped to shreds.

CombatBarbie · 07/12/2022 08:49

Bogiesaremyonlyfriend · 02/12/2022 12:00

He won't know she is upset. He won't get that someone could be upset over chocolate. To him it's just food, he saw it, he ate it. It's no bother. It's not special. Unless she actually cries he won't think she would be upset, and even then he will just think she is being silly

Well as she's just started, this may well happen in the future. I hate it when DH eats my chocolate, I buy him big bags of crisps but he'll eat them and start on my chocolate. It's rude and greedy!!

Nanny0gg · 07/12/2022 11:07

AngelontopoftheTree · 07/12/2022 08:24

Don't know, but I had to laugh at the irony that they complained a different poster didn't give OP constructive advice. 🙄🤪

I couldn't think of anything more constructive than LTB to be fair!

Bogiesaremyonlyfriend · 07/12/2022 13:47

Nanny0gg · 07/12/2022 00:42

I thought you had limited time?

This actually made me laugh. Someone coming on multiple times to say how they have no time to be on here!!

I do appreciate everyone taking the time to comment. I know it must seem stupid but every reply is read and it helps.y therapist says I minimise and am in denial so posting helps keep it 'real' and I convince myself I'm making it up or worse than it is so people coming on to tell me how bad it is helps me too! So please keep the support coming, it is massively appreciated.

And I have learnt to have a pretty thick skin so anyone coming on just to have a go is fine too. Plus sometimes tough love is required too!!

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Bogiesaremyonlyfriend · 07/12/2022 13:48

Dd was annoyed not upset but I had bought her another bar. I did tell her it was because of her dad and to keep it hidden away. I told her this shouldn't be necessary in a normal house but this is the situation we are in. He doesn't know I have bought her more and has made no attempt to replace it.

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Nanny0gg · 07/12/2022 14:13

Bogiesaremyonlyfriend · 07/12/2022 13:48

Dd was annoyed not upset but I had bought her another bar. I did tell her it was because of her dad and to keep it hidden away. I told her this shouldn't be necessary in a normal house but this is the situation we are in. He doesn't know I have bought her more and has made no attempt to replace it.

So what do you think you might do going forward?

Sprouttreesareamazing · 07/12/2022 14:17

Buy yourself a bar. Both be eating it when he gets in.

Then pack your stuff and go.
Shove the wrappers up his arse as you close the door...

AngelontopoftheTree · 22/12/2022 04:42

Hw are you doing @Bogiesaremyonlyfriend ?
I always keep you in my thoughts & hope you find the strength to leave soon.
💐🍫

Bogiesaremyonlyfriend · 22/12/2022 08:11

Thank you lovely, it's very kind of you to think of me. Yeah I definitely have the strength and 90% of the plan, just waiting Christmas to be over and then I'm off in the new year.

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AngelontopoftheTree · 22/12/2022 09:32

Good to hear @Bogiesaremyonlyfriend .
Take care of yourself, and check back in if you need us 💐
Merry Christmas 🎄

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